Thursday, June 25, 2015

THE KASHRUTH OF MONEY

Parashat Chukkat
10 Tammuz 5775 / 26-27 June 2015
Torah: Numbers 19:1 – 22:1
Haftarah: Judges 11:1-33

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THE KASHRUTH OF MONEY

"The princes dug the well; the nobles of the people dug it, by the direction of the lawgiver, with their staves. And from the wilderness they went to Mattanah." Numbers 21:18

The following story appears in Itturei Torah, a compilation of commentaries:

A rich man who had acquired his wealth by illegal means came to Rabbi Yisrael of Rozhin. The man brought a pitka - a note asking the rabbi to pray for him - and a pidyon - a gift of money (literally, “redemption”). The rabbi accepted the note but not the gift, saying, "The Torah says 'from the wilderness to Mattanah.'" The wilderness is symbolic of uprightness and purity, for according to tradition, it is a place where there is no theft. Only from one whose money is obtained honestly and with clean hands could the rabbi take a 'mattanah' - a gift - not from this one, who made his fortune from deceit and oppression.

Who would have thought that money can be kosher or treif? After all, it is morally neutral. It depends on what you do with it. We can use it for tzedakah, charity, or to buy poison to put in our bodies. Apparently, how we get our money matters, too. Rabbi Yisrael refused to accept the gift of tainted money, even though he undoubtedly would have done good things with it. Perhaps he could foresee what has befallen the beneficiaries (both individuals and charities) of the "largesse" of people such as Bernie Madoff and his ilk. More important, perhaps, he did not want to be in a position of owing anything, even a “thank you”, in exchange for the “gift”. (Think also of Abraham refusing gifts from the King of Sodom - Genesis 14:21-24; and from the Hittites – Genesis 23)

Just as what comes out of our mouths is as important as what goes in, how we earn our money is as important as how we spend it. We cannot cleanse our souls by attempting to launder them with dirty money.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
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Candle lighting: 7:50 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Baby naming for the daughter of Chelsea and Albert Omoss – Mazal tov! Kiddush lunch follows. 
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Sunday: bowling party POSTPONED to a later date.
Friday, July 3: NO Shabbat Evening Service.
Saturday, July 4: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 
Sunday, July 12: English Tea Party at Beth Meier - Enjoy a three course meal, meet new people, have fun and plan other events. Limited seating, $25 per person, RSVP by July 7th!
Sunday, July 19: Rosh Chodesh Group’s Tallit Making Caravan to Little India. Contact Lynn Kronzek or Deb Sigel for details.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my mother-in-law, Helena Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on Friday, Tammuz 16. Her memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my teacher, colleague and friend Rabbi Ben Zion Bergman, who entered the yeshivah shel ma’alah on Tuesday. Y’hi zekher tzaddik liv’rakhah – May the memory of the righteous be a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Jeannie Berger, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Jerry Daniels, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint, Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Ean Kleiger, Philip Kovac, Rabbi Sheldon Pennes, and Annie Rivera.

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Thursday, June 18, 2015

OH, FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE!

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Parashat Korach
3 Tammuz 5775 / 19-20 June 2015
Torah: Numbers 16:1 - 18:32
Haftarah: 1 Samuel 11:14 - 12:22

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OH, FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE!

“Now Korach, son of Itzhar son of Kehat son of Levi, took himself, along with Datan and Aviram sons of Eliav, and On son of Pelet – descendants of Reuven - to rise up against Moses, …” Numbers 16:1-2

“What is an example of an argument for the sake of heaven's name? The argument of Hillel and Shammai. What is an example of an argument not for the sake of heaven's name? The argument of Korach and all of his followers.” Pirkei Avot 5:17

In his collected sermons, “Ye’Arot D’vash”, Rabbi Yonatan Eibeschutz (Poland 17th-18th centuries) says, “Logically, the Mishnah should have said ‘Korach and Moses’. Instead, within the camp of Korach itself there were disputes, with each seeking glory for himself. That is proof that their dispute was not for the sake of Heaven.”

There are disputes that have an aspect of holiness to them, that actually matter in broad human affairs and whose outcomes have lasting effect; and there are those that are unholy and petty, that are really about self-aggrandizement and ultimately meaningless.

The arguments between Hillel and Shammai were not about the individual rabbis - who was right and who was wrong - but about the course to be followed by the Jewish people. “What is it that God and the Torah demand of us Jews?” On the other hand, R. Eibeschutz’ understanding of Avot is that, not only were Korach and his followers not interested in the future of the people, they weren’t even interested in each other. “What’s in it for me?”

Whether in religion or politics or some other area of disagreement, the more personal it is, the less it will benefit the rest of the community. Beware of any “leader” who cares only for himself and his power over others.

Shabbat Shalom! Happy Father’s Day!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
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Candle lighting: 7:49 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 
Sunday: Happy Father’s Day!
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Sunday, June 28: Congregation Beth Meier bowling party at Pinz in Studio City. $25/person for 2 hours of bowling and shoes, trophies awarded in various categories. Limited space; call the office to reserve your space ASAP. All ages welcome!  
Sunday, July 12: English Tea Party at Beth Meier - Enjoy a three course meal, meet new people, have fun and plan other events. Limited seating, $25 per person, RSVP by July 7th!
Sunday, July 19: Rosh Chodesh Group’s Tallit Making Caravan to Little India. Contact Lynn Kronzek or Deb Sigel for details.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Jackie Aaronson’s mother, Rochelle Miller, who passed away this week. Funeral and Shivah are in Florida. Y’hi zekherah liv’rakhah – May her memory be a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of the nine victims of baseless hatred in Charleston, South Carolina. May their memories be a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my father, Martin Flom, who never sought power over a single human being, whose 86th birthday anniversary is Sunday, June 21. Happy Birthday and Happy Father’s Day, Dad, wherever you are! And thank you!

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Jeannie Berger, Rabbi Ben-Zion Bergman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Jerry Daniels, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint, Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Betsy Kleiger, Philip Kovac, Marilyn Lee, Rabbi Sheldon Pennes, and Annie Rivera.

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Thursday, June 11, 2015

KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE PRIZE

Parashat Sh’lach L’kha
26 Sivan 5775 / 12-13 June 2015
Torah: Numbers 13:1 - 15:41
Haftarah: Joshua 2:1-24

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KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE PRIZE

"And it will be for you as a fringe, that you look at it, and remember all of the Lord's commandments, and do them; and that you not rove after your own heart and your own eyes, after which you might go astray." Numbers 15:39





"The heart and the eyes, they are the spies of the body, acting as procurers for its sins. The eye sees, the heart covets, and the body sins." Rashi (citing Tanchuma)

This verse, also part of the third, concluding paragraph of the Sh'ma, refers to the commandment to wear tzitzit, fringes, on the four corners of a tallit or other garment. The great Torah teacher, Nechama Leibowitz z'l, finds Rashi's statement "rather strange". Why shouldn't we look about at the world, and take it all in? After all, didn't God create it?

The answer may be found in the type of looking that we do. When we look at God's creation, we can appreciate it as something much greater than ourselves, of which we are a very small part; or, we can look at it as something which we covet, believing that we are greater than creation – and its Creator.

Our purpose in the world is not to take whatever we want, whenever we want it. Rather, we are to serve as God's partners, albeit very limited partners, in maintaining, repairing and improving the world (and ourselves!). We do this through the performance of mitzvot. Focusing on the tzitzit keeps us on task when our minds start to wander. Put on a tallit, look at the tzitzit, and remember why you are here!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
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Candle lighting: 7:46 pm

Friday: Family Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 
Sunday: Religious School and Sunday Adult Education on hiatus until September. Have a great summer!
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of Hannah Medved, becoming a bat mitzvah this Shabbat. Mazal Tov!

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Jeannie Berger, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Jerry Daniels, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint, Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Betsy Kleiger, Philip Kovac, Marilyn Lee, and Annie Rivera.

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Thursday, June 4, 2015

BETWEEN THE LINES

Parashat Beha’alot’kha
19 Sivan 5775 / 5-6 June 2015
Torah: Numbers 8:1 - 12:17
Haftarah: Zechariah 2:14 - 4:7

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Between the Lines

"Whenever the ark set out, Moses would say: 'Rise up, Lord.  May Your enemies be scattered, and may those who hate You flee before You.' And when it rested, he would say: 'Return, Lord, You who are Israel's myriads of thousands.'"  Numbers 10:35-6

In a Sefer Torah and in the Chumash, these two verses are bracketed by upside down letter nuns. According to the Talmud, they constitute a separate book of the Torah, the purpose of which is to avoid reporting three successive sins by the Israelites.


  

In the liturgy, however, the two verses are themselves "bookends". Verse 35 is sung when the Ark is opened in the synagogue at the beginning of the Torah service. The Torah scroll is removed, and it "sets out" around the sanctuary before it is read. At the conclusion of the Torah service, verse 36 is recited as the Ark is opened for the Torah to be put away, to "rest".

What happens in the synagogue between the recitations of the two verses is a wonderful ritual pageant, carried out for the past two millennia in every synagogue in the world. The congregation rises and sings, the Torah is twice paraded around the sanctuary, the portion and haftarah are read and discussed, anywhere from three to eight people are called for aliyot, prayers for healing, for thanksgiving, for the community and for our country are recited, babies are named, and more.  

The Torah service is my favorite part of Shabbat morning. We are re-enacting history, and creating it as well, each time we conduct it. Since the Torah is the history of our people, and we read that history every week, one might say that all of our history occurs between these two verses. We publicize and renew our understanding of the Torah even as we stand at Mount Sinai. Most significantly, to my mind, we are making a statement about our commitment to Jewish heritage and Jewish continuity.

Our presence in and support of the synagogue take on even greater meaning this week. We are concluding another year of Beth Meier’s Religious School on Sunday. What better way to show our children how much our history matters to us than to attend services on Shabbat and the Culmination on Sunday, and to help them celebrate the completion of another year between the lines.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
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Candle lighting: 7:43 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 
Sunday: Religious School Culmination – 9:30 am. The children will show off some of what they learned this year, and we’ll celebrate with some food and drink. Adult Hebrew and Davening Class – 10:00 am. Maggie Anton, speaking on her new book, “Enchantress”, 2:00 pm. Maggie will have copies of the book for purchase. Refreshments served, of course! Call the synagogue office for details.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Jeannie Berger, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Jerry Daniels, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Betsy Kleiger, Philip Kovac, Marilyn Lee, and Annie Rivera.

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