Wednesday, July 27, 2022

CITY OF REFUGE, SHINING ON A HILL?

Parashat Mattot-Mas’ei
Torah: Numbers 30:2 – 36:13 (Chazak!)
Haftarah: Jeremiah 2:4-28; 3:4 (Second Shabbat of Admonition)
Av 2, 5782 / July 29-30, 2022
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina, Feigel bat Kreina, and Devorah bat Feigel.
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Lunch and Learn meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov. On August 2 we'll be at BT Shabbat 3(b) - page 105 of Ein Ya'akov Volume 1. Ein Ya'akov is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at: 
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com   
 
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CITY OF REFUGE, SHINING ON A HILL?

“You shall provide yourselves with places to serve as cities of refuge to which a manslayer that has killed a person unintentionally may flee.” Numbers 35:11

According to the Torah, the purpose of a city of refuge (ir miklat) was to protect someone who was not guilty of intentional murder from the blood avengers of the victim’s family. For example, when an axe-head separated from the handle and struck another person, the one chopping wood was a manslayer, not a murderer, and was granted refuge. But, as is our way with Torah, we can find far deeper and relevant meanings.


Cities of Refuge - Providence Lithograph Company, 1901

In his farewell address to our nation, January 11, 1989, President Reagan said the following: “I've spoken of the shining city all my political life, but I don't know if I ever quite communicated what I saw when I said it. But in my mind it was a tall, proud city built on rocks stronger than oceans, wind-swept, God-blessed, and teeming with people of all kinds living in harmony and peace; a city with free ports that hummed with commerce and creativity. And if there had to be city walls, the walls had doors and the doors were open to anyone with the will and the heart to get here. That's how I saw it, and see it still.”

I’ve always admired this inspiring vision, however unfulfilled it might be. Sadly, it seems that our country is further from that vision than we have been in many decades – we are letting it slip away. Today, we are too often refusing refuge to people who are actually fleeing real murder and mayhem and oppression – because of their language, their skin color, their national origin, their religion. Rather than an ir miklat, a city of refuge, the United States has become an ir siruv, a city of refusal, a city of denial. And it's not just refugees. It's immigrants in general. And, we seem to be finding it increasingly difficult to live with each other in harmony and peace - racism, anti-semitism, LGBTQ-phobia, mad conspiracy theories, and general distrust of different political views have greatly diminished discourse and civility.

Next Shabbat is Shabbat Chazon, the Shabbat of the Vision of Isaiah – the last Shabbat before Tisha B’Av, the date commemorating the destruction of Jerusalem, the original Shining City on a Hill – lost, according to tradition, because of the hypocrisy and hatred in the city. Isaiah 1:1-27 is worth reading now – don’t wait until next Shabbat. The prophet gives this instruction: “Learn to do good; devote yourselves to justice; aid those who have been wronged. Uphold the rights of the orphan; defend the cause of the widow.” (1:17)

This is how we create a city of refuge – this is how we create an American shining city on a hill.

Shabbat Shalom.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom - Rabbi Emeritus
Temple B'nai Hayim
Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/
Visit me on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RabbiRichardFlom 
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Tuesday, July 19, 2022

FOLLOW THE LEADER

Parashat Pinchas
Tammuz 24, 5782 / July 22-23, 2022
Torah: Numbers 25:10 - 30:1
Haftarah: Jeremiah 1:1-2:3 (First Haftarah of Rebuke)
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This d'var torah is offered in memory of Ruth "Roni" Silon, who passed away on Shabbat. Y'hi zikhrah liv'rakhah - May her memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina, Feigel bat Kreina, and D'vorah bat Feigel.
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Lunch and Learn  meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov. On July 26 we'll be at Chapter 9 of BT Berakhot 63(b) - 
"...ת״ר כשנכנסו רבותינו לכרם ביבנה” - 
"Our Rabbis taught: When our Rabbis entered the academy of Jabne...
The reading may be found at page 39 of my pagination: 
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TK74GI6tqBSDugLsQmHTYEAzPqDUJxS0/view?usp=sharing 
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Rabbi Van Leeuwen has a blog which you should read at: 
https://rebjasonblog.wordpress.com/blog/ 

Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com   
 
Check out our wonderful community, and get lots of info about becoming a Chaver and our various programs, at: https://bnaihayim.org/ 

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FOLLOW THE LEADER

"Of Yetzer, the Yetzerite family; of Shilem, the Shilemite family." Numbers 26:49

Rabbi Yechiel Michel of Zlochov offers the following comment on this verse: "This is a hint of what our Sages say, that a person is led along the path he wishes to follow (citing the Talmud at Makkot 10). 'Of Yetzer' (which means "inclination") - if a person wishes to follow his yetzer hara, his Evil Inclination, 'the Yetzerite family' - whole families will join him in this type of behavior. On the other hand, 'of Shilem' (the root of which means "perfection" - the same root as "shalom" - "peace") - if a person seeks to find perfection, 'the Shilemite family' - many friends will join him in this course."


Moses Blesses Joshua Before the High Priest - James Tissot

This is an interesting insight. Each and every one of us has not only the freedom to choose good or evil, but the power to persuade others through our choices. Our actions can be as persuasive as our words. Whether we intend so or not, for good or ill, we all lead by example. This means that, in a sense, none of us ever has any "down time" - we are constantly observed by others - whether by our partners or by our children or by our friends or by our co-workers. But it also means that every minute of every waking day is an opportunity to influence others in a positive and constructive way - merely by being "shilem".

You never know who's watching!
 
Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom - Rabbi Emeritus
Temple B'nai Hayim
Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/
Visit me on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RabbiRichardFlom 
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Tuesday, July 12, 2022

NO PROFIT FROM “PROPHETS”

Parashat Balak
Torah: Numbers 22:2 - 25:9
Haftarah: Micah 5:6 - 6:8
Tammuz 17, 5782 / July 15-16, 2022
Fast of Tammuz deferred to Sunday - 4:28 AM - 8:26 PM
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This d'var torah is offered in honor of Gwen Wexler and Rabbi Jason van Leeuwen, now married for two weeks and celebrating a Shabbat Chatan-Kallah this Shabbat at Temple B'nai Hayim. Please join us in person or on-line to welcome the newly weds!
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina, Feigel bat Kreina, and D'vorah bat Feigel.
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Lunch and Learn  meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya’akov. NO meeting on July 19. On July 26, we'll be at Chapter 9 of BT Berakhot 63(b) - "...ת״ר כשנכנסו רבותינו לכרם ביבנה” - "Our Rabbis taught: When our Rabbis entered the academy of Jabne,..." The reading may be found at page 39 of my pagination: 
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1TK74GI6tqBSDugLsQmHTYEAzPqDUJxS0/view?usp=sharing 
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Rabbi Van Leeuwen has a blog which you should read at: 
https://rebjasonblog.wordpress.com/blog/ 

Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com   
 
Check out our wonderful community, and get lots of info about becoming a Chaver and our various programs, at: https://bnaihayim.org/ 

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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NO PROFIT FROM “PROPHETS”

“How goodly are your tents, O Jacob, your dwelling places, O Israel. Like palm groves that stretch out; like gardens beside a river; like aloes planted by the Lord; like cedars beside the water.” Numbers 24:5-6.

The first verse here is the opening of “Ma Tovu”, recited upon entering the synagogue. Together, the verses are a beautiful blessing, or perhaps an observation, offered by the sorcerer-prophet Bil’am (aka Balaam), who had been hired to curse the people of Israel.



Balaam and the angel, painting from Gustav Jaeger, 1836.

The early Hasidic master Yakov Yosef of Polnoye asks, “What is the difference between a true prophet and a false one?” The true prophet, he says, scolds people, telling them of their failings and how they may correct them. Think of Jeremiah or Isaiah.

The false prophet, on the other hand, sweet-talks the people. “You’re wonderful!  Everything is great! Don’t change a thing.” He covers you in honey and cream while preparing to slice you to pieces.

It is precisely because true prophets love the people that they criticize them and demand improvement. Even though Bil’am and others of his ilk (both then and now!) praise the people Israel, they do not sing out of love. They say what they say in order to entice Israel, and prevent the people from reaching the loftiest possible spiritual and moral levels.

Don’t be fooled by false prophets - they'll love you to death.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom - Rabbi Emeritus
Temple B'nai Hayim
Blogging at: http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/
Visit me on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RabbiRichardFlom 
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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