Friday, June 29, 2018

HOW GOODLY ARE OUR TENTS?


Shabbat Shalom!

While I am on a mini-sabbatical, my friend, colleague and partner-in-crime at TBH/CBM, Rabbi Jason Van Leeuwen, is providing spiritual and religious leadership at the shul. The following is his message for this week.

Wishing everyone a Shabbat Shalom and a Happy Independence Day!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai


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It is a custom, upon entering the synagogue sanctuary, to utter the words, "ma tovu ohalekha yaakov, mishkenotekha yisrael/how goodly are your tents O Jacob, your dwellings O Israel." Though this beautiful line of biblical poetry arose from the mouth of a false prophet in this week's parasha, we sense a warm familiarity with the spirit of these words. They evoke the welcoming spirit of our Jewish homes, schools and synagogues. We envision decades of sukkah gatherings and Passover seders. A serenity overtakes us. No matter where we are in the world, if we are guests of a fellow Jew, we are home.

The Midrash describes the tents of Abraham and Sarah as having openings on all four sides, designed so that our founding parents could glimpse in any direction and spot a wayfarer in need of a good meal and a drink. The value of hachnasat orchim/hospitality is deeply embedded in our spiritual DNA. We value this on a national level, too. The Torah calls us no less than 36 times (that number again!) not to oppress the stranger. We are even called to "bring them into your home!"

Nothing makes me prouder to be a Jew than this.

Nevertheless, today my heart is broken and my rage is kindled over a very different kind of tent - the ones in which migrant families dwell whle involuntarily separated from their children. As I write this, Secretary of Health and Human Services Alex Azar informed Congress that these families will not be reunited unless they agree to deportation, and in some cases, withdraw their asylum claims. 2000 children remain separated from their parents. This state-sponsored extortion is a violation of these families' 5th Amendment right to due process, which extends to undocumented immigrants. It is clearly anathema to Jewish values as well. Emma Lazarus must be rolling in her grave.

It's been difficult for me to pray this week. How can I stand before Hashem when I haven't done nearly enough to, as the prophet Jeremiah exhorts, "seek the well being of the city in which you live?" I won't be in shul this Shabbat. Instead I'll be "praying with my feet" in front of L.A. City Hall at one of over 600 "Families Belong Together" rallies across this nation. It starts at 11, but I will be leading a minyan there at 9:30.

My 2nd favorite quote from Abraham Joshua Heschel (my favorite is quoted in the previous paragraph, which he said after marching with Dr. King) is "prayer is no substitute for action." May the words of our mouths and the prayers of our feet be heard by you, O Lord. May You open the hearts of our leaders so they can model the values of Abraham and Sarah.

How goodly are our tents? The answer is in our hands.

Shabbat Shalom

Reb Jason van Leeuwen

Thursday, June 14, 2018

OH, FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE!


Parashat Korach
3 Tammuz 5778 / 15-16 June 2018
Torah: Numbers 16:1 - 18:32
Haftarah: 1 Samuel 11:14 - 12:22

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


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OH, FOR HEAVEN’S SAKE!

“Now Korach, son of Itzhar son of Kehat son of Levi, took himself, along with Datan and Aviram sons of Eliav, and On son of Pelet – descendants of Reuven - to rise up against Moses, …” Numbers 16:1-2

“What is an example of an argument for the sake of heaven's name? The argument of Hillel and Shammai. What is an example of an argument not for the sake of heaven's name? The argument of Korach and all of his followers.” Pirkei Avot 5:17

In his collected sermons, “Ye’Arot D’vash”, Rabbi Yonatan Eibeschutz (Poland 17th-18thcenturies) says, “Logically, the Mishnah should have said ‘Korach and Moses’. Instead, within the camp of Korach itself there were disputes, with each seeking glory for himself. That is proof that their dispute was not for the sake of Heaven.”

There are disputes that have an aspect of holiness to them, that actually matter in broad human affairs and whose outcomes have lasting effect; and there are those that are unholy and petty, that are really about self-aggrandizement and ultimately meaningless.

The arguments between Hillel and Shammai were not about the individual rabbis - who was right and who was wrong - but about the course to be followed by the Jewish people. “What is it that God and the Torah demand of us Jews?” On the other hand, R. Eibeschutz’ understanding of Avot is that, not only were Korach and his followers not interested in the future of the people, they weren’t even interested in each other. “What’s in it for me?”

Whether in religion or politics or some other area of disagreement, the more personal it is, the less it will benefit the rest of the community. Beware of any “leader” who cares only for himself and his power over others.

Shabbat Shalom! Happy Father’s Day!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
“From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring.”
מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב
Yehuda Amichai
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Candle lighting: 7:47 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Foster – Mazal tov! Oneg Shabbat follows.
SaturdayNO Torah study/breakfast this Shabbat. Resumes next Shabbat, led by Rabbi Van Leeuwen. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Foster. Mazal tov! Kiddush lunch sponsored by the Foster family follows. 
SundayHappy Father’s Day!
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn while Rabbi Flom is away. Resumes August 5.
Friday, June 22: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, June 23: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

The congregation extends its condolences to Bernie and Gina Seeman on the passing of Bernie’s brother, Otto Seeman. Graveside interment service is Friday at 3:00 pm at Mount Sinai Memorial Park, Hollywood Hills. Visitation and minyan are Monday at 7:30 pm, at the home of Bernie and Gina – 9701 Rhea Avenue, Northridge, 91324.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andreola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Irwin Silon, and Jonathan Woolf.

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Friday, June 8, 2018

OLD MITZVOT NEVER DIE


26 Sivan 5778 / 8-9 June 2018
Parashat Sh'lach L'kha
Torah: Numbers 13:1 - 15:41
Haftarah: Joshua 2:1-24

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OLD MITZVOT NEVER DIE

'And the Lord spoke to Moses, saying: "Speak to the Children of Israel and say to them that they shall make themselves tzitzit (fringe) on the corners of their garments throughout their generations. And they shall place upon the tzitzit of each corner a thread of tekhelet... that you may see it and remember all of the Lord's commandments and do them..."' Numbers 15:37-39

What is tekhelet, and what does it have to do with the commandments? The Rabbis teach that tekhelet is like the color of the sea, which is like the color of the sky, which is like "God's Throne of Glory". (B. Talmud Menachot 43b) Simply by looking at a tekhelet thread on the tzitzit of a garment, including a tallit, one is reminded of the commandments and the infinite God who created everything. Tekhelet is a royal blue dye derived from a mollusk known as a chilazon. Because tekhelet is royal blue, a person wearing tekhelet takes on, in a very small way, a bit of God's royalty and majesty.


Radziner tekhelet that I hand tied over 20 years ago

Unfortunately, for about 1,400 years, tzitzit have been white, not blue, because the dye was not available, because, according to tradition, no one remembered which of the many creatures in the Mediterranean the chilazon was. Since the dye was no longer available, could white tzitzit still fulfill the mitzvah and serve as the proper reminder? Jewish tradition says "yes", with the caveat that it is not completely fulfilling the mitzvah, but it's better than not having tzitzit. Fortunately, there appears to be a solution to this problem. A group of scientists and rabbis in Israel believe they have rediscovered the chilazon, and they have begun manufacturing tekhelet! You can see their website, complete with slide show and instructions on tying your own tzitzit at: http://www.tekhelet.com/

If they are correct, and it appears that they are, we now have the opportunity again to perform this mitzvah. From this union of science and religion, we learn from this that no mitzvah is impossible, even if we have not performed it for millennia. There must be a mitzvah you have never observed before, or not performed recently, which you can add to your repertoire. Don't wait 1,400 years!

Have a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
“From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring.”
מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב
Yehuda Amichai
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Candle lighting: 7:45 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Breakfast/Torah Study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, June 15: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Foster – Mazal tov! Oneg Shabbat sponsored by the Foster family follows.
Saturday, June 16: NO Breakfast/Torah Study. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Bar Mitzvah of Ethan Foster – Mazal tov! Kiddush luncheon sponsored by the Foster family follows.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andreola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Jonathan Woolf.

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