Thursday, February 27, 2014

FINDING MEANING IN THE MUNDANE

Parashat Pekudei
29 Adar 1 5774 / 28 February – 1 March 2014
Torah reading: Exodus 38:21 – 40:38
Maftir: Exodus 30:11-16 (Shekalim)
Haftarah: 2 Kings 12:1-17; 1 Samuel 20:18; 20:42 (Shekalim/Erev Rosh Chodesh - Ashkenazim);
2 Kings 11:17 – 12:17; 1 Samuel 20:18; 20:42 (Shekalim/Erev Rosh Chodesh - Sephardim)
 
Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full Calendar of Events and lots of other information, please visit http://www.bethmeier.org
 
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FINDING MEANING IN THE MUNDANE

“Moses could not enter the tent of meeting because the cloud had settled upon it ("alav"); and the glory of the Lord filled the tabernacle.” Exodus 40:35

Etz Hayyim: It is unclear whether entry is literally blocked or is not permissible or that Moses dared not enter.

The writer David Mamet asks an interesting question. “But is there something in the notion that Moses could not enter the Tent of Meeting because the cloud rested on him?”(reading the word “alav” as “upon him” rather than “upon it” - the Hebrew is ambiguous) He goes on to suggest that when Moses was filled with the Holy Spirit, in direct communion with the Divine, he was thereby unable to act as a servant to either God or the Israelites.

There has lately been a quest by Jews and non-Jews alike for “spirituality”. These searchers want a connection with God that is uplifting, meaningful, emotional, etc. And often, they want it immediately - they want a moving personal experience when they want it. This is a difficult proposition for rabbis and cantors, clergy of all types, who cannot always deliver spirituality on demand. One also must wonder whether God takes orders in quite this way - or in any way at all!
 
I am not in any way denigrating the spiritual needs of people. I also desire that connection, however ephemeral or short-lived it may be. But whenever I am having my individual experience with the Divine in a way that is not through any physical act, such as meditation or even singing, or when my spiritual moment is divorced from the world around me (something that I do seek from time to time), I am not then able to fulfill the Divine will. That is to say, we are commanded to act in this world through gemilut chasadim (acts of loving kindness), through tikkun olam (repairing this broken world) and through tzedakah (justice or charity). One might argue these are only ordinary acts. But I think they are extra-ordinary. We all know that there can indeed be joy in performing these mitzvot. By acting as God’s servants, by feeding the hungry and burying the dead and cleaning up the Earth, we make the spiritual connection that God wants, even if it is not necessarily the connection we want, when we want it.
 
If indeed God is Hamakom, the One That Is In Every Place, then in a narrow sense, God is within us as well. Although we may seldom if ever experience an ecstatic connection with God, we can nevertheless have an emotionally satisfying connection whenever we want - by finding meaning in the mundane; in ordinary, everyday Jewish living. You want to find God?  Go - perform an act of chesed or tikkun or tzedakah and save the world! One small piece at a time.

Shabbat Shalom v'Chodesh Tov! Be Happy – Adar II is Coming!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
http://www.bethmeier.org

"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still"
Isaiah 62:1
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Candlelighting: 5:30 pm
 
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew Class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - noon.
Wednesday: (Re)Introducion to Judaism class– 7:30 pm.
 
Don’t forget to RSVP for the installation of Rabbi Flom (that’s me!) on March 9. Deadline for reservations is February 28. Contact Ken Goodman for details. Also please let Ken know if you have any items for the silent auction.
 
The Rabbinical Assembly's annual guide for Pesach is available on-line for download. It's not too early to start thinking about your spring cleaning and Passover prep! The guide is available at: rabbinicalassembly.org/pesah-guide
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of Roza Blady, who passed away on Sunday. Funeral was Monday. Condolences to Ben Blady and Sarah Ferman on the passing of their mother. Y’hi zichronah liv’rakhah – May her memory be a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Blimah Reizel bat Ruchel, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Eve Beatty, Howard Ehrlich, Bryon Fendrich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Steven Kleiger, Lizzie Legnine, Frank Marcovitz, Sheldon Mazo, Marshall Neiman, Phil Raider, Margeurite Rassiner and Neil Turbov.
 
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Thursday, February 20, 2014

TALK IS CHEAP



Parashat Vayak'hel

22 Adar 1 5774 / 21-22 February 2014
Torah reading: Exodus 35:1 – 38:20
Haftarah: 1 Kings 7:40-50 (Ashkenazim); 1 Kings 7:13-26 (Sephardim)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full Calendar of Events and lots of other information, please visit http://www.bethmeier.org

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Talk is Cheap

‘And Moses assembled together all of the congregation of Israel and said to them: “These are the things the Lord has commanded, to do them.”’ Exodus 35:1

Miginzeinu Ha’atik: “There is no problem when it comes to gathering people together: there are countless committees and conferences, meetings and sessions ... they speak, debate, argue, and discuss endlessly. That is why Moses commanded “to do them.” The purpose of your meetings must be action!”

‘(Moses said,) ... “(God) has endowed (Bezalel) with the spirit of God, with wisdom, ability and knowledge,  ... and inspired him to make artistic works in gold, silver and copper.”’ Exodus 35:31-32

Rabbi Y. Avida says that money can elevate people or bring them down to the lowest depths. With it, one can build a Tabernacle for God or construct an idol. The reason God endowed and inspired Bezalel is because one needs great wisdom to know how to use gold and silver properly.

Similarly, on the half shekel given by every Israelite towards the construction of the Tabernacle (Exodus 30:13), the Jerusalem Talmud says that God showed Moses a fiery coin and said, “Like this one will they give.” Indeed, money is like fire - you can use it to heat your house, or you can use it to burn down the house.

Judaism’s teaching is clear - money itself is morally neutral. How you get it and what you do with it are what matter - that is how you determine the kashrut of money. Ultimately, regardless of countless discussions about how much money the synagogue needs, the end result is a lot of hot air, unless we take action, and actually donate money to the causes that move us. Talk is cheap. Operating a synagogue, or any charitable organization, is not. If we talk the talk, but use our money for some ignoble purpose, all we do is bring down the house - God’s House.

Shabbat Shalom!

Mishenichnas Adar Marbim B’simchah! With the entry of the month of Adar, we increase joy! Be Happy!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
http://www.bethmeier.org
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still."  Isaiah 62:1
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Candlelighting: 5:24 pm


Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew Class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - noon.
Wednesday: (Re)Introduction to Judaism class– 7:30 pm.


Attention all (Re)Introduction to Judaism attendees and anyone else interested in attending! The make-up class for January 29 will be February 26. The topic and reading assignment are as follows: Even More Jewish History – The Late Medieval Period.  Reading: Telushkin – Part 4 – sections 105-116

The March 19 class will NOT meet and has been rescheduled for March 26. The topic and reading assignment are as follows: Anti-Semitism and the Shoah.  Readings: Leviticus 9:1 – 11:47; Telushkin – Part 7 (sections 185-206) and Part 10 (sections 240-247) and handouts.

Don’t forget to RSVP for the installation of Rabbi Flom (that’s me!) on March 9. Deadline for reservations is February 28. Deadline for tribute book ads is February 25. Contact Ken Goodman for details.

The Rabbinical Assembly's annual guide for Pesach is available on-line for download. It's not too early to start thinking about your spring cleaning and Passover prep! The guide is available at: rabbinicalassembly.org/pesah-guide

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Edith “Kitty” Schmerling, who passed away on Thursday. Funeral is Sunday at 11:00 am at Groman Eden Chapel, 11500 Sepulveda Blvd., Mission Hills 91345. Condolences to Noah Schmerling and the Schmerling family. Y’hi zichronah liv’rakhah – May her memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Blimah Reizel bat Ruchel, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Eve Beatty, Roza Blady, Howard Ehrlich, Bryon Fendrich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Steven Kleiger, Lizzie Legnine, Frank Marcovitz, Sheldon Mazo, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

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Wednesday, February 12, 2014

THREE REASONS FOR SHABBAT


15 Adar 1 5774 / 14-15 February 2014
Parashat Ki Tisa
Torah: Exodus 30:11 - 34:35
Haftarah: 1 Kings 18:1-39
 
Dedications and Calendar of Events follow. Full calendar available at: http://www.bethmeier.org
 
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Three Reasons for Shabbat
 
"And the Children of Israel shall observe the Shabbat; to make the Shabbat for all their generations is an eternal covenant. Between Me and the Children of Israel it is a sign forever; for in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, and on the seventh day He rested and was refreshed." Exodus 31:16-17
 
The Ten Commandments, at Exodus 20:8, instruct that Shabbat is to be remembered. The Torah instructs that no work is to be done, as a remembrance that God rested on the seventh day of creation. At Deuteronomy 5:12, it is commanded that Shabbat is to be observed. No work is to be done, as a memorial of Egyptian bondage.
 
Note, however, that in our verses, there is no mention of remembrance, and no instruction to refrain from work. The given reason is that Shabbat is an eternal covenant, a sign forever between God and Israel. But there seems to be a redundancy. If Shabbat is eternal, then what is the meaning of "all their generations"?
 
I believe that "all their generations" means our children, our grandchildren, our descendants. If all we do is rest, and remember creation and slavery, we are only observing Shabbat in two ways, or for two reasons. In a sense, creation and slavery were one-time events, part of history. But if we observe Shabbat for (and with) our generations, our children, we are observing Shabbat for a third reason - eternity. That gives Shabbat staying power. Even if we have no memory of creation or slavery, we have our descendants before us. Don't do it only for yourself - do it for your children!
 
Shabbat Shalom!
 
HaRav HaGa’on Abba Reuven Flom, Sh’lita
Der Heiliger Chelmer Rebbe
Mishenichnas Adar, Marbim B’Simcha.
From the beginning of Adar, we increase joy.
 
"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still" Isaiah 62:1
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Candle lighting: 5:17 pm
 
Friday: Family and Religious School Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: NO Religious School or Adult Hebrew class – Presidents’ Day.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - noon.
Wednesday: (Re)Introduction to Judaism class – 7:30 pm.
 
Don’t forget to RSVP for the installation of Rabbi Flom (that’s me!) on March 9. Deadline for reservations is February 28. Deadline for tribute book ads is February 25. Contact Ken Goodman for details.
 
The Rabbinical Assembly's annual guide for Pesach is available on-line for download. It's not too early to start thinking about your spring cleaning and Passover prep! The guide is available at: rabbinicalassembly.org/pesah-guide
 
This d'var torah is offered in honor of my sister and brother-in-law, Lorrie Flom and Dr. Jay Goodman, celebrating their wedding anniversary this Friday, February 14. Mazal tov!
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Blimah Reizel bat Ruchel, Dov Nechemya Hakohen ben Rachel Chaya Sarah, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Connie Rosen Axelson, Eve Beatty, Howard Ehrlich, Joshua Erenmark, Bryon Fendrich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Steven Kleiger, Lizzie Legnine, Frank Marcovitz, Sheldon Mazo, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list. PLEASE NOTE: I am purging this list next week – ALL NAMES will be removed unless I hear otherwise.
 
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Friday, February 7, 2014

DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO OUT!

Parashat Tetzaveh
8 Adar 1 5774 / 7-8 February 2014
Torah: Exodus 27:20 - 30:10
Haftarah: Ezekiel 43:10-27

Dedications and Calendar of Events follow. Full calendar available at: http://www.bethmeier.org 

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Don't Let The Light Go Out!

"And you will command the Israelites to take to you clear oil of beaten olives for lighting, to give off light continually." Exodus 27:20

Jewish law requires that a symbolic Ner Tamid, a continuous lamp, also known as the Eternal Light, be found in every synagogue. Interestingly, this is the only mitzvah associated with the Tabernacle that is still observed today. (Rabbi Harold Kushner, in Humash Etz Hayyim) Why do we still observe this commandment, in altered form, today?

The Talmud says that the Ner Tamid of the Tabernacle and Temple is symbolic of the Shekhinah, God's Divine Presence. The Midrash adds that the Ner Tamid symbolizes the spiritual light that emanated from the Temple. Rabbi Kushner suggests that light, a favorite symbol of God, cannot be seen - we are aware of it only when we are able to see other things. For all these reasons, we sense God's presence in the world when we see the wonders of creation. Thus, the Ner Tamid is a reminder of what was, what is, and what will be.



It also reminds us that God is always with us, giving off light, even if we are unable to detect the source of the light. We find that light in the synagogue, more than any other place, because that is most often where we seek to draw close to God. It is where we pray and study together, where we hear the reading of the Torah, where we celebrate occasions both joyful and mournful. And if that is so, then the commandment to keep the lamp burning continually takes on added significance - the lamp must have a place where it can be lit! There must be a synagogue, built up and supported by the entire community, in order for the lamp to exist. Take an active role in your synagogue - don't let the light go out!

Shabbat Shalom!

HaRav HaGa’on Abba Reuven Flom, Sh’lita
Rosh Yeshivah - Shlabodkieville
Mishenichnas Adar, Marbim B’Simcha.
From the beginning of Adar, we increase joy.

"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still" Isaiah 62:1
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Candle lighting: 5:11 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - noon.
Wednesday: (Re)Introduction to Judaism class – 7:30 pm.

The Rabbinical Assembly's annual guide for Pesach is available on-line for download. It's not too early to start thinking about your spring cleaning and Passover prep! The guide is available at: rabbinicalassembly.org/pesah-guide

This d'var torah is offered in honor of my sister and brother-in-law, Lorrie Flom and Dr. Jay Goodman, celebrating their wedding anniversary this coming week, on Friday, February 14. Mazal tov!
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Blimah Reizel bat Ruchel, Dov Nechemya Hakohen ben Rachel Chaya Sarah, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Connie Rosen Axelson, Eve Beatty, Howard Ehrlich, Joshua Erenmark, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Steven Kleiger, Lizzie Legnine, Frank Marcovitz, Sheldon Mazo, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.
 
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