Tuesday, May 30, 2023

REPENTANCE FROM WITHIN

Parashat Naso
Sivan 14, 5783 / June 2-3, 2023
Torah: Numbers 4:21 - 7:89
Haftarah: Judges 13:2-25

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina and Devorah bat Feigel.
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Lunch and Learn meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. 
We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov
NO LUNCH AND LEARN ON JUNE 6. 
On June 13, we'll be at BT Shabbat 88a, page 165 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 -  "...ת'ש דתניא בסדר עולם" - "Come and learn! We are taught in Sedar Olam...” 
Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria: 
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com 

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REPENTANCE FROM WITHIN

"The Lord spoke to Moses, saying, 'Speak to the Children of Israel: A man or woman who commits any of mankind's sins, to commit sacrilege against the Lord, and that person becomes guilty - they shall confess their sin that they committed - they shall make restitution for their guilt plus an additional one-fifth, and give it to the one whom they have wronged.'" Numbers 5:5-7

In his Mishneh Torah, Rambam (Maimonides) says that the commandment to confess is the foundation of teshuvah, repentance. For sins against God, we confess to God. For sins against our fellows, we confess to them and to God - for sins against others are also sins against God.


Maimònides - Bronze Statue in Còrdoba
 
Why confession? Shouldn't restitution, especially with an additional amount, be sufficient? If the guilty party has made the victim whole, what is the point of confession? Compare this with the American legal system. Every day, hundreds of lawsuits are settled with the payment of settlement money (not called "damages"), but with no admission of wrongdoing. We accept this as a way to end litigation, but we know intuitively that it is not the solution to the problem. It seems like the guilty party is buying a license - perhaps to sin yet again.

Why confession? In part, one must convince both humans and God that one will not commit the sin again. But many of us can be convincing actors. We might even convince ourselves. An answer may be found in the Hebrew grammar for the word "confess" which appears in verse 7. The word is hitvadu, a reflexive form of the verb. The point is to cause introspection, to find the true source of the wrongdoing, to avoid the blame game. Someone who has confessed, both outwardly and inwardly, who has thoroughly examined the self, is much less likely to commit another offense. Some things money can't buy! True repentance comes from within.

Shabbat Shalom!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Rabbi Emeritus, Temple B'nai Hayim
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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Sunday, May 21, 2023

FROM OUR ANCESTORS TO OUR DESCENDANTS

Shavuot 1
Sivan 6, 5783 / May 25-26, 2023
Torah: Exodus 19:1 – 20:22; Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah: Ezekiel 1:1-28; 3:12

Shavuot 2
Sivan 7, 5783 / May 26-27, 2023
Book of Ruth
Torah: Deuteronomy 14:22 – 16:17; Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah: Habakkuk 2:20 - 3:19
Additional reading: Book of Ruth
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This d'var torah is offered in memory of my beloved father, Martin Flom, whose yahrzeit falls on Saturday, May 27 (Sivan 7). Y’hi zikhro barukh – his memory is a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of my beloved grandfather, Jacob Slome, whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday, May 28 (Sivan 8). Y’hi zikhro barukh – his memory is a blessing
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina and Devorah bat Feigel.

Monday is Memorial Day. Don't forget to raise Old Glory and remember those who died in service to us.


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Lunch and Learn meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live.
We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov
On May 23, we'll be at BT Shabbat 77b, page 158 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 - 
 "...אמר רב יהודה אמר רב כל מה שברא" - "R. Juda in the name of Rab said...” 

Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria: 
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com 
 
Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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FROM OUR ANCESTORS TO OUR DESCENDANTS

The holiday of Shavuot is often called Chag Matan Torah, the Festival of the Giving of the Torah. I have some difficulty with that. If one receives a gift, one is under no obligation to use it, or even to keep it. How often have you stashed that gift sweater in a closet, taking it out only when you are likely to see the giver? How often have you taken a gift back to the store where it was purchased, in order to get what you really wanted? We all accept this practice - that's why the stores put gift vouchers in the box. Many of us do that with the Torah, too! We trot it out, in a sense, for the High Holy Days and our children's b'nai mitzvah, which are often the only times some of us go to synagogue services. The rest of the time, we leave it in the closet, with the mothballs. The Torah should not be treated in that way.

‘The Ten Commandments’ (Providence Lithograph Company, 1907)

Our Rabbis understood that little bit of human nature. That is why a better name for Shavuot would be Chag Kabbalat Torah - the Festival of the Acceptance of the Torah. The midrash teaches that, not only did the Israelites accept the Torah, they affirmatively sought it ought! And God did not want to give it to them! According to Song of Songs Rabbah, God said to them, "Before I give you My Torah, you must provide sureties - a guarantee that you will keep the Torah." The Israelites proposed in their turn their ancestors Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, but each was rejected by God as insufficient. They proposed all of their prophets, but God said they were not acceptable either. Then the Israelites said, "Let our children be our sureties." And God replied, "Verily, those are good sureties; for their sake will I give you My Torah."

Our ancestors wanted the Torah so much that they promised that they, and we, and our descendants, would keep it. And Torah observance has kept us intact as a people for a hundred generations. If the Torah is constantly being given to us, as implied in the Blessing Before the Torah Reading ("notein hatorah" - the One Who gives the Torah), then we are constantly accepting it. And God is giving it to us only because our children are our sureties. For the sake of our children, and our descendants, "na'aseh v'nishma" - we should do it, and we should listen to it!

Chag Shavuot Sameach! Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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Tuesday, May 16, 2023

THE TEST

Parashat Bamidbar
Iyar 29, 6783 / May 19-20, 2023
Torah: Numbers 1:1 – 4:20
Haftarah: 1 Samuel 20:18-42 (Machar Chodesh)
 
Shavuot - Sivan 6-7, 5783 / May 25-27, 2023
Torah (Day 1): Exodus 19:1 - 20:23
         (Day 2): Deuteronomy 14:22 - 16:17
Maftir (both days): Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah (Day 1): Ezekiel 1:1-28; 3:12
             (Day 2): Habakkuk 2:20 - 3:19
Additional reading: Book of Ruth

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my beloved father, Martin Flom, whose yahrzeit falls on Saturday, May 27 (Sivan 7). Y’hi zikhro barukh – his memory is a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of my beloved grandfather, Jacob Slome, whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday, May 28 (Sivan 8). Y’hi zikhro barukh – his memory is a blessing
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina and Devorah bat Feigel.
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Lunch and Learn meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live.
We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov
On May 23, we'll be at BT Shabbat 77b, page 158 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 - 
 "...אמר רב יהודה אמר רב כל מה שברא" - "R. Juda in the name of Rab said...” 

Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria: 
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com 
 
Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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THE TEST

“The Lord spoke to Moses in the Wilderness of Sinai, in the Tent of Meeting, on the first day of the second month, in the second year after their exodus from the land of Egypt, saying...” Numbers 1:1

This parashah, and the book of the Torah named for it, is called “Numbers” in English. But in Hebrew, it is “Bamidbar”, which means “in the wilderness”. The census taken in this parashah, the numbering, is done in the wilderness. The wilderness is a fearful place, with dangers both physical and spiritual. It is a place to be tested, to stand up and be counted.

The Numbering of the Israelites, as in Numbers 1, engraving by Henri Félix Emmanuel Philippoteaux (1815–1884)

 
The giving of the Torah will be commemorated on the holiday of Shavuot next week. In the Midrash, Bamidbar Rabbah, it is taught that the Torah was given in fire, in water and in the desert. In a sense, this wasteland where our ancestors ultimately will spend 40 years, serves as a forge. Just as a sword is hammered and shaped, plunged into fire and water and sand, and tested for durability, so were the Israelites.
 
Often, people having a life cycle event, whether a bar/bat mitzvah, wedding, graduation, or even a divorce or a death, feel they have passed a test. While that may be true, it is not the end, but the beginning. Now it is time to do something positive with the test results, and more especially with the knowledge and experience by which the passing grade was accomplished. It is life itself that is the ultimate test. And the Torah, given to our ancestors and to us, is the study guide.
 
Good luck on your exams!
 
Shabbat Shalom! Chodesh Sivan Tov! Chag Shavuot Sameach!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom, Rabbi Emeritus
TBH/CBM
.אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם? הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1 
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Tuesday, May 9, 2023

WAYS AND MEANS

Iyar 23, 5783 / May 12-13, 2023
Parashat Behar-Bechukotai (Chazak!)
Torah: Leviticus 25:1 - 27:34
Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:19 - 17:14
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina and Devorah bat Feigel.
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Lunch and Learn meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live.
We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov
On May 16, we'll be at BT Shabbat 63a, page 156 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 - 
 "...אמר רב כהנא אמר רבי שמעון בן לקיש"  - "R. Cahana, in the name of R. Simon b. Lakish said...” 
Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria: 
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
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WAYS AND MEANS

"And if you say, 'What will we eat in the seventh year? Behold, we do not sow and do not gather in our crop', then I will command My blessing upon you in the sixth year, and it will bring forth fruit for three years." (Leviticus 25:21)

Every seventh year, known as shmittah, the land of Israel is not to be tilled. During that year, the people are to live on the harvest from the end of the sixth year plus anything growing wild. During the eighth year (the first year in the next cycle), they are to survive on surplus from the sixth plus anything growing wild in the seventh and eighth years until the new crop comes in. Imported food is also permitted.

A number of commentators have suggested that one purpose of the shmittah year is to teach the wealthy what it is like to lack resources and not have all that they want. They will develop humility and an understanding of the need to help the poor.

But will they? After all, the rich will merely plan ahead with extra stores, or use their wealth to purchase what they need. So, what does God mean by "I will command My blessing"?

Perhaps this: "And if your brother becomes poor and his strength fails him, you shall support him, even if he is a convert or a sojourner among you, that he may live with you." (Leviticus 25:35) That is certainly a command - but where is the blessing? As we will read in the opening lines of the second parashah we read this Shabbat, Bechukotai, "If you walk in My statutes and keep My commandments, and do them; then I will give you rain in due season, and the land will yield its produce, and the trees of the field will yield their fruit." (Leviticus 26:3-4)

Which reminds me...

This Saturday, mail carriers throughout the United States will be "stamping out hunger", collecting cans, bags and boxes of non-perishable groceries. (For more info, go to: https://www.nalc.org/community-service/food-drive  and https://about.usps.com/what/corporate-social-responsibility/activities/nalc-food-drive.htm ) The food will be distributed to local food banks and soup kitchens. This is a no-brainer. All you have to do is leave groceries by your mailbox and the carrier will take them when s/he delivers your mail. One item or fifty, it will all help alleviate some people's hunger for a time.



The Torah gives a simple lesson for the haves, which is just about all of us reading this blog/e-mail. If you take care of the needy when you have the means, you will continue to be blessed with the means. Otherwise, you might eventually be denied the means even to take care of yourself.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom, Rabbi Emeritus
TBH/CBM
.אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם? הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1 
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Wednesday, May 3, 2023

YOU TOO CAN PERFORM KIDDUSH HASHEM!

Iyar 15, 5783 / May 5-6, 2023
Parashat Emor
Torah: Leviticus 21:1 - 24:23
Haftarah: Ezekiel 44:15-31
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina and Devorah bat Feigel.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Rabbi Harold Kushner, who passed away on April 27, 2023/Iyar 6, 5783. Y'hi zikhro liv'rakhah.
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Lunch and Learn meets Tuesdays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live.
We're continuing to read and discuss the Midrashic collection Ein Ya'akov
On May 9, we'll be at BT Shabbat 63a, page 154 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 - 
 "אמר רב כהנא כד הוינא בר תמני סרי שנין"  - "R. Cahana said: 'When I was about eighteen years old,...'” 
Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria: 
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Rabbi Van Leeuwen has a blog which you should read at: 
https://rebjasonblog.wordpress.com/blog/ 
 
Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com 
 
Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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YOU TOO CAN PERFORM KIDDUSH HASHEM!

"You shall not profane My Holy Name (shem kodshi), for I will be sanctified (nikdashti) amidst the Children of Israel - I the Lord Who sanctifies you. (m’kadishkhem)" Leviticus 22:32

The term "Kiddush HaShem", the sanctification of the name of God, is generally associated with martyrdom - suffering execution rather than committing idolatry, for example. One should prefer death over the public desecration of God's name (Chillul HaShem). A primary example of such martyrdom is Rabbi Akiva, who recited the Sh'ma as the Romans executed him. He is also associated with Lag B'Omer, the 33rd day of the omer count (Tuesday Iyar 18/May 9 this year), when his students were miraculously delivered from a plague.

Rabbi Harold Kushner, z'l, in Chumash Etz Hayyim, teaches that the recitation of the Mourner's Kaddish (from the same root as kiddush) is literally a Kiddush HaShem. It is said by mourners in public, for it requires a minyan - a prayer quorum of 10 Jewish adults. Mourners, who might feel angry at God over the death of their loved one, stand up and proclaim, "Yitgadal v'yitkadash sh'mei rabbah - May His great name be magnified and sanctified." To which the others respond, "Amen." This recitation is a public affirmation of faith, which can only serve to strengthen the faith of all who are present. Saying "amen" places the respondent in the same position, from the standpoint of Jewish tradition, as the person who recites the kaddish - or any blessing, for that matter. Thus, every "amen" to the Mourner's Kaddish (or any other Kaddish) is also a Kiddush HaShem.




Every time a mourner wishes to stand up at a service and recite the Mourner's Kaddish, and a minyan is not present, the mourner and all those who are present are deprived of the opportunity to perform a Kiddush HaShem. And if you are not present, but could have been, you are preventing them from doing so - as well as missing out on the opportunity yourself! If you want to perform a Kiddush HaShem, without being a martyr, join your community at a worship service, and sanctify God's name "amidst the Children of Israel."

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom, Rabbi Emeritus
TBH/CBM
.אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם? הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1 
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PUTTING GOD SECOND

Parashat Vayera Cheshvan 15, 5783 / November 15-16, 2024 Torah: Genesis 18:1-22:24 Haftarah: Kings II 4:1-37 (Ashkenazic); Kings II 4:1-23 (...