PESACH RESOURCES – 5786
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Chaverim yekarim - Dear friends:
Well, it’s almost time for Pesach! You know, the “Festival of Freedom”, the holiday on which we celebrate our release from slavery to Pharaoh in Egypt by abiding by the very strict dietary and ritual rules created by the Rabbis and Jewish Tradition, including eating the hardtack called matzah for eight days. Freedom, you say? God said, “Send forth My people, so they may serve me.” That’s how it is typically translated. But the Hebrew word for “so they may serve me”, “v’ya’avduni”, might easily be translated as “so they will slave for Me”. The root for “serve”, “avad”, is also the root for “eved” – “slave”. So, how do you manage Pesach in such a way as to avoid complete slavery?
Here are some simple rules:
1. Accept that you are not perfect – and neither is anyone else! You don’t have to do it all! You can’t do it all!
2. Prepare the house by cleaning and removing the chametz. A short but very useful guide to kashering your kitchen and home and identifying foods that are or are not kosher for Passover 5786/2026 can be found at:
Chaverim yekarim - Dear friends:
1. Accept that you are not perfect – and neither is anyone else! You don’t have to do it all! You can’t do it all!
2. Prepare the house by cleaning and removing the chametz. A short but very useful guide to kashering your kitchen and home and identifying foods that are or are not kosher for Passover 5786/2026 can be found at:
3. Prepare the food for the Seder.
4. Prepare the food for the remainder of the holiday by shopping for it before Pesach.
5. Prepare yourself and your family spiritually.
6. Prepare yourself and your family intellectually.
7. Do not drive yourself or anyone else crazy – see number rule #1.
8. Remember that Pesach really is about freedom; freedom is fun; have fun! See rule #7.
9. Any questions? Ask a rabbi!
5. Prepare yourself and your family spiritually.
6. Prepare yourself and your family intellectually.
7. Do not drive yourself or anyone else crazy – see number rule #1.
8. Remember that Pesach really is about freedom; freedom is fun; have fun! See rule #7.
9. Any questions? Ask a rabbi!
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Are you looking for ways to make your Seder more meaningful, more accessible, more involving for children, more interesting, shorter, etc.? Then check out these resources on-line:
b. Additional Pesach kashrut and other resources from the Rabbinical Assembly may be found at:
e. Passover according to Chabad in a straightforward manner. Lots of useful material. Follow the various links on this page:
g. How about a downloadable Haggadah? Check out:
Some of the very nice things about this Chabad Haggadah - it's a printable PDF file; it has lots of explanations of the hows and whys of the seder; and, it has a modern, accessible, non-literal translation. One drawback - it's 114 pages long, including introductory material and appendices. You can print only the pages you want.
A Google search for "free downloadable haggadah" will lead to some useful and many not-so-useful resources. If you go this route, be sure they are legitimate and not come-ons from Christian missionary groups.
h. Another very nice on-line resource is excellent, and includes material in Spanish and French (Be sure to follow all the internal links):
Exploring Judaism is a project of Conservative/Masorti Judaism.
i. Courtesy of the Rabbinical Assembly, a useful source sheet with discussion questions that is appropriate for group study or around the seder table can be found here:
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One of my seminary teachers suggested that, in addition to whichever Haggadah of choice you use for your Seder, you should every year acquire a new Haggadah with commentary and illustrations to help you prepare and make your Seder more enjoyable. Ask your local Jewish bookseller, consult with a rabbi, explore the web – there are beautiful and accessible Haggadot available. My Jewish Learning has a nice article about choosing a Haggadah for your seder here: https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/how-is-this-haggadah-different/
Here are some of my favorites for getting ready:
2. Adat Ari El is is holding an in-person Community First Seder this year, Wednesday, April 1, at 6:00 pm. RSVP at:
Temple B'nai Hayim is holding an in-person Community Second Seder this year, Thursday, April 2, at 6:30 pm. This seder will be at Adat Ari El - Russell Hall. RSVP at: https://tinyurl.com/TBHSecondSeder
For more information on the TBH Community Second Seder, contact the synagogue at (818) 788-4664 or office@bethmeier.org
For more information on the AAE Community First Seder, contact the synagogue at (818) 766-9426
3. DON’T FORGET TO REMOVE AND SELL CHAMETZ!! – AUTHORIZE RABBI VAN LEEUWEN TO SELL ON YOUR BEHALF NO LATER THAN 3:00 pm, March 25, 2026.
A fillable on-line form is available here: https://tinyurl.com/TBHChametzSale
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Rabbi Emeritus, Temple B’nai Hayim
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1


