Friday, May 31, 2019

SHAVUOT 5779/SPRING 2019 BULLETIN


Temple B’nai Hayim 
in association with 
congregation beth meier
                                                   
SPRING 2019/SHAVUOT 5779 Edition

Services for Shavuot:
Saturday, June 8th: 9:00 pm – 11:00 pm
Tikkun Leil Shavuot Study Session with Rabbi Flom and Reb Jason
Beginning with Havdalah, and including Refreshments

Sunday, June 9th: 9:30 am
First Day of Shavuot Service

Monday, June 10th: 9:30 am (Including Yizkor)
Second Day of Shavuot Service

Candle Lighting Times for Shavuot:
Saturday, June 8th, light with transferred flame at 8:46 pm and say, “…l’hadlik ner shel Yom Tov & shehecheyanu.”
Sunday, June 9th, light with transferred at 8:46 pm and say, … l’hadlik ner shel Yom Tov,” then light yahrzeit/memorial candle with transferred flame

Customs on Shavuot:
During Shavuot, it is a custom to eat dairy foods, to devote time to study,
and to give charity in memory of one’s loved ones on Yizkor.

DONATION FORM - SHAVUOT YIZKOR
Out of Sorrow * Life is Eternal * There Shall be Life
On Shavuot we rededicate ourselves to the inspiration the Torah can add to our lives.  Let us also observe Yizkor and be inspired anew by the memory of our departed loved ones to do good deeds and give charity. May God comfort you and give you strength and courage to carry on.  Remember their spirits live on eternally.  May we in tribute to them live wise, courageous and useful lives.

Please tear off and return by June 6th    
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YIZKOR REQUEST – Yizkor Service on Monday, June 10th:

My donation is: $______           Names of those to be remembered: _________________

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Please make your tax-deductible donation payable to, “Temple B’nai Hayim”

Thursday, May 30, 2019

IN THE PRESENCE OF THE PRESENCE

Parashat Bechukotai
Torah: Leviticus 26:3 - 27:34
Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:19 - 17:14

Iyar 27, 5779 / May 31-June 1, 2019

Please note: NO Lunch and Learn on June 4 due to change in rabbi’s travel plans. We’ll resume June 11.

Dedications and Calendar of Events follow. Full calendar and lots of other info available at: http://www.bnaihayim.com 

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IN THE PRESENCE OF THE PRESENCE

“And I will set My tabernacle amidst you; and My soul shall not abhor you.” Leviticus 26:11

The Hebrew word for tabernacle, mishkan, has the same root as the word shekhinah, meaning “Divine Presence” or “Sheltering Presence”. The idea is that the shekhinah dwells in the mishkan. (See also, Exodus 29:45 – “And I will dwell [v’shakhunti] among the people Israel”) So, where was the shekhinah before the tabernacle was built? And where has It been since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem? For that matter, where has It been during all the travels and travails of the Jewish people?

The answer is in the verse itself. Read it as “I will set My Presence amidst you.” Wherever and whenever we are, the Shekhinah, God’s Sheltering Presence, is always in our very midst.

In traditional siddurim one finds the bedtime Sh’ma. Within that set of prayers before sleep, one finds this reference to four angels and the Shekhinah: “In the name of the Lord, the God of Israel, may Michael (the one like God) be at my right hand; Gabriel (God is my strength) at my left; before me, Uriel (God is my light); behind me, Raphael (God heals); and above my head, the Divine Presence of God.”

The late Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach set this to music, and it sounds like a sweet lullaby. You can hear it here, performed by Reb Shlomo’s daughter, Nechama Carlebach:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0nWR28vNQA

The Hebrew words and transliteration are available at:

It can be a very pleasant and relaxing experience to quietly recite or chant this prayer. Wherever you are, wherever you lay your head, know this – the Shekhinah is with you.

Rest easy.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com
Visit me on Facebook
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:41 pm

FridayShabbat Rocks! Evening Service – 7:30 pm. An electrified service with Reb Jason and The Band! Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Afternoon at the Colony Theater – “Old Jews Telling Jokes” – a bawdy (not suitable for minors) visit to the Catskills with Jokes, Skits, Song & Dance! – 3:00 pm
TuesdayNO Lunch and Learn – resume June 11.
Friday, June 7: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, June 8: Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows. Tikkun Leil Shavuot - 9:00 pm – an evening of study in preparation for Shavuot – with Rabbi Flom and Reb Jason.
Sunday, June 9Shavuot Morning Service –9:30 am.
Monday, June 10Shavuot Morning Service and Yizkor – 9:30 am.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Diana Hirsch, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

TBH Religious School and TBH Preschool have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call! Cyber Torah list management:
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah”.
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Thursday, May 23, 2019

WAYS AND MEANS


Parashat Behar
Torah: Leviticus 25:1 – 26:2
Haftarah: Jeremiah 32:6-27

20 Iyar 5779 / 24-25 May 2019

Barukh Dayan Ha’emet. We regret to advise you of the passing of Abraham “Avremi” Manzur, husband of Brenda Manzur, on Thursday – Lag B’omer. Graveside funeral is Friday at Eden Memorial Park, Mission Hills, at 10:00 am.

A reception will follow at Avremi and Brenda’s home, 7673 Quakertown Avenue, Winnetka 91306. Shivah minyanim will be held at their home Sunday-Wednesday evenings at 7:00 pm. The congregation extends its condolences to Brenda and to Avremi’s sons Gideon Manzur and Yoram Manzur. Hamakom yenachem otam … May the One Who is in Every Place grant comfort to the family and friends of Avremi Manzur.

Dedications and Calendar of Events follow. Full calendar and lots of other info available at:  http://www.bnaihayim.com/

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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WAYS AND MEANS

"And if you say, 'What will we eat in the seventh year? Behold, we do not sow and do not gather in our crop', then I will command My blessing upon you in the sixth year, and it will bring forth fruit for three years." (Leviticus 25:21)

Every seventh year, known as shmittah, the land of Israel is not to be tilled. During that year, the people are to live on the harvest from the end of the sixth year plus anything growing wild. During the eighth year (the first year in the next cycle), they are to survive on surplus from the sixth plus anything growing wild in the seventh and eighth years until the new crop comes in. Imported food is also permitted.

A number of commentators have suggested that one purpose of the shmittah year is to teach the wealthy what it is like to lack resources and not have all that they want. They will develop humility and an understanding of the need to help the poor.

But will they? After all, the rich will merely plan ahead with extra stores, or use their wealth to purchase what they need. So, what does God mean by "I will command My blessing"?

Perhaps this: "And if your brother becomes poor and his strength fails him, you shall support him, even if he is a convert or a sojourner among you, that he may live with you." (Leviticus 25:35) That is certainly a command - but where is the blessing? As we will read in the opening lines of next week’s parashah, B’chukotai, "If you walk in My statutes and keep My commandments, and do them; then I will give you rain in due season, and the land will yield its produce, and the trees of the field will yield their fruit." (Leviticus 26:3-4)

It's a simple lesson for the haves, which is just about all of us reading this e-mail. If you take care of the needy when you have the means, you will continue to be blessed with the means. Otherwise, you might eventually be denied the means even to take care of yourself.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
Visit me on Facebook
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:35 pm

FridayCool Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. It’s a GAS! – A Guitar-Accompanied Service, with Steve Pearlman. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday – Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
SundayNO Religious School – Memorial Day weekend.
Monday: Memorial Day. Before you prepare for your barbecue, please - raise a flag, take a moment of silence, show gratitude and respect for those who died in service to our country.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, May 31: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, June 1: Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday, June 2 – Religious School – 9:30 am. Afternoon at the Colony Theater – “Old Jews Telling Jokes” – a bawdy (not suitable for minors) visit to the Catskills with Jokes, Skits, Song & Dance!
Saturday, June 9Tikkun Leil Shavuot - 9:00 pm.
Sunday, June 10Shavuot Morning Service –9:30 am.
Monday, June 11Shavuot Morning Service and Yizkor – 9:30 am.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of Irving Rosenstein and Lauren Mulligan, marrying this Sunday. Mazal tov!

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Avremi Manzur. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – his memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Diana Hirsch, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

TBH Religious School and TBH Preschool have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call! Cyber Torah list management:
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah”.
To unsubscribe from Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Unsubscribe Cyber Torah”.
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Thursday, May 16, 2019

MAKING A CONNECTION

Parashat Emor
13 Iyar 5779 / 17-18 May 2019
Torah: Leviticus 21:1 – 24:23
Haftarah: Ezekiel 44:15-31

Dedications and Calendar of Events follow. Full calendar and lots of other info available at:  http://www.bnaihayim.com/

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MAKING A CONNECTION

"And you shall not eat bread, or parched grain, or fresh kernels until the very day that you have brought the (omer) offering for your God; it is an eternal decree for all your generations, in all your dwelling places." Leviticus 23:14

"When you reap the harvest of your land, you shall not completely reap all the way to the corners (peah) of your field, and you shall not gather the gleanings (leket) of your harvest; you shall leave them for the poor and the stranger; I am the Lord your God." Leviticus 23:22

The Torah states at verse 14 that new grain, i.e., grain from the fresh crop, may not be eaten until the omer (a measure of barley) offering has been brought on the second day of Pesach, or, these days, until the time for making the offering has passed. And at verse 22, the Torah commands us concerning the harvests of our fields.

These commandments might seem pointless. How many of us have the direct connection with the land that is required for fulfilling the mitzvot of omer, peah and leket? When we buy bread in a bakery, how do we know what crop the grain came from? How many of us have fields of grain?

There is a way to combine these commandments in a modern and meaningful way that allows us to fulfill them in spirit. True, we no longer make sacrificial offerings to God. And I suspect that there are very few farmers reading this. However, there are many poor and hungry people in our society. Before we eat, we are obligated to consider them, and do what we can to feed them as well. Because it is impossible for there to be equal distribution of land and other resources, God tells us: “There will always be poor people in the land. Therefore I command you to be openhanded toward your brethren, to your poor, and to your needy in your land.” (Deuteronomy 15:11)

I suggest that we should be offering grain (or other foods) to other people, who are, after all, created in God's likeness. The food comes from our pantries and cupboards rather than our fields. We do the gleaning; they do the eating. I am sure that there are very few people reading this who cannot spare at least a few cans of food for those with nothing to eat at all. Why should we do this? Hosea (6:6) quotes God as telling us, "For it is loving-kindness I desire – not sacrifice." Further, we read just last Shabbat, “… And you shall love your fellow, for s/he is just like you  …” Leviticus 19:18

Fulfilling the mitzvah of being openhanded to our less fortunate fellows should be done with regularity. Give frequently to a pantry near you, such as SOVA (see below). It's a wonderful way for you and your children to carry out the call that we made at the Pesach Seder just a few weeks ago - "Let all who are hungry come and eat!" Nor is there any reason to be selfish in this regard. After all, it’s not really ours to hoard. "For the land is Mine, and you are (merely) sojourners and residents with Me." (Leviticus 25:23)  God created it; God owns it; we are only toiling in the King's vineyard. Give a little! Make the connection with God, Nature and your fellow human beings!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
Visit me on Facebook
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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CALENDAR

CANDLE LIGHTING: 7:32 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday – Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. TBH/CBM Concert and Fundraiser – with music, comedy, silent auction, and food and drink. For details, check our website: http://bnaihayim.com or contact the synagogue office:  bnaihayim@yahoo.com or office@bethmeier.org or (818) 788-4664. Walk-ins welcome! Don’t miss out on this fun event!
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Thursday – L’ag B’omer.
Friday, May 24 – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, May 25 – Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday, May 26 – NO Religious School – Memorial Day weekend. Remember those who gave their lives that we may be free.
Sunday, June 2 - Afternoon at the Colony Theater – “Old Jews Telling Jokes” – a bawdy (not suitable for minors) visit to the Catskills with Jokes, Skits, Song & Dance!
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This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Diana Hirsch, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

TBH Religious School and TBH Preschool have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are always looking for more volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call! Cyber Torah list management:
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah”.
To unsubscribe from Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Unsubscribe Cyber Torah”.
To dedicate a Cyber Torah in honor of a simchah in memory of a loved one or for a refuah shleimah, send an e-mail to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Dedicate Cyber Torah” and provide details in the message body.

Tuesday, May 7, 2019

WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW


Parashat Kedoshim
6 Iyar 5779 / 10-11 May 2019
Torah: Leviticus 19:1 – 20:27
Haftarah: Amos 9:7-15 (Ashkenazim); Ezekiel 20:2-20 (Sephardim)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about our community, check out: http://www.bnaihayim.com/

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But first, a word from our sponsor!

Dear friends:

We wish to remind you that the annual fundraiser for our community is coming up on Sunday, May 19. We will be featuring two terrific entertainers, comedian Steve Mittleman and singer Phil Jeffrey, along with our own wonderful Hazzan Reb Jason Van Leeuwen. We’ll be serving food and drink and conducting a silent auction with unique gift and merchandise packages.

Although the deadline for the greetings/ad book has passed, there is still time to purchase tickets to this event, only $54/person. For more information or to make reservations, please contact the synagogue office at (818) 788-4664, or via email to: office@bethmeier.org or bnaihayim@yahoo.com

If you are unable to join us on May 19, we hope you will consider donating any appropriate amount to support our community and the work we are doing.

Wishing you all the best,

Ken Goodman, Program Chair
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WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW

"You shall not take revenge and you shall not bear a grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your fellow as yourself; I am the Lord." Lev. 19:18

"As the home born among you, so shall be the stranger that dwells with you, and you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt; I am the Lord your God." Lev. 19:34.

In her book, "New Studies in Leviticus", Nehama Leibowitz wonders what exactly is meant by "as yourself" (kamocha). She points out that the Rabbis had said that to love another as one's self cannot be taken literally. She refers to the commentary "Biur", which says, "It is hardly conceivable that the Almighty should command something which is beyond human capacity." Rather, says Leibowitz, do not read "as yourself", but instead "who is like you". That is why the Torah says, "For you were strangers in the land of Egypt." Because you know the heart of a stranger (Exodus 23:9), you must love the stranger rather than treat him the way you were treated in Egypt.

Leibowitz’ reading raises another issue. The word "ger", translated here as "stranger", has two meanings - "alien" and "proselyte". The Rabbis understood the “stranger that dwells with you” in the latter sense. They understood "you were strangers" in the former sense. Then Leibowitz’ understanding of "kamocha" as "who is like you" would suggest either that the Israelites had become Egyptian proselytes, God forbid, or that "the stranger that dwells with you" means any stranger, regardless of religious practice.

Far be it from me to suggest that the Rabbis misinterpreted this verse; but I wish to propose a broader meaning. The "stranger" is a closely related case to "fellow". Just as you are to love your fellow, who you recognize to be like you, so should you love the stranger who, as it happens, whether alien or proselyte, is also like you.

Recall that every person is created in the image of God (Genesis 1:26). Perhaps that is why the second verse has the phrase "your God" - as a reminder. So, every person can become "your fellow" whom you love and who loves you in return - but only when you acknowledge that every person is "like you".

This Shabbat, we each have the opportunity to carry out both of the mitzvot discussed above, as well as the mitzvah that opens the parashah - "…You shall be holy, for I the LORD your God am holy.” Lev. 19:2



This Saturday, May 11, mail carriers throughout the United States will be "stamping out hunger", collecting cans, bags and boxes of non-perishable groceries. The food will be distributed to local food banks and soup kitchens. This is a no-brainer. All you have to do is leave groceries by your mailbox and the carrier will take it when s/he delivers your mail. One item or fifty, it will all help alleviate someone's hunger for a time. It's a wonderful way for you and your children to carry out the call which we made at the Pesach Seder just two weeks ago - "Let all who are hungry come and eat!"

Have a wonderful, loving and holy Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai
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CALENDAR

CANDLE LIGHTING: 7:27 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday – Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, May 17 – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, May 18 – Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday, May 19 – TBH/CBM Concert and Fundraiser – with music, comedy, silent auction, and food and drink. For details, check our website: http://bnaihayim.com or contact the synagogue office: bnaihayim@yahoo.com or office@bethmeier.org or (818) 788-4664
Sunday, June 2 - Afternoon at the Colony Theater – “Old Jews Telling Jokes” – a bawdy (not suitable for minors) visit to the Catskills with Jokes, Skits, Song & Dance!
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This d’var torah is offered in memory of Irvin Jacobson, whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday, Iyar 7. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Diana Hirsch, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

TBH Religious School and TBH Preschool have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call! Cyber Torah list management:
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Friday, May 3, 2019

EVIL INCLINATIONS


Parashat Acharei Mot
29 Nisan 5779 / 3-4 May 2019
Torah: Leviticus 16:1 – 18:30
Haftarah: 1 Samuel 20:18-42 (Machar Chodesh)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about our community, check out:
http://www.bnaihayim.com/

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But first, a word from our sponsors!


Dear friends:

We wish to remind you that the annual fundraiser for our community is coming up in less than two weeks. We will be featuring two terrific entertainers, comedian Steve Mittleman and singer Phil Jeffrey, along with our own wonderful Hazzan Reb Jason Van Leeuwen. We’ll be serving food and drink and conducting a silent auction with unique gift and merchandise packages.

Although the deadline for the greetings/ad book has passed, there is still time to purchase tickets to this event, only $54/person. For more information or to make reservations, please contact the synagogue office at (818) 788-4664, or via email to office@bethmeier.org or bnaihayim@yahoo.com

If you are unable to join us on May 19, we hope you will consider donating any appropriate amount to support our community and the work we are doing.

Wishing you all the best,


Ken Goodman, Program Chair
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EVIL INCLINATIONS

“And he will take from the congregation of the Children of Israel two kids of goats for a sin offering …” Leviticus 16:5

Rabbi Israel Salanter (founder of the ethical self-discipline movement Mussar) taught that there are two kinds of yetzer hara (evil inclination): 1. that which comes from bodily lust; and, 2. that which entices a person to sin as an act of defiance. He cites a teaching from the Talmud (Berakhot 54), which says that the unusual Hebrew formation in the Sh’ma of “with all your heart” (b’khol l’vav’kha instead of b’khol libekha, two “beits” instead of one) means that we can and should use the first type of yetzer hara in combination with our yetzer hatov (good inclination) for good purposes – e.g., utilizing one’s lust for power to channel it into accomplishing much for the benefit of society. On the other hand, with regard to the second type of evil inclination, that of defiance, one should flee as far as possible from it.

The commentary Tzvi Yisrael says that Rabbi Salanter’s teaching is borne out by the two kids that are the sin offerings of Yom Kippur. Regarding the evil inclination coming from lust, Lev. 16:9 says, “Aaron will sacrifice the goat”, meaning this evil inclination must be channeled into service of God. Concerning the other kid, representing the evil inclination of defiance of God, Lev. 16:10 says it must “go for a scapegoat into the wilderness” – one must drive it away and stay as far as possible from it. (From Itturei Torah)

The difficult part of all this is recognizing which evil inclination we are dealing with. For that, we must really know ourselves – and that is what Mussar and cheshbon hanefesh (accounting of the soul) are all about. Who says that Yom Kippur only comes once a year?

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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CALENDAR

CANDLE LIGHTING: 7:20 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday – Torah Study/Breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service  9:30 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am.
Tuesday – NO Lunch and Learn – resume May 14.
Sunday, May 19 – TBH/CBM Concert and Fundraiser – with music, comedy, silent auction, and food and drink. For details, check our website http://bnaihayim.com or contact the synagogue office: bnaihayim@yahoo.com or office@bethmeier.org or (818) 788-4664
Sunday, June 2 - Afternoon at the Colony Theater – “Old Jews Telling Jokes” – a bawdy (not suitable for minors) visit to the Catskills with Jokes, Skits, Song & Dance!
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This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Diana Hirsch, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

TBH Religious School and TBH Preschool have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call! Cyber Torah list management:
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah”.
To unsubscribe from Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Unsubscribe Cyber Torah”.
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