Friday, March 27, 2020

PESACH RESOURCES – 5780 EDITION (UPDATED)


PESACH RESOURCES – 5780 EDITION - WITH COVID-19 UPDATES

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Chaverim nichbadim - Dear friends:

Instead of re-writing my entire Pesach Resources page, I have added some new links and resources in view of the COVID-19 pandemic. The most important thing to remember: your health, and the health of your loved ones, friends, neighbors, and community, is more valuable than the laws concerning Pesach. We are permitted to be lenient regarding virtually any mitzvah when it comes to preserving life and health. This includes Pesach! There will be another Pesach! But there will never be another you! You do the best you can under the circumstances you face - period! God willing, perhaps we will have the opportunity to have in-person sedarim on Pesach Sheni, the Second Pesach for those unable to celebrate at the appointed time, in the evening of May 7, Iyar 14.

The Rabbinical Assembly is currently updating its Pesah Guide 5780. I don't know whether the link below will lead to the original guide only, or to the updated (COVID-19 relevant) version. Check back to this blog or to the RA website (http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org) for updates.

Other useful links:

When we may gather in groups:

http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/story/conservativemasorti-movement-statement-gatherings-and-communal-expectations-leadership

Some kashrut leniencies in light of the pandemic:

http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/story/kashrut-subcommittee-recommendations-passover-5780-light-covid-19

Recommendations for live-streaming the seder:

http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/story/streaming-seder

The above, and other useful resources, are available at:

http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/story/preparing-pesah-during-time-pandemic

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Chaverim nichbadim - Dear friends:

It’s almost time for Pesach! You know, the “Festival of Freedom”, the holiday on which we celebrate our release from slavery to Pharaoh in Egypt by abiding by the very strict dietary and ritual rules created by the Rabbis and Jewish Tradition, including eating the hardtack called matzah for eight days. Freedom, you say? God said, “Send forth My people, so they may serve me.” That’s how it is typically translated. But the Hebrew word for “so they may serve me”, “v’ya’avduni”, might easily be translated as “so they will slave for Me”. The root for “serve”, “avad”, is also the root for “eved” – “slave”. So, how do you manage Pesach in such a way as to avoid complete slavery?

Here are some simple rules:
1. Accept that you are not perfect – and neither is anyone else! You don’t have to do it all! You can’t do it all!
2. Prepare the house by cleaning and removing the chametz. A short but very useful guide to kashering your kitchen and home and identifying foods that are or are not kosher for Passover can be found at:
3. Prepare the food for the Seder.
4. Prepare the food for the remainder of the holiday by shopping for it before Pesach.
5. Prepare yourself and your family spiritually.
6. Prepare yourself and your family intellectually.
7. Do not drive yourself or anyone else crazy – see number rule #1.
8. Remember that Pesach really is about freedom; freedom is fun; have fun! See rule #7.
9. Any questions? Ask a rabbi!



Are you looking for ways to make your Seder more meaningful, more accessible, more involving for children, more interesting, shorter, etc.? Then check out these resources on-line:

a. The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5780 can be read and downloaded at the following site:


b. Additional Pesach resources from the Rabbinical Assembly may be found at:


c. Pesach kitchen kashering from a strictly Orthodox perspective can be found at:


d. MyJewishLearning.com is, IMVHO, the best Jewish educational resource on the web, and has material on virtually everything you might ever want to know about Judaism, but don't know how or whom to ask. The homepage is easily navigable. For Pesach, explore this page:


e. The Conservative Yeshiva, in Jerusalem, has a number of text resources for study before the holiday and for discussion at the Seder. See the many Passover links at:


f. Passover according to Chabad in a straightforward manner. Follow the links on this page:


g. Especially good for beginners, National Jewish Outreach Program’s extensive and accessible collection of how-to’s, background materials and videos, from the folks who bring you Shabbat Across America (also has Shabbat and other holiday resources):


h. My colleague Rabbi Gabriel Botnick has a short video guide on shopping for Pesach, available at:



One of my seminary teachers suggested that, in addition to whichever Haggadah of choice you use for your Seder, you should every year acquire a new Haggadah with commentary and illustrations to help you prepare and make your Seder more enjoyable. Ask your local Jewish bookseller, consult with a rabbi, explore the web – there are beautiful and accessible Haggadot available. Here are some of my favorites for getting ready:

1. Passover Haggadah – The Feast of Freedom. The Rabbinical Assembly, 1982. Clear spiritual commentary.



2. A Passover Haggadah – Go Forth and Learn. Rabbi David Silver. Jewish Publication Society, 2011. A new classic.

3. The Haggadah Treasury. Rabbi Nosson Scherman. Artscroll, 1978. Midrash and traditional teachings.

4. From Bondage to Freedom – The Passover Haggadah. Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, M.D. Shaar Press, 1995. Tradition blended with insights relating to addiction and dependency.

5. A Different Night – The Family Participation Haggadah. Noam Zion and David Dishon. Shalom Hartman Institute, 1997. Difficult to use at the seder, but lots of great ideas - especially in the leader's guide.

6. Studies on the Haggadah from the Teachings of Nechama Leibowitz. Urim Publications, 2002. Deep Torah from a great scholar.

7. The Hirsch Haggadah. Samson Raphael Hirsch. Feldheim Publishers, 1993. The 19th century voice of Orthodoxy.

8. A Feast of History. Chaim Raphael. Steimatzky’s, 1972. (Out of print but available used) The lengthy historical essay is interesting and useful.

9. The Origins of the Seder. Baruch Bokser. JTS Press, 2002 (Paperback edition). Not a Haggadah, but for those interested in an academic treatise that opens the eyes to history.

10. Passover – The Family Guide to Spiritual Celebration. Dr. Ron Wolfson. Jewish Lights Publishing, 2010 (2d edition) A straight-forward how-to guide with explanations and insights for the table.

Some other important reminders about Pesach and the lead-up to the holy days:

1. All first-borns (except Levi’im and Kohanim) are obliged to engage in a fast, called Ta’anit B’chorot, from pre-dawn until the seder on the 14th of Nisan, this year on Wednesday, April 8, in recognition of the 10th plague. To avoid the fast, the custom has become for the firstborn to engage in Torah study and then have a festive "meal" (a siyyum) at the completion of their study. I will be hosting Torah study and siyyum (complete with the last chametz you will eat until the end of Pesach) on Wednesday, April 8, at 8:30 am, streaming at https://www.facebook.com/BnaiHayim/ and via Zoom - Zoom details will be given to those who contact me via e-mail to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net  by Tuesday evening, April 7.

2. Sadly, TBH/CBM is NOT holding its Community Second Seder this year. However, we are trying to develop a plan for streaming a second seder on Thursday, April 9. Watch this space or our Facebook page.

3.  DON’T FORGET TO REMOVE AND SELL CHAMETZ – AUTHORIZE RABBI FLOM TO DO SO ON YOUR BEHALF NO LATER THAN 10:00 AM Wednesday, April 8.

A downloadable, fillable authorization form which you can email to me is available here:


4. Kitniyot (beans, rice, corn) on Pesach? Yes! ESPECIALLY THIS YEAR WHEN SUPPLIES AND SHOPPING OPPORTUNITIES MAY BE LIMITED! Read the latest from the Rabbinical Assembly at:


I guess it's time to start thinking about Pesach!

Wishing you a Chag Pesach Sameach, Kasher U’Mashma’uti – A Passover that is Happy, Kosher and Meaningful!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom

Wednesday, March 25, 2020

SACRIFICING ONE’S APPETITES

Parashat Vayikra
Nisan 3, 5780 / March 27-28, 2020
Torah reading: Leviticus 1:1 – 5:26
Haftarah: Isaiah 43:21 – 44:23

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TBH is on-line, baby! You can access the following today and over the weekend:

This Shabbat's Torah reading, Parashat Vayikra, chanted by Reb Jason Van Leeuwen, with commentary by Rabbi Richard Flom, video and audio at:


 https://zoom.us/rec/play/tMF7Ir2tpz83TNKctASDU6N7W9Tvevis0ClM8qFcmBnkUHYBYQaiM7YVMOvrMvAaX5LvETP3_9IGAIqm?continueMode=true&_x_zm_rtaid=H9i3e5W2Q9KamhFL50zS-Q.1585325892908.80a5da9cd6f818e3924386c22f9d21b0&_x_zm_rhtaid=37


The haftarah for Parashat Vayikra, chanted by Steve Pearlman, audio only, at:
 https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XfCmpZG7UXzaeUp3rutb9dnmiLQU3T_W/view

Kabbalat Shabbat with Reb Jason and Rabbi Flom, live streaming at TBH's Facebook page Friday, March 27 at 6:30 pm (PDT): https://www.facebook.com/BnaiHayim/


"Passover in the Time of Corona Virus - Strategies for Seders, Passover Food, and Climbing the Walls", with Rabbi Flom, live streaming at TBH's Facebook page, Sunday, March 29 at 9:30 am (PDT): https://www.facebook.com/BnaiHayim/


(My Pesach Resources - 5780 (UPDATED), is available at: https://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2020/03/pesach-resources-5780-edition-updated.html  I'll be referencing some of the sources there on Sunday morning)

"History of the Jews of Israel/Middle East" (on-going) with David Silon, live streaming at TBH's Facebook page, Sunday, March 29 at 11:00 am (PDT):  https://www.facebook.com/BnaiHayim/


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Candle lighting: 6:52 pm
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SACRIFICING ONE’S APPETITES

"And he shall slaughter it before the Lord; on the north side of the altar ..." Leviticus 1:11

Menachem Nachum Twersky of Chernobyl (1730-1787) teaches: ‘This verse is a metaphor. What one is really slaughtering is one's yetzer hara - the evil inclination. The word translated here as "side" also means “thigh" - this alludes to lust. "Altar" refers to gluttony, because "a person's table is like an altar" (BT Chagigah 27a). "North" refers to avarice, the insatiable desire to accumulate wealth, for we learn "one who desires wealth should turn north" (BT Bava Batra 25b).’ Menachem Nachum adds that we often hold most dear those character traits which are the most destructive - they are part and parcel of our very selves, as modern psychiatry would say some 125 years later. 

We usually understand "sacrifice" as the giving up of something of considerable worth, particularly within the context of ritual worship. The Hebrew word for sacrifice, korban, is from the root word k-r-b, meaning “to come close”. By offering up a valuable item, we show our dedication and our desire to draw near to God. Our tradition, however, teaches that the sacrifices have been replaced by tzedakah and gemilut chasadim - charity and deeds of loving kindness.

Rabbi Elazar said: ‘Doing deeds of charity is greater than all of the sacrificial offerings.’ BT Sukkah 49b

Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai taught: ‘How does one make atonement in the absence of sacrifice? We have another way of gaining atonement which is equal to it. What is it? Deeds of loving-kindness, as it is written: “For it is loving-kindness I desire, and not sacrifice.”’ Avot D’Rabbi Natan 11a, quoting Hosea 6:6.

Don't be retentive! Lust – gluttony- greed - slaughter those bad habits and appetites, and replace them with your inner power to do good and improve the world!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Chanah bat Minnie Leah, Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Mark Brownstein, Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Martin Lee, Barbara Levy, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Gina Seeman, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Thursday, March 19, 2020

SERVICE OF THE HEART


Adar 25, 5780 / March 20-21, 2020
Parashat Vayak’hel/Pekudei - Shabbat HaChodesh
Torah: Exodus 35:1 – 40:38
Maftir (HaChodesh): Exodus 12:1-20
Haftarah (HaChodesh): Ezekiel 45:16 – 46:18

Candle lighting: 6:46 pm
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SERVICE OF THE HEART

"Take from among you gifts to the Lord; everyone whose heart so moves him shall bring them ... Every man and woman whose heart moved them to bring anything for the work that the Lord had commanded to be done, through Moses; the Israelites brought free will offerings to the Lord." Exodus 35:5; 35:29

The free-will gifts mentioned here relate to the construction of the tabernacle and the ritual objects and vestments utilized by the Israelite priests. With no more Temple in Jerusalem, we have found different ways to make holy gifts, in the form of tzedakah (charity) and gemilut chasadim (deeds of lovingkindness). For Purim, we have Mishlo’ach Manot (sending gifts of food) and Matanot L’evyonim (gifts of food or money to the poor). For Pesach we have Ma’ot Chittin (tzedakah specifically so the poor can observe the festival). Although these are mitzvot, acts which are commanded, we must admit that we give more and we do more when our hearts are moved to do so.

We have been told by our Rabbis that the Temple was destroyed because of sin'at chinam, senseless hatred, and that we will be redeemed through ahavat chinam, senseless love of our fellow human beings.

Observance of the mitzvot may be seen as a form of worship – just as our prayer services are. Perhaps our path to redemption, for ourselves, for our communities, and for our world, is for our hearts to be constantly moved with love of these mitzvot and of those who benefit from them, so that we continually engage in Avodat HaLev - the service of the heart

Our society too often appears to be engaged in a struggle between love and hate, between caring for each other and treating people like they were disposable. COVID-19 gives us the opportunity to show with crystal clarity where we stand – as individuals and as a people. Yes, Pesach is coming in three weeks – but members of our community are in need NOW!

God promises us through Ezekiel (36:26 – the haftarah we read last week for Shabbat Parah), "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit into you; I will remove the heart of stone from your body and give you a heart of flesh."

Don’t wait for God’s heart transplant! Don't wait until your heart moves you! Move your heart!

Shabbat Shalom!
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This d’var torah is offered in memory of my father-in-law, Abraham Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on Thursday, Nisan 1. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – his memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Chanah bat Minnie Leah, Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Mark Brownstein, Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Gabor Klein, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Martin Lee, Barbara Levy, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Gina Seeman, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

Please let us know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a

Wednesday, March 11, 2020

THE REASONS FOR SHABBAT


Adar 18, 5780 / March13-14, 2020
Parashat Ki Tisa (Shabbat Parah)
Torah: Exodus 31:18 - 33:11
Maftir: Numbers 19:1-22
Haftarah: Ezekiel 36:16-38 (Ashkenazim; Sephardim read 36:16-36)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out: http://www.bnaihayim.com 

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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THE REASONS FOR SHABBAT

"And the Children of Israel shall observe the Shabbat; to make the Shabbat for all their generations is an eternal covenant. Between Me and the Children of Israel it is a sign forever; for in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, and on the seventh day He rested and was refreshed." Exodus 31:16-17

The Ten Commandments, at Exodus 20:8, instruct that Shabbat is to be remembered. The Torah instructs that no work is to be done, as a remembrance that God rested on the seventh day of creation. At Deuteronomy 5:12, it is commanded that Shabbat is to be observed. No work is to be done, as a memorial of Egyptian bondage.

Note, however, that in our verses, there is no mention of remembrance, and no instruction to refrain from work. The given reason is that Shabbat is an eternal covenant, a sign forever between God and Israel. But there seems to be a redundancy. If Shabbat is eternal, then what is the meaning of "all their generations"?

I believe that "all their generations" means our children, our grandchildren, our descendants. If all we do is rest, and remember creation and slavery, we are only observing Shabbat in two ways, or for two reasons. In a sense, creation and slavery were one-time events, part of history. But if we observe Shabbat for (and with) our generations, our children, we are observing Shabbat for a third reason - eternity. That gives Shabbat staying power. Even if we have no memory of creation or slavery, we have our descendants before us. Don't do it only for yourself - do it for your children!

Shabbat Shalom!

HaRav HaGaon HaTzaddik Abba Reuven Ben Menachem Mendel Flom, Sh’lita
Der Heileger Rebbe of Sherman Oaks
Rosh Yeshivah – Lower Slobbovia
Slivovitz Taste Tester
משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה
From the beginning of Adar, we increase joy.
BT Ta’anit 29a
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Candle lighting: 6:41 pm

Friday: Tot Shabbat Service – 6:30 pm. Shabbat Evening Service – 7:15 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
SaturdayTorah study/breakfast - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Junior Congregation – 10:00 am. Kiddush Luncheon follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Rabbi Flom’s “(Re)Introduction to Judaism” class – 9:30 am. David Silon’s "History of Israel and the Middle East" class - 11:00 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - 12:30 pm. 
Friday, March 20: Simchah Shabbat Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Complimentary Shabbat Dinner follows. RSVP to synagogue office.
Saturday, March 21: Torah study/breakfast - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush Luncheon follows.

Sunday, March 29: Israeli Wine Tasting and Tapas – 3:00 pm. A wonderful array of wines, all kosher for Passover, and delicious tapas, with wine broker Carmit Becker. Wines available for purchase. $30 per person in advance; $35 at the door. Must be 21 years or older. RSVP no later than March 25.

Thursday, April 9: Community Second Seder – 6:30 pm. Cost – Adults: $50 (members), $60 (non-members); Ages 6-12: $18; Ages 5 and under: gratis. RSVP no later than March 31!

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Chanah bat Minnie Leah, Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Gabor Klein, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Martin Lee, Barbara Levy, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Gina Seeman, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list. 

Thursday, March 5, 2020

DELEGATION OF AUTHORITY TO SELL CHAMETZ - 5780


Delegation of Authority to Sell Chametz

Passover — 5780 / 2020                                                                                        


Delegation of Authority to Sell Chametz
I, _________________________________________________, the undersigned, fully empower and permit Rabbi Richard Flom to act in my place and stead, and on my behalf to sell all chametz possessed by me, knowingly or unknowingly as defined by the Torah and Rabbinic Law (e.g. chametz, possible chametz, and all kinds of chametz mixtures).
Also chametz that tends to harden and adhere to inside surfaces of pans, pots, or cooking utensils, the utensils themselves, as well as pet food that contain chametz and mixtures thereof.
Rabbi Flom is also empowered to lease all places wherein the chametz owned by me may be found, particularly at the address/es listed below, and elsewhere.
Rabbi Flom has full right to appoint any agent or substitute in his stead and said substitute shall have full right to sell and lease as provided herein.
Rabbi Flom also has the full power and right to act as he deems fit and proper in accordance with all the details of the Bill of Sale used in the transaction to sell all my chametz, chametz mixtures, etc., as provided herein. This power is in conformity with all Torah, Rabbinic and Civil laws.
This Delegation of Power takes effect at 12:00 noon PDT on the 14th day of Nisan, 5780, corresponding to the 8th day of April, 2020, and ends at 8:05 pm PDT on the 23rd day of Nisan, 5780, corresponding to the 16th day of April, 2020.

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Signature


Address and Specific Location(s) of Chametz:


REMEMBER?


Adar 11, 5780 / March 6-7, 2020
Parashat Tetzaveh (Shabbat Zakhor)
Torah Reading: Exodus 27:20 - 30:10
Maftir (Shabbat Zakhor): Deuteronomy 25:17-19
Haftarah (Shabbat Zakhor): 1 Samuel 15:1-34 

NEWS FLASH!
PURIM IS COMING!

Purim dinner, spiel and megillah readingMonday, March 9, at 6:30 pm. RSVP ASAP by calling the TBH/CBM office. Deadline for dinner reservations and for ordering mishloach manot baskets is Friday at 11:00 am. Thanks to Rebecca Marcus for putting together and directing this year’s spiel!

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out: http://www.bnaihayim.com 

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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REMEMBER?

This Shabbat is known as Shabbat Zakhor (Remember) because of the first word of the Maftir, the additional Torah reading, which instructs us to remember what Amalek did to our ancestors on the way out of Egypt. This serves as a connection to the observance of Purim, Monday night and Tuesday, when we commemorate the defeat of Haman, a descendant of Amalek. However, I want to focus on a different kind of remembering, mentioned in the weekly portion for this Shabbat.

"And you shall put the two stones upon the shoulder pieces of the ephod, stones of remembrance for the Children of Israel; and Aaron shall bear their names before the Lord upon his two shoulders for a remembrance... And Aaron shall bear the names of the Children of Israel in the breastplate of judgment over his heart, when he goes into the holy place, for a remembrance before the Lord perpetually." Exodus 28:12, 29

"For a remembrance - that the Holy One Blessed Be He should see the tribes written before Him and remember their righteousness." (tzidkatam – their righteousness) Rashi to verse 12, citing Midrash Exodus Rabbah

"Memory is the source of redemption; exile comes from forgetting." Baal Shem Tov to verse 29.

The names of the tribes were engraved on the stones as a reminder - to whom? Rashi teaches that God needs to be reminded of the righteousness of our ancestors. Perhaps it is to remind God of our righteousness; we also are the Children of Israel. Does God really need to be reminded of anything - as if God could forget! Yet many of the prayers which we regularly offer do just that – remind God.

I understand the Baal Shem Tov, the founder of Chasidism, as saying "no!" We are the ones who need to remember. If we are righteous, we need to remember that we once were not. If we are not righteous, we must remember that we can become so - if we try. Remembering takes on redeeming qualities, because it can compel us to perform acts of righteousness. So it is imperative to remember what you once were; to be reminded of what you have the potential to become; and to do something about it, by performing acts of tzedek and tzedakah, of justice and of righteousness.

Have a wonderful Shabbat! Purim Sameach! Barukh Mordechai; Arur Haman! 

HaRav HaGaon HaTzaddik Abba Reuven Ben Menachem Mendel Flom, Sh’lita
Der Heileger Rebbe of Sherman Oaks
Rosh Yeshivah – Lower Slobbovia
Slivovitz Taste Tester
משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה
From the beginning of Adar, we increase joy.
BT Ta’anit 29a
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Candle lighting: 5:35 pm

Friday: Cool Shabbat Evening Service with Steve Pearlman – 6:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
SaturdayTorah study/breakfast - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush Luncheon follows. TURN YOUR CLOCKS AHEAD ONE HOUR TONIGHT - DST BEGINS!
Sunday: Religious School hamentaschen bake and Mishloach Manot assembly – 9:30 am. David Silon’s "History of Israel and the Middle East" class meets at 11:00 am. Rabbi Flom’s “(Re)Introduction to Judaism” will resume March 15.
Monday: Purim Dinner, Purimspiel, and Megillat Esther reading – 6:30 pm. RSVP a must for the dinner. 
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - 12:30 pm. NOTE TIME CHANGE 
Friday, March 13Tot Shabbat Service – 6:30 pm. Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, March 14: Torah study/breakfast - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush Luncheon follows.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of my mother, Annabelle Flom, observing her 89th birthday on Wedneday. Yom huledet sameach, ima! Ad meah v’esrim!

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Chanah bat Minnie Leah, Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Gabor Klein, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Martin Lee, Barbara Levy, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Gina Seeman, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list. 

PUTTING GOD SECOND

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