E PLURIBUS UNUM?

13 Tishrei 5776 / 25-26 September 2015

Parashat Ha’azinu

Torah: Deuteronomy 32:1-52
Haftarah: 2 Samuel 22:1-51

Dedications follow below. For more information about our community, visit: www.bethemeier.org

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E PLURIBUS UNUM?

"The Lord saw and was provoked by the anger of His sons and His daughters. And He said, 'I will hide My face from them, I will see what their end will be; for they are a very unstable generation, children in whom there is no faith.'" Deuteronomy 32:19-20

Rabbi Moshe Pollak comments: "God becomes angry at us because of 'the anger of His sons and His daughters' - i.e., because the Jewish people fight among themselves."

Divrei Eliezer suggests what they fight about. Regarding "they are a very unstable generation," he says that the Jewish people are a nation of fast changes and contradictions. Even as they preach and seek peace and brotherhood, there are always many arguments among them. They create many organizations to help those in need, yet have many jealousies between them.

This is both wonderful praise and a stinging indictment! Yes, our Torah and our holy texts are full of exhortations for peace and brotherhood. Many of our people do practice what we preach. And yet, we just spent Yom Kippur confessing our individual and communal failure to fulfill those goals, among others. What are we arguing about? Who is the most peaceful? Who defines peace and brotherhood? (For another take on this issue of “the anger of His sons and His daughters”, see my Yom Kippur sermon at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/09/yk-morning-5776.html )

As for organizations helping the needy, the Jews are famous for establishing them, and succeeding. But how much more successful would the groups be if they would not engage in turf wars, or be jealous over each other's balance sheet? God knows (so do we all!) that there are enough needy people around - they don't need the helpers to waste precious time and resources in arguing over who needs the most help or who is the most helpful!

There is a lesson to be learned on these points not simply from the Holy Days just past, but the Holy Days to come - Sukkot. The sukkah requires us to live a minimalist existence, by the skin of our teeth. It helps us understand the most basic needs of those less fortunate than us. By sharing our sukkah with friends, family and members of the community, we create a sukkat shalom - a tent of peace. At the same time, the lulav and etrog set that is used during the holiday is composed of distinct parts, like the Jewish people, but the mitzvah of lulav and etrog is not fulfilled unless and until the parts are brought together as one - as a unit. Then it is shalem - complete.

Shalem and shalom - one depends upon the other. Only when our people come together in unity will we have truly formed a community of peace.

HaRachaman hu yivarekh otanu kulanu yachad b'virkat shalom - May the Merciful One bless us, all of us as one, with the blessing of peace.

Shabbat Shalom! Chag Sukkot Sameach!

Rabbi Richard Flom

Congregation Beth Meier

Studio City, CA

www.bethmeier.org

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Candlelighting:

Friday: 6:28 pm

Sunday: 6:25 pm

Monday: 7:19 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Set up Beth Meier sukkah – 10:00 am. Your help appreciated!

Monday: Sukkot Morning Service – 10:00 am

Tuesday: Sukkot Morning Service – 10:00 am. NO Lunch and Learn – Resume October 13. 

Friday, October 2: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Saturday, October 3: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Sunday, October 4: Religious School – 9:30 am. Pizza in the Hut at home of Rabbi Flom and Lynn Kronzek – 1:30 pm. RSVP appreciated.

Monday, October 5: Shemini Atzeret Morning Service, with Yizkor – 10:00 am. Simchat Torah Celebration – Dance with the Torah! – 7:00 pm.

Tuesday: Simchat Torah Morning Service – 10:00 am. NO Lunch and Learn – Resume October 13.

Trip to Israel – 11 November. It’s on! And there is still space available! Itinerary, brochure and other information are at my blog: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/07/trip-to-israel.html or I can send you a PDF version via e-mail.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Helen Gisser, who passed away last Shabbat. Condolences to Stewart Gisser on the loss of his mother. Y’hi zichronah liv’rakhah - her memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my uncle, Sidney Schugar, whose yahrzeit fell on Yom Kippur. Y'hi zikhrono liv'rakhah - his memory is a blessing. 

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah bat Devorah, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Leonard Foint, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Stephanie Kane, Philip Kovac, Marsha Meyers, Annie Rivera, and Gil Robbins.

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YK MORNING - 5776

YK Morning - 5776

My fellow congregants:

Shanah tovah! Gut yontiff!  It is really wonderful to be here with you today, to see so many of you here today, and to be davening here with you today - in fact, it is truly wonderful simply to be today!  I mean, it is wonderful to be alive – isn’t it?  We learn in Psalm 6, “In death there is no remembering You.” We learn elsewhere, “lo hameitim tihalleluyah” – the dead cannot praise God. So, BEING is good! Thank you all for being here for Yom Kippur, THE DAY OF ATONEMENT. I don’t know how you might feel about this, but as far as I’m concerned, if this were indeed the only day for atoning, for doing teshuvah, for turning oneself around, then the day is not long enough!

Thanks again to Barry Glass, Cantor Kerry Katz, Dr. Samuel Fersht, Linda Foster, Melinda Trauman, Warren Trauman, Leonard Foint, Elaine Kleiger, Jack Howland and everybody else who helped conduct our service today or will his afternoon or who helped organize it all in the background. It truly takes a committed, holy community – a kehillah kedoshah – to keep the flames of Judaism burning, and to organize all of this.

What I want to speak about today is ---- how we speak – in the broad sense, including oral speech, writing, emails, tweets, gesturing, making faces, etcetera - really, how we communicate. How we communicate with each other, how we communicate about each other, how we make others feel when we communicate, and what happens when, in the immortal words of the old film “Cool Hand Luke”, we have “a failure to communicate”. 

All of these, and more, make up much of the Al Chet, the long confessional that we recite many times over the course of these 25 hours of atonement and teshuvah.

Take a look, if you will, at pages 437-441 in your machzor. Look at this list, and see that most of them directly or indirectly concern communication– acting without thinking, speaking perversely, acting deceitfully, corrupt speech, wronging others, evil thought, insincere confession, disrespecting parents and teachers, desecrating God’s name, foul speech, foolish talk, fraud, falsehood, bribery, mocking, slander, extortion, false pride, idle gossip, wanton glances, haughtiness, effrontery, perverting justice, betrayal, envy, irreverence, stubbornness, tale bearing, swearing falsely, causeless hatred, breach of trust – all of this coming from our mouths or the modern substitute, the keyboard. All of this spreading far and wide through the miracle of the internet and viral social media.

This summer – the way we have been talking about Israel and the Iran agreement as it relates to Israel – the manner in which we speak to our fellow Jews in the US and in Israel, the way we talk about it with our fellow Americans – it’s all been, quite frankly, a shande - a shameful disgrace. It has indeed been shameful, and has done little to elevate Israel and the Jewish people in the eyes of Jews, in the eyes of Americans, in the eyes of the world. It’s not a question of getting our stories straight, or of speaking in one voice – it’s a matter of how we have presented ourselves to each other.

I mentioned to you last week the diversity one finds in Israel. It’s the same in every Jewish community. One of the greatest areas of diversity in Israel, in America, and in every Jewish community, is that we have diverse opinions!

Even in a homogeneous population, there is difference of opinion and practice and belief. The rabbis of old applauded these differences – that’s why, 1800 years before the US Supreme Court thought of publishing dissenting opinions, the rabbis preserved them in the Talmud. Not only that, they taught them - with respect. And the rabbis of today, even those with strongly held opinions, overwhelmingly understand the need for preserving and respecting dissenting opinions as well. This is what distinguishes Judaism from the other major religions. We are NOT doctrinaire, except perhaps in the most insular communities. There is no faith test to be a Jew, or to be a member of any synagogue. But suddenly, one’s very Jewishness and one’s very Americanness, if you will, are being questioned because of the opinions one has about Israel or about the Iran agreement.

One of the biggest knocks against Jews by outsiders, not just anti-Semites, is that – “the Jews all stick together!” They’re clannish, they don’t trust non-Jews, and when given the opportunity, they favor each other over non-Jews.

Whether any of that was ever true or not, it sure isn’t true anymore. These past few months have been horrifying in the savage attacks that Jews have leveled against each other in the most despicable language. And it has given permission for non-Jews to say the same things about Jews – for anti-Semitic tropes to be publicly stated and accepted as a matter of course because Jews uttered them first against fellow Jews.

When a well-known Jew accuses a rabbi, one whom many of you personally know and respect, when that Jew accuses that rabbi of being a tool of Hamas and Hezbollah because that rabbi favored the Iran agreement, when that Jew says that rabbi wants to destroy Israel, that Jew has given permission to other Jews to call that rabbi and other supporters of the agreement Nazi collaborators and self-hating Jews. And so I have heard it said! And so I have seen it written! And that permission extends to non-Jews, which is how a presidential candidate could say that people who favor the agreement are marching the people of Israel to the doors of the ovens. Yes, if you favor the agreement, you’re a kapo! That was too much even for agreement opponents like Bibi Netanyahu, who had to say that Israel knows how to defend itself and no one is marching the Jews anywhere.

It works the other way too. When a Jew accuses fellow Jews who oppose the agreement of being tools of AIPAC and the Israel lobby and the Israeli government, they are giving permission to other Jews to question the loyalty of those who have sworn an oath to defend and uphold the United States and its Constitution. And so I have heard it said! And so I have seen it written! This is why non-Jewish enemies of Israel - real anti-Semites too - can say with impunity that Senators and Congressmen opposed to the agreement have committed treason. These are slanders against all Jews – originating from Jewish mouths.

Ridiculous accusations have been made which ultimately result in each side violating what has become known as Godwin’s law, which holds that when someone in a discussion makes a Nazi comparison, he has lost the argument. Well, both sides have managed to do that. Both supporters and opponents have lost the argument and embarrassed themselves and the Jewish people in the process.

Each side accuses the other of having a position that will inevitably lead to an Iranian nuclear weapon. But no one, no one, has been able to produce any evidence whatsoever that anyone with whom they disagree has said, “The reason I have this position is because I want Iran to get the bomb and destroy Israel.” No one has said it, because no one in these discussions wants that! They ALL want to prevent an Iranian bomb!

What we have is that people of good conscience disagree over an important matter. But the arguments have devolved into what can only be called sinat chinam - baseless hatred – it’s one of the sins listed in the Al Chet! The rabbis taught that it was sinat chinam, baseless hatred between Jews, which led to the destruction of the Temple and Jerusalem and a 2000 year dispersion of our people. I don’t hate anyone, but I have lost an enormous amount of respect for people on either side of these issues because of what they have said about their opponents. The use of hateful language not only damages the person at whom the speech is directed, it diminishes the speaker as well. And it diminishes the listener.

And it diminishes even more the listener who refuses to challenge the hateful speech. Yes.

You know, one of the things that’s not in the Al Chet, but which really, truly ought to be, is silence. We have all learned the famous sayings of the German theologians Niemoller and Bonhoeffer.

Niemoller said:

First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out –

Because I was not a Socialist.

Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out –

Because I was not a Trade Unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out –

Because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me – and there was no one left to speak for me.

Bonhoeffer said:

Silence in the face of evil is itself evil: God will not hold us guiltless. Not to speak is to speak. Not to act is to act.

They were right, of course, but they were very late to the game. Our rabbis taught in the Talmud, 1500 years ago in Tractate Yevamot – sh’tikah k’hoda’ah damya – silence is regarded as an admission, silence is regarded as consent. Silence speaks volumes!

So, what do you do? What do you say, instead of being silent?

According to the Torah we are supposed to condemn the inappropriate behavior of others.  Specifically, in chapter 19 of Leviticus, we are commanded, “you shall surely reproach your neighbor…” (19:17). And yet very few people are comfortable telling someone else that they think their behavior is wrong. We don’t want to embarrass, we don’t want to argue, we don’t want to get involved – But here’s the problem – if you hear lashon hara, evil speech, you ARE involved – and if and you don’t speak up – that’s an indication that you agree. Sh’tikah k’hoda’ah damya.

The manner in which we reproach people for doing wrong is just as important as telling them. The verse in Leviticus that commands us to “reproach our neighbor” concludes with the words “and you shall not incur guilt because of him.” Rashi, the great Franco-German rabbi of the 11^th-12^th centuries, tells us that these words come to teach us that even though it is required to reprove a wrongdoer, it is a sin to do it the wrong way. To embarrass somebody through your rebuke is a sin.

Looking at the Hebrew of the verse, Rashi says that the verb to reproach- Hoche’ach tochi’ach is repeated to show that we are supposed to do it gently and little by little. According to the rabbis it is better to convince someone little by little that what they are doing is wrong, rather than attacking them directly and forcefully. Not with anger – with gentleness. But – you still have to do it!

There’s a phrase in the Amidah for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur that doesn’t appear in the regular daily or Shabbat Amidah. It’s “agudah echat”, translated as “one fellowship”. It’s not quite the same thing as what I spoke of last week -kehillah kedoshah – holy community. It has to do with relationships more generally, not just those having to do with religious practice.

Going back to the Al Chet - I wonder how many of us will utter those confessional words, those group admissions of all types of evil speech, and think that they do not apply to the things we said about our fellow Jews and our fellow Americans this summer. How many of us are going to justify and rationalize the hate which spewed from our lips and our keyboards because we think our opponents are not just wrong, but because we falsely believe they are trying to wipe out everything we hold dear? How many of us mistakenly and destructively believe that “agudah echat”, unity in fellowship, applies only to those who share our parochial political viewpoints? It is hubris and it is hateful and it threatens the fabric of our society.

Sadly, this type of hate speech is not new in American discourse, but it is spreading in American Jewry. I do not ask for unity – that would be Pollyannaish at best. We have never had unity of opinion. But I do ask for, no demand, that we treat every member of our people and our society with respect and dignity.

If you have not engaged in this type of speech, whether regarding the Iran agreement, Israeli government policies, American government policies or any other hot topic, then kol hakavod – all honor to you! But if you have debased yourself or others in this way, by speech or by silence, then this holy day season is exactly the time for you to engage in retrospection and self-examination and admit it! Look in the mirror and tell yourself you have been wrong! Admit it! And then go and admit it and apologize to the people you spoke harshly to, the people you spoke hatefully about, and ask for their forgiveness. THAT is how you develop agudah echat – a unified fellowship.

Some time ago, I was at the dentist’s office, trying to get some help for an exposed surface on my jaw bone that was quite sore. He explained I would need to keep my tongue from rubbing against that spot, even involuntarily, or the sore would remain. I began to laugh through the pain, and he asked me what was so funny. So I explained: “Jewish tradition teaches that the tongue seems often to have a mind of its own. It is hard enough for a human being to keep from using the tongue intentionally; doing what it was designed to do regarding food and speech. How much more difficult it is to keep it from moving involuntarily!” And what a metaphor my dentist had created in my mind – as our tongues move, even against our will, they can cause wounds that do not easily heal. Even for the speaker. Even for the innocent listener.

          Trying to avoid misuse of the tongue (and its modern counterpart, the computer keyboard), and trying not to pay attention to someone else’s misuse, are among the most difficult tasks we have.  In our society, lashon hara is regarded more as an industry than as a sin – and we are the lesser for it. We know that lashon hara hurts everyone involved – the subject, the speaker, the listener.  Think of the conflicts, large and small, that we create through evil speech. In the immortal words of Pogo, “We have met the enemy, and it is us.”

We all have the potential to be better than we are. Much better. Martin Buber tells this story of the Hasidic leader Zusya of Hanipol, which tells us a bit about self-improvement. Zusya is on his sick bed, dying, with his disciples gathered around him and crying. “Why are you crying, master?” his Hasidim ask, “what do you have to be afraid of? You are such a righteous man that God will welcome you immediately to heaven.” Zusya answered in a very still voice, “I am not afraid that God will ask me why I was not more like Moses, for there is only one Moses. I am afraid that God will ask, ‘Why were you not more like Zusya?” The Zusya that could have been – the Zusya that should have been. That’s the question – why can’t we be more like who we ought to be? Well, it’s not like we have anyone to blame but ourselves.

Chaverim, the answer is – of course we can live up to our potential for being more decent human beings. We have to better control our tongues, and reflect with our fingers off the keyboard before we hit the send button - even as we know full well that we cannot remain silent in the face of evil – evil deeds and evil words.

Yes, it’s hard. Why should it be easy? But if we are going to maintain our relationships with our fellow Jews and our fellow Americans, if we are going to fulfill this ideal of agudah echat, then we need to take seriously the words of the prayer book. We need to turn ourselves around through teshuvah. And then we need to go forward – to the day after.

I wish each and every one of you a g’mar chatimah tovah – may you be completely sealed for a good year. And I wish and pray also – harachaman hu yivorekh otanu kulanu yachad b’virkat shalom – May the Merciful One bless us, all of us, together as one, with the blessing of peace. Shanah tovah!

A MOST TERRIBLE SECRET

6 Tishrei 5776 / 18-19 September 2015

Parashat Vayeilekh

Shabbat Shuvah - The Sabbath of Return

Torah: Deuteronomy 31:1-30
Haftarah: Hosea 14:2-10; Micah 7:18-20; Joel 2:15-27

Dedications follow below. For more information about our community, visit: www.bethmeier.org

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A MOST TERRIBLE SECRET

“For I will keep My countenance hidden on that day, because of all the evil they have done in turning to other gods.” Deuteronomy 31:18

The first Gerer Rebbe, Rabbi Isaac Meir of Rothenberg, in his principal work “Chiddushei Ha-Rim” (1875), sees in this verse not a threat of punishment, but a promise of redemption! He says that as long as one knows, or even senses, that God’s countenance has been hidden, then there follows a yearning for reconnection with the Divine. This longing shatters every barrier between human and God. Indeed, he says, there is no teshuvah, no greater repentance or returning to God, than this wondrous desire to uncover the secret!

A true tragedy would occur if God’s countenance were so hidden that humans could not even sense that it was hidden, for then they would not search for it. This misfortune for the soul occurs when one pushes the Divine into a hidden realm; when one endeavors to withdraw from any connection; when one rejects the very idea of teshuvah - of turning oneself around. That is a most terrible secret to create and to keep.

“For you will search for Me and you will find Me; if only you search for Me with all your heart.” Jeremiah 29:13

Have a meaningful fast on Yom Kippur - Shabbat Shalom and G’mar Chatimah Tovah!

May you cause yourself to be completely sealed for a good and sweet year!

Rabbi Richard Flom

Congregation Beth Meier

Studio City, CA

www.bethmeier.org

Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com

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Candlelighting:

Friday: 6:37 pm

Tuesday: 6:32 pm

Friday: Shabbat Dinner – 6:30 pm (SORRY, DINNER RESERVATIONS HAVE CLOSED) Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew Class – 10:00 am.

Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn – Resume October 13.

Yom Kippur Service Schedule (all services at First Christian Church at Moorpark and Colfax):

Tuesday – Kol Nidrei Evening Service – 6:15 pm

Wednesday – Yom Kippur Morning Service – 8:30 am. Blessing of the Children, Minchah, Neilah, Havdalah, Shofar, Clean-up – 5:15 pm. (Yom Kippur ends at 7:30 pm)

Friday, September 25: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Saturday, September 26: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Sunday, September 27: Religious School – 9:30 am. Erect Sukkah – 10:00 am.

Trip to Israel – 11 November. It’s on! And there is still space available! Itinerary, brochure and other information are at my blog: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/07/trip-to-israel.html or I can send you a PDF version via e-mail.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Lenore Rosen, who passed away on Rosh Hashanah – Sunday night. Condolences to Carol Rosen and Connie Axelson on the loss of their mother. Her memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Lieba bat Fishel, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah bat Devorah, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint, Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Stephanie Kane, Philip Kovac, Annie Rivera, and Gil Robbins.

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THE ROAD TO HELL AND THE EASY WAY

Parashat Nitzavim

28 Elul 5775 / 11-12 September 2015

Torah: Deuteronomy 29:9 – 30:20

Haftarah: Isaiah 61:10 - 63:9 (Seventh Haftarah of Consolation)

Dedications and calendar follow below. See our web site at www.bethmeier.org for complete listings.

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THE ROAD TO HELL AND THE EASY WAY

“For this commandment which I am commanding you today is not hidden from you; it is not far away. It is not in Heaven, that you should say, ‘Who will go to Heaven and get it for us, so that we might hear it and do it?’ For this matter is very near to you, in your mouth and in your heart, to do it.” Deuteronomy 30:11-12, 14

R. Nachman of Bratzlav: “Only the path to Gehinnom (hell) is difficult and bitter. I see people spending restless days and sleepless nights plotting how to go about sinning, and afterwards there is regret, which continues for the rest of their lives. But the way to the Garden of Eden is an easy one, short and pleasant for those who walk it.”

Sometimes we make our lives too difficult. We devote time and energy trying to avoid doing the right thing, making excuses for bad acts, compromising principles, rationalizing our way out of truth, justice and righteousness. An acquaintance of mine, an ex-convict, once told me that the most difficult part of his criminal life was trying to remember all of the lies he had told, keeping them straight in his mind, not getting caught in the web of dishonesty he had spun. It would have been so much easier to be honest.

Rebbe Nachman teaches that same lesson in the context of following the ways of the Torah. With observance, with honesty, with righteousness, there are no regrets, no lies, and no guilt. In the long run, it’s easier to be a mentsch (a decent person) than it is to be a rasha (an evildoer). The Torah, the Tree of Life – “its ways are ways of pleasantness and all its paths are peace.” Proverbs 3:17

Shabbat shalom!

L’shanah tovah u’metukah tikateivu v’tichateimu. May you be inscribed and sealed for a good and sweet year.

Rabbi Richard Flom

Congregation Beth Meier

Studio City, CA

www.bethmeier.org

Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/

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Candlelighting:

Friday: 6:47 pm

Sunday: 6:44 pm

Monday: 7:39 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Family Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows

Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch sponsored by Avremi and Brenda Manzur.

Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Move synagogue supplies and books to First Christian Church – 1:00 pm. Please help!

Rosh Hashanah Service Schedule (all services at First Christian Church at Moorpark and Colfax):

Sunday - Rosh Hashanah Evening Service – 6:30 pm

Monday and Tuesday - Rosh Hashanah Morning Services – 8:30 am both days. Tashlikh following Monday service. Bring your bread crumbs!

Friday, 18 September: Shabbat Dinner – 6:30 pm (SORRY, DINNER RESERVATIONS HAVE CLOSED) Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Saturday, 19 September: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Trip to Israel – 11 November. It’s on! And there is still space available! Itinerary, brochure and other information are at my blog, http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/07/trip-to-israel.html or I can send you a PDF version via e-mail.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my grandmother, Cora Slome, whose yahrzeit falls on Shabbat, 28 Elul. Y’hi zikhronah liv’rakhah – Her memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Amram Manzur, whose yahrzeit falls on Shabbat, 28 Elul. Y’hi zikhrono liv’rakhah – His memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of our Founder and Teacher Rabbi Meir Schimmel, whose yahrzeit falls today, 26 Elul. Y’hi zikhrono liv’rakhah – His memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Lieba bat Fishel, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah bat Devorah, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint, Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Stephanie Kane, Philip Kovac, Annie Rivera, Lenore Rosen, and Gil Robbins.

My weekly divrei torah are also available by e-mail from the Cyber Torah list.

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FULL OF JOY

21 Elul 5775 / 4-5 September 2015
Parashat Ki Tavo
Torah: Deuteronomy 26:1 - 29:8
Haftarah: Isaiah 60:1-22 (Sixth Haftarah of Consolation)

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FULL OF JOY

"And you shall rejoice in every good thing which the Lord your God has given to you, and to your house, you, and the Levite, and the stranger that is among you. When you have made an end of tithing all the tithes of your increase the third year, the year of tithing, and have given it to the Levite, the stranger, the orphan, and the widow, that they may eat within your gates, and they will be filled." Deuteronomy 26:11-12

Rabbi Barukh Brofman: This is a reference to Birkat Hamazon (Blessing after the Meal) - "Do not let us need the gifts of flesh and blood". For this we thank God. Specifically - "You shall rejoice in every good thing - which the Lord has given you."

Tiferet Shlomo: The Torah adds "and they will be filled" to teach us that one must give generously - otherwise there is no blessing in it.

Most of us do not rely upon charity (tzedakah) - and we SHOULD be thankful for that. But our thanks (through Birkat Hamazon) are empty ritual if we do not do what we can to help others be in a position of thanking God as well. As the first verse implies, God has given every good thing to everyone - so it's up to us that actually have those things to make sure that they are also distributed to those that do not yet have them. 

We learn on Yom Kippur in Unataneh Tokef that "tzedakah reduces the severe decree". (See also Proverbs 10:2 and BT Baba Batra 10a – “charity delivers from death”) It does not mean that our charity saves us – rather, our tzedakah reduces the severe decree that might otherwise be imposed on others, the recipients of our gifts.

Celebrate through giving - then you and they will be filled - with joy.

Shabbat Shalom! Happy Labor Day!

Rabbi Richard Flom

Congregation Beth Meier

Studio City, CA

www.bethmeier.org

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Candlelighting: 6:57 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows

Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. Selichot Service – 9:00 pm. Join us to get in the mood for the Days of Awe!

Monday: Happy Labor Day!

Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Friday, 11 September: Family Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Saturday, 12 September: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Sunday, 13 September: Religious School – 9:30 am. Welcome Back! Rosh Hashanah begins – 6:16 pm.

Trip to Israel – 11 November. It’s on! And there is still space available! Itinerary, brochure and other information are at my blog, http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/07/trip-to-israel.html or I can send you a PDF version via e-mail.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Lieba bat Fishel, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah bat Devorah, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint, Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Philip Kovac, Annie Rivera, and Gil Robbins.

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