Thursday, July 25, 2019

ZEALOTS NEED NOT APPLY


Parashat Pinchas
Torah: Numbers 25:10 - 30:1
Haftarah: Jeremiah 1:2-2:3 (First Haftarah of Rebuke)
Tammuz 24, 5779 / July 26-27, 2019

IMPORTANT NOTE:

We are changing our Shabbat Evening Service time for the month of August! On August 2, 9, 16, 23, and 30, Shabbat Evening services will begin at 6:30 pm. This will give those who do not wish to drive at night, or who would like to have Shabbat dinner after services, or simply a more relaxed evening, the chance to do so. We’ll see you here!

Calendar of Events and Dedications follow. Full calendar and lots more info about our community available at: www.bnaihayim.com

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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ZEALOTS NEED NOT APPLY

"Let the Lord, the God of the spirits of all flesh, set over the congregation a man who will go out before them, and who will come in before them, and who will lead them out, and who will bring them in, so that the congregation of the Lord will not be like sheep which have no shepherd." Numbers 27:16-17

Rashi, quoting Tanchuma: "Appoint over them a leader who will be patient with each and every one according to his mind."

Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk: When Moses saw how great Pinchas was, he was afraid that he would be chosen as leader, but he was not pleased with the prospect of having such a zealot as the leader of the Jewish people. He therefore asked God that the leader be a tolerant man and not a zealous one.

It seems curious that Moses would not want a zealot to lead the people after his death. This would seem particularly true in the case of Pinchas, who was, after all, "zealous for his God". (Numbers 25:13) What could be wrong with a man who is zealous on behalf of God?

Zealots are, in the words of Eric Hoffer, "true believers" who are intolerant of any view other than their own. Anyone who disagrees with them is “the enemy”. Intolerance all too often leads to hatred and war. Regardless of religious or political persuasion, all who worship at the altar of their particular god of hate and who destroy (not only physically, but spiritually, emotionally, or otherwise) those with whom they disagree, are to be opposed – but within limits.

We should resist the zealots and the true believers in our midst, particularly in our discussions of the great issues of the day. We must also avoid extremism and intolerance ourselves, lest we become that which we fight against. This past Sunday was 18 Tammuz, a deferred fast day from 17 Tammuz, associated with the fall of Jerusalem to the Babylonians. We would do well to remember that the Talmud teaches that Jerusalem fell because of sinat chinam - baseless hatred. So it could be with our own society as well. Rabbi B. Y. Natan, quoted in Itturei Torah, says, "It appears that the verse here hints that the way of peace is always better and more effective than that of zealotry and war." To which verse is he referring? "Therefore say, 'Behold, I give him my covenant of peace.'" (Numbers 25:12)

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com  
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:41 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, August 2: Shabbat Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows. (NOTE TIME CHANGE FOR AUGUST!)
Saturday, August 3: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

Tisha B’Av is coming. We will have a light dinner (before the start of the fast), a study session, and evening service with chanting of Eichah (Book of Lamentations) on Saturday, August 10, commencing at 7:15 pm.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Josef Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

Cyber Torah list management (no salesman will call!):
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Thursday, July 18, 2019

NO PROFIT FROM “PROPHETS”

Parashat Balak
17 Tammuz 5775 / 3-4 July 2015
Torah: Numbers 22:2 - 25:9
Haftarah: Micah 5:6 - 6:8

IMPORTANT NOTE:

We are changing our Shabbat Evening Service time for the month of August! On August 2, 9, 16, 23, and 30, Shabbat Evening services will begin at 6:30 pm. This will give those who do not wish to drive at night, or who would like to have Shabbat dinner after services, or simply a more relaxed evening, the chance to do so. We’ll see you here!

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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NO PROFIT FROM “PROPHETS”

“How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, your dwelling places, O Israel. Like palm groves that stretch out; like gardens beside a river; like aloes planted by the Lord; like cedars beside the water.” Numbers 24:5-6.

The first verse here is the opening of “Ma Tovu”, recited upon entering the synagogue. Together, the verses are a beautiful blessing, or perhaps an observation, offered by the sorcerer-prophet Bil’am, who had been hired to curse the people of Israel.

The early Hasidic master Yakov Yosef of Polnoye asks, “What is the difference between a true prophet and a false one?” The true prophet, he says, scolds people, telling them of their failings and how they may correct them. Think of Jeremiah or Isaiah.

The false prophet, on the other hand, sweet-talks the people. “You’re wonderful!  Everything is great! Don’t change a thing.” He covers you in honey and cream while preparing to slice you to pieces.

It is precisely because true prophets love the people that they criticize them and demand improvement. Even though Bil’am and others of his ilk praise the people Israel, they do not sing out of love. They say what they say in order to entice Israel, and prevent the people from reaching the loftiest possible spiritual and moral levels.

Don’t be fooled by false prophets - they'll love you to death.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com  
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:45 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, July 26: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, July 27: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Josef Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

Cyber Torah list management (no salesman will call!):
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail with the subject heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah” to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
Send requests for dedications of Cyber Torah in honor of a simchah, in memory of a loved one or for a refuah shleimah to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
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Wednesday, July 10, 2019

THE KASHRUTH OF MONEY


Parashat Chukkat
10 Tammuz 5779 / 12-13 July 2019
Torah: Numbers 19:1 – 22:1
Haftarah: Judges 11:1-33

IMPORTANT NOTE:


We are changing our Shabbat Evening Service time for the month of August! On August 2, 9, 16, 23, and 30, Shabbat Evening services will begin at 6:30 pm.  This will give those who do not wish to drive at night, or who would like to have Shabbat dinner after services, or simply a more relaxed evening, the chance to do so. We’ll see you here!

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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THE KASHRUTH OF MONEY

"The princes dug the well; the nobles of the people dug it, by the direction of the lawgiver, with their staves. And from the wilderness they went to Mattanah." Numbers 21:18

The following story appears in Itturei Torah, a compilation of commentaries:

A rich man who had acquired his wealth by illegal means came to Rabbi Yisrael of Rozhin. The man brought a pitka - a note asking the rabbi to pray for him - and a pidyon - a gift of money (literally, “redemption”). The rabbi accepted the note but not the gift, saying, "The Torah says, 'from the wilderness to Mattanah.'" The wilderness is symbolic of uprightness and purity, for according to tradition, it is a place where there is no theft. Only from one whose money is obtained honestly and with clean hands could Rabbi Yisrael take a 'mattanah' - a gift - not from this one, who made his fortune from deceit and oppression.

Who would have thought that money can be kosher or treif? After all, it is morally neutral. It depends on what you do with it. We can use it for tzedakah (charity), or to commit crimes. Apparently, how we get our money matters, too. Rabbi Yisrael refused to accept the gift of tainted money, even though he undoubtedly would have done good things with it. Perhaps he could foresee what has befallen the beneficiaries (like politicians and charities) of the "largesse" of criminals and others whose money was not obtained in a kosher manner. More important, perhaps, he did not want to be in a position of owing anything, even a “thank you”, in exchange for the “gift”. (Think also of Abraham refusing gifts from the King of Sodom - Genesis 14:21-24; and from the Hittites – Genesis 23)

Just as what comes out of our mouths is as important as what goes in, how we earn our money is as important as how we spend it. We cannot cleanse our souls by attempting to launder them with dirty money.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:48 pm

FridayTot Shabbat Service – 6:30 – 7:15 pm. A Singalong with Reb Jason and stories by Rabbi Flom. Special Oneg Shabbat follows. Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows. Aufruf of Jenny Kahn and Steve Harris, who are marrying on Sunday. Mazal tov!
TuesdayLunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, July 19Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, July 20: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of Jenny Kahn and Steve Harris, who are marrying this Sunday. Mazal tov!

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my mother-in-law, Helena Kronzek, whose yahrzeit fafls next Friday, 16 Tammuz. Y'hi zikhronah liv'rakhah - her memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Susan Burke, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Josef Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

Cyber Torah list management (no salesman will call!):
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail with the subject heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah” to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
Send requests for dedications of Cyber Torah in honor of a simchah, in memory of a loved one or for a refuah shleimah to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
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Wednesday, July 3, 2019

HOLIER THAN THOU?


Parashat Korach
3 Tammuz 5779 / 5-6 July 2019
Torah: Numbers 16:1 - 18:32
Haftarah: 1 Samuel 11:14 - 12:22

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


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HOLIER THAN THOU?

'(Korach and his followers) assembled against Moses and against Aaron, and said to them, "There is too much for you; for the entire congregation, every one of them, is holy, and the Lord is among them; then why do you lord it over the assembly of the Lord?"' Numbers 16:3

Rashi, citing Midrash Tanchuma: Much more than necessary have you taken high offices for yourselves. All of them heard the commandments at Sinai from the mouth of the Mighty One. If you yourself have taken the kingship, you should not have selected for your brother the priesthood; not you alone heard at Sinai, "I am the Lord your God"; the entire congregation heard!

Korach's argument, especially as elucidated by the Midrash, appears compelling. What makes Moses and Aaron so special? The problem, of course, is that Korach is not arguing that all of the people should have the rights and duties of the priests - he is not advocating equality. Rather, Korach was trying to usurp power solely for himself, and using this rhetorical technique to incite the Israelites to join in his rebellion. Rashi, again citing Tanchuma, says: Korach spent all night haranguing the Israelites, enticing them: "Do you think that I care for myself alone?  I care only for all of you! These people come and take all the high offices, for himself the kingship, and for his brother the priesthood!" - until all of them had been enticed.

We hear this kind of stuff from politicians, snake oil salesmen and others all the time, and it works. We must be saps! Do we think that we are all going to have power? In this particular case, didn't God say to all of the Israelites, "You shall be to Me a kingdom of priests and a holy people"? Exodus 19:6 So Korach is partly correct - we are all holy. But we already have the power that we really need. Unlike the priests, who have only ritual power, we the people, each and every one of us, have actual power, through spreading God's word to the world, by living out a visible Judaism. We do this by caring for the stranger and the needy, preserving the environment, seeking peace, and observing God's commandments in a meaningful way. It is the holiness of our lives that positively affects the lives of others, and that gives us the real power in the world.

Have a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:50 pm

FridayNO Shabbat Evening Service – resume July 12.
Saturday: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 
TuesdayLunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, July 12Tot Shabbat Service – 6:30 – 7:15 pm. A Singalong with Reb Jason and stories by Rabbi Flom. Special Oneg Shabbat follows. Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, July 13: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Mark Brownstein, Susan Burke, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Carol Herskowitz, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, David Marks, Sandra Raab, Marguerite Rassiner, Josef Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, deliver d’rashot, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

Cyber Torah list management (no salesman will call!):
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail with the subject heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah” to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
Send requests for dedications of Cyber Torah in honor of a simchah, in memory of a loved one or for a refuah shleimah to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
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