Wednesday, July 30, 2014

BEARING AND SHARING THE BURDEN

This Shabbat is Shabbat Chazon, the Shabbat of Vision, so-called because we read in the synagogue on Monday night the horrifying vision of the Book of Lamentations. Sundown Monday is the commencement of the fast day of Tisha B'Av, the Ninth of Av, commemorating the destruction of the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem, and numerous other calamities which have befallen the Jewish people on the same date. Please join us for a brief service, study and discussion on Monday evening at 8:00 pm.

There is a Jewish tradition to have public fast days in times of trouble, such as drought or famine or war. Even if you do not normally fast on this day, please consider doing so in recognition of the ongoing war between Israel and Hamas.

Parashat Devarim - Shabbat Chazon, the Shabbat of Vision
6 Av 5774 / 1-2 August2014
Torah: Deuteronomy 1:1 - 3:22
Haftarah: Isaiah 1:1-27 (Third Haftarah of Admonition)

Dedications and Calendar of Events follow.

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BEARING AND SHARING THE BURDEN
 
"How (eikhah in Hebrew) can I alone bear your vexation and your burden and your strife?" Deuteronomy 1:12
 
Rashi: "Even if I were to say that I will do so in order to receive a reward, I may not do so."
 
Rashi offers the traditional Jewish take on personal responsibility. One is actually forbidden to voluntarily take on a burden that might be greater than one can bear, even (particularly?) if one does so in order to receive a reward from God and/or the community. One may not voluntarily injure oneself (except to save a life); also, too much responsibility assumed by one person can actually do damage to the community.
 
But what happens when one refuses to accept any share of the burden for communal needs? R. Yosef Yozl Horowitz takes Rashi's comment and stands it on its head. He says, "Traditionally, this verse is read to the melody of Lamentations (Megillat Eikhah, from the first word of Lamentations), to teach us that if a person refuses to assume the responsibility for community needs, and thinks that by doing so he makes things easier for himself, he will in the end find out that matters will be worse for him, and he will remain alone and isolated. How (eikhah) does one dwell alone?" (From Itturei Torah) I would add that, as John Donne said: “No man is an island.”
 
We are forbidden to take on so much that we become a burden on the community. On the other hand, we are forbidden to neglect our obligations to the community. These two teachings together offer a great insight, summed up by Rabbi Tarfon: "You are not obligated to finish the task, neither are you free to neglect it." Avot 2:21
 
If we share the burden, it's easier to bear. That's community spirit!
 
Shabbat Shalom! And have a meaningful fast.
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom - ZSRS '00
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still." Isaiah 62:1
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Calendar and Dedications:
 
Candle lighting: 7:36 pm
 
Thursday: Jewish Federation Community Gathering in Support of the People of Israel – Valley Beth Shalom – 7:00 pm (please arrive early for security check)
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Join us for a joyful service, followed by Oneg Shabbat.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Monday: Tisha B’Av Service and Study Session – 8:00 pm.
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn. We resume Tuesday, 8/12.
Sunday, August 10: Celebration of the Life and Work of Selma Schimmel, z’l, at Sportsmen’s Lodge Hotel – 1:00 pm. Sponsored by Vital Options International. RSVP to: Terry Wilcox: twilcox@vitaloptions.org
 
This d’var torah is offered in memory of Helen Tomsky, who passed away on Tuesday. Funeral will be at Mount Sinai Memorial Park – Simi Valley, on Thursday at 2:00 pm. Shivah details pending. Condolences to Rabbi Mervin Tomsky and family.
 
This d’var torah is offered in memory of my grandmother, Sarah Flom, whose yahrzeit is 10 Av (next Wednesday) and in memory of Lynn’s grandmother, Martha Stern, whose yahrzeit is 12 Av (next Friday). May their memories be blessings.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of Israel’s fallen soldiers. May their memory and their sacrifice be a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all of the wounded IDF soldiers and all the wounded innocents in the fighting between Israel and Hamas.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Elsbet Brosky, Howard Ehrlich, Dr. Samuel Fersht, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Annie Rivera, and Helen Schugar.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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Thursday, July 24, 2014

CITIES OF REFUGE

28 Tammuz 5774 / 25-26 July 2014
Torah: Numbers 33:1 – 36:13 (Chazak!)
Haftarah: Jeremiah 2:4-28, 3:4 (Ashkenazim); Jeremiah 2:4-28, 4:1-2 (Sephardim) (Second Haftarah of Admonition)
 
Calendar of Events and Dedications follow. Full calendar and lots more info about our community available at: http://www.bethmeier.org/ 
 
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CITIES OF REFUGE
 
“You shall provide yourselves with places to serve as cities of refuge to which a manslayer who has killed a person unintentionally may flee.” Numbers 35:11
 
The purpose of the cities was to protect someone who was not guilty of intentional murder from avenging members of the victim’s family. These cities of refuge were only partly established. Although the Torah called for six cities, Moses established only three: Betzer, Ramot and Golan.
 
Rabbi Yochanan sees these passages as a metaphor for spiritual, rather than physical refuge. He asks, “Where do we learn that the study of Torah provides asylum?  From the passage, ‘Then Moses set aside three cities: …And this is the Torah that Moses set before the children of Israel.’” Deuteronomy 4:43-44; in B. Talmud Makkot 10a
 
One may understand Rabbi Yochanan in several different ways. First, the study of Torah protects one from unintentional sin - study teaches one how to act properly. Second, Torah study may serve as atonement for sin - it’s certainly better than physical punishment, especially the death penalty! Third, it helps one escape from the troubles of society - Torah is a safe haven in a world that seems out of whack. Be an asylum seeker. Any way you look at it, Torah study is the place to be!
 
Shabbat Shalom.
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
Blogging at: rav-rich.blogspot.com
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still." Isaiah 62:1
 
P.S. – I have found the following on-line articles, reflective of several points of view held by my rabbinic colleagues, particularly meaningful these past few days:
 
 
 
 
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Calendar and Dedications
 
Candlelighting: 7:41 pm
 
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of Ira Goodman, father of Ken Goodman, who passed away this week. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of Israel’s fallen soldiers. May their memory and their sacrifice be a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all of the wounded innocents in the fighting between Israel and Hamas.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Elsbet Brosky, Howard Ehrlich, Dr. Samuel Fersht, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Annie Rivera, Helen Schugar, and Helen Tomsky.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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Thursday, July 17, 2014

DON’T JUST SIT THERE!

21 Tammuz 5774 / 18-19 July 2014
Torah: Numbers 30:2 - 32:42
Haftarah: Jeremiah 1:1 - 2:3 (First Haftarah of Admonition)

Calendar of Events and Dedications follow. Full calendar and lots more info about our community available at: http://www.bethmeier.org 
 
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DON’T JUST SIT THERE!

"And Moses said to the Gadites and the Reubenites, 'Shall your brothers go to war, and you shall sit here?'" Numbers 32:6
 
As the Israelites prepare for the conquest of Canaan, the tribes of Gad and Reuven tell Moses they like the land where they are presently residing, and wish to remain there. Moses excoriates them at length. They finally agree to join in the fight, and Moses says they may return to the land, which was not part of the original patrimony promised by God, after they do their share of the fighting.

The commentary Tiferet Yehonatan (Rabbi Yehonatan Eybeschutz, d. 1764) expands on this verse. He says that the literal meaning is: "Do you think that when 'your brothers go to war' - when Israel is under attack from enemies - 'you shall sit here' - you will remain in peace in whatever country you are living in?" He says this is mistaken thinking, because a war in defense of Israel is a war for the survival of all the Jewish people, wherever they live.

By "Israel", he means not only the state of Israel and the land of Israel, but also "Am Yisrael" - all Jews. And the attack may be something other than the physical assault of armies or terrorists. It could be the rise of anti-semitism, overt or subtle, in one country or another. We see this playing out now in France, among other European countries.
 
Our rabbis taught - "kol yisrael areivim zeh lazeh" - all Israel are responsible one for another. We Jews have an obligation to do right by and to defend each other – and, dare I add, an obligation to speak out against the wrongful actions of our fellow Jews as well. The enemies of the Jewish people agree – when they claim, rightly or wrongly, that the State of Israel has done something wrong, they hold all Jews responsible – using it as a convenient excuse to play out the hatred they already had. This is not to suggest that the enemies of Am Israel would ever acknowledge proper action by Jews – they don’t. But that does not excuse us from our obligations.
 
When our brethren are under attack anywhere, we are all under attack everywhere. We are leading up to the observance of Tisha B'Av, which commemorates the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. Our rabbis taught that the destruction was the result of baseless hatred, between and among Jews, and between Jews and non-Jews. (BT Gittin 56a) We would do well to remember that silence in the face of hatred will not bring about the salvation of the silent.

B'virkat Shalom.
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
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Calendar and Dedications
 
Candlelighting: 7:45 pm
 
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all of the wounded innocents in the fighting between Israel and Hamas.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Elsbet Brosky, Howard Ehrlich, Dr. Samuel Fersht, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Annie Rivera, and Helen Schugar.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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Wednesday, July 9, 2014

ZEALOTS NEED NOT APPLY

Parashat Pinchas
Torah: Numbers 25:10 - 30:1
Haftarah: 1 Kings 18:46 - 19:21
14 Tammuz 5774 / 11-12 July 2014
 
Calendar of Events and Dedications follow. Full calendar and lots more info about our community available at: http://www.bethmeier.org 
 
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ZEALOTS NEED NOT APPLY
 
"Let the Lord, the God of the spirits of all flesh, set over the congregation a man who will go out before them, and who will come in before them, and who will lead them out, and who will bring them in, so that the congregation of the Lord will not be like sheep which have no shepherd." Numbers 27:16-17
 
Rashi, quoting Tanchuma: "Appoint over them a leader who will be patient with each and every one according to his mind."
 
Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk: When Moses saw how great Pinchas was, he was afraid that he would be chosen as leader, but he was not pleased with the prospect of having such a zealot as the leader of the Jewish people. He therefore asked God that the leader be a tolerant man and not a zealous one.
 
It seems curious that Moses would not want a zealot to lead the people after his death. This would seem particularly true in the case of Pinchas, who was, after all, "zealous for his God". (Numbers 25:13) What could be wrong with a man who is zealous on behalf of God?
 
Zealots are, in the words of Eric Hoffer, "true believers" who are by definition intolerant of any view other than their own. Intolerance all too often leads to hate and war. Regardless of religious or political persuasion, all who worship at the altar of their particular god of hate and who kill those with whom they disagree, are to be opposed – but within limits.
 
In the war against terrorism, we must nevertheless be careful to avoid fanaticism and intolerance ourselves, lest we become that which we fight against. Similarly, in our interpersonal relations, particularly in our discussions of the great issues of the day, we must avoid such zealotry. This Tuesday is 17 Tammuz, a fast day associated with the fall of Jerusalem to the Babylonians. We would do well to remember that the Talmud teaches that Jerusalem fell because of sinat chinam - baseless hatred. Rabbi B. Y. Natan, quoted in Itturei Torah, says, "It appears that the verse here hints that the way of peace is always better and more effective than that of zealotry and war." To which verse is he referring? "Therefore say, 'Behold, I give him my covenant of peace.'" (Numbers 25:12)
 
Shabbat Shalom!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
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Calendar and Dedications
 
Candlelighting: 7:48 pm
 
Friday: Family Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 1:00 noon. Although it is a partial fast day (17 Tammuz – 4:24 am – 8:27 pm), lunch will be provided for those who are not fasting.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of my mother-in-law, Helena Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on Monday. Y’hi zekherah liv’rakhah.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avram Yisrael ben Channah (Robert Flom), Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Elsbet Brosky, Howard Ehrlich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jayne Kaplan, Annie Rivera, and Helen Schugar.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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Wednesday, July 2, 2014

THE BEST PLACES

7 Tammuz 5774 / 4-5 July 2014
Torah: Numbers 22:2 – 25:9
Haftarah: Micah 5:6 – 6:8
 
Calendar of Events and Dedications follow. Full calendar and lots more info about our community available at: http://www.bethmeier.org
 
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THE BEST PLACES
 
"How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, your dwelling places, O Israel." Numbers 24:5
 
Bil'am, the sorcerer with the alleged ability to put curses on other people, was hired by the Moabite king, Balak, to curse the Israelites. God permits him to utter nothing but blessings. The blessing above is the most famous of these, and is said or sung as we enter a synagogue to begin the prayer service.
 
Over the millenia, innumerable commentators have offered explanations for this verse. A particularly meaningful one, for me, is given by the 16th century Italian, Rabbi Ovadiah Sforno. Citing other verses as proof texts, he says that "tents" refers to the House of Study – the beit midrash or yeshivah. The "dwelling places" are the House of Assembly – beit k’nesset - synagogue.
 
Certainly, these are the places where the vast majority of us have our encounters with God - studying holy texts and praying. I would like to take a broader view, by reading the terms "tents" and "dwelling places" in a more literal way. For one thing, we don't need to study or pray only at the beit midrash or beit knesset . We can do those things virtually anywhere. We can turn any place into a beit midrash, so long as we are engaged in the work of studying our holy texts. We can turn any place into a beit k’nesset, so long as we are offering up sincere prayers. But there is more, much more, to practicing Judaism. And there are more places, many more places, for practicing Judaism.
 
I believe we should read "dwelling places" as our homes, the places where we spend the greatest portion of our time. Then "tents" are temporary places, whether workplaces or summer vacation spots or hospital rooms or supermarkets. These tents and dwelling places, which may be anywhere, are the locations where we put what we learn and pray for into action - the rituals for Shabbat and Yom Tov, kashrut, tzedakah (charity), gemilut chasadim (deeds of lovingkindness)- any and all of the commandments. In short, wherever you are is the best place for practicing Judaism and encountering God, so long as you put forth the effort to make it good.
 
Have a wonderful Shabbat and a safe and happy Independence Day!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
www.bethmeier.org
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Calendar and Dedications
 
Candlelighting: 7:50 pm
 
Friday: CBM office closed - Happy Birthday, Uncle Sam! NO Shabbat evening service! Parking impossible due to CBS fireworks.
Saturday: Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am.
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn – Rabbi Flom away. Resumes July 15.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of Gilad Shaar, Naftali Frenkel, and Eyal Yifrach. May their memories be a blessing for their families and kol am yisrael – and all the Jewish people.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avram Yisrael ben Channah (Robert Flom), Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Howard Ehrlich, Jerry Forman, Debra Freeman, Ira Goodman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jayne Kaplan, Annie Rivera, Leo Roos, William Rosenson, and Helen Schugar.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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