18 Cheshvan 5779/26-27
October 2018
Parashat Vayera
Parashat Vayera
Torah
Reading: Genesis 18:1 - 22:24
Haftarah: 2 Kings 4:1-37 (Ashkenazim); 2 Kings 4:1-23 (Sephardim)
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Haftarah: 2 Kings 4:1-37 (Ashkenazim); 2 Kings 4:1-23 (Sephardim)
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COMMANDED
BY EXAMPLES
"And
the Lord appeared to (Abraham), by the terebinths (trees that yield a type of
turpentine) of Mamre, as he sat in the tent entrance in the heat of the
day. As he lifted up his eyes, he beheld three men standing before him;
and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent entrance and bowed to
the ground." Genesis 18:1-2
Our
Rabbis taught that, in this passage and those that follow, we learn several
important mitzvot. First, we learn that just as God and His messengers visited
the sick, we should visit the sick (Abraham had just been circumcised). Second, we learn that just as Abraham greeted
the men and offered his hospitality, we should offer hospitality to
travelers. Third, we learn that just as Abraham ran to perform that
mitzvah, we should run to perform a mitzvah.
Bikkur
cholim,
visiting the sick, is of the utmost importance. In doing so, in a very
real way we bring God's Presence to the sick. We lift their spirits and
comfort them, and in doing so, we come to understand their suffering. In
telling the sick that we offer prayers for their recovery, they come to know
that not only is God aware of their suffering, but that we are aware and care
as well.
Hakhnassat
orchim,
hospitality, is equally important. Offering meals and lodging to
travelers, especially strangers, shows the seriousness with which we take the
commandment to love the stranger. Even the most luxurious hotels and
restaurants maintain some estrangement, but the gracious giving of one's own
simple food and shelter is like a warm embrace.
Ratz
l'mitzvah kalla k'vachamurah, running to perform even a minor
commandment, let alone a major one, shows our eagerness to serve both God and
our fellow human beings. The Rabbis taught further that by running to the men,
Abraham demonstrated that the mitzvah of hospitality is greater even than
greeting the Divine Presence.
What
is notable is that there is no commanding language here, no "Thou
shalt". The Rabbis derived these mitzvot solely from the actions of
God and Abraham. If we can learn these commandments from their actions,
think of what our children can learn from our actions. If we visit the
sick, feed the hungry, shelter the homeless, and clothe the naked, our children
will do so too, and the world can only be a better place for it. Actions truly
speak louder, and command better, than words.
Shabbat
Shalom!
Rabbi
Richard A. Flom
Temple
B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
Blogging
at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence
in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT
Yevamot 88a
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