Monday, February 19, 2024

GOT A LIGHT?

Parashat Tetzaveh
1 Adar 15, 5784 / February 23-24,2024
Torah: Exodus 27:20 – 30:10
Haftarah: Ezekiel 43:10-27
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This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all who have been wounded in the terrorist attacks and in fighting against the terrorists, as well as innocent non-combatants caught in the crossfire.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of all the victims of Hamas, Islamic Jihad, and Hezbollah. Y’hi zikhronam liv’rakhah – May their memories be a blessing. And may the memory of Hamas, Islamic Jihad, and Hezbollah and all their supporters be forever erased.
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Lunch and Learn meets Mondays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. On Monday, February 26, we'll be at BT Shabbat 138b, page 201 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 –  "... אמר רב עתידה תורה שתשתכח"  - "Rab said: 'There will a time in the future when the Torah will be forgotten....'”
 
Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
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A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria:
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
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!משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה - With the beginning of Adar, we increase joy! (BT Ta'anit 29a) 

HERE'S A LITTLE PURIM TORAH CONTEST 

As this is a Jewish Leap Year, it raises a question, and the person who gives me whatever I believe to be the best answer will be awarded one slightly used bottle of slivovitz (the decision of the judge and the amount of slivovitz he drinks from the bottle are in his sole discretion and are final): Since we are instructed by our rabbis to be joyful in Adar, and Adar is twice as long this year, does that mean that we have twice as much joy this year than in non-leap years, or, does it mean that on any given day in the months of Adar, we are only half as joyful as we would have been in a non-leap year because our joy must be spread over twice as many days? There is no right or wrong answer! Be (very) creative with proof texts!

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GOT A LIGHT?

“And you shall command the Children of Israel, that they take for you pure olive oil, beaten for the light, that a lamp burn continually (tamid).” Exodus 27:20

What was the purpose of the lamp? For whom was the lamp kept burning? Rabbi Shmuel bar Nachmani interpreted the verse to mean: “They take for you and not for Me; I do not need the light.” The commentary Torah Temimah, citing Sefer Chinukh, says that the commandment for lighting the menorah was so that the sanctuary would be brightly lit, and that would be for “the glory of Israel”. All of the commandments regarding the sanctuary were for Israel’s glory. Thus, the Torah says, “Take for you” - and not for Me; it is for the glory of Israel.

Ner Tamid - Kesher Israel Synagogue

Although our synagogues today all maintain a Ner Tamid (the only mitzvah associated with the Holy Temple still observed – Rabbi Harold Kushner), which we frequently translate as the “Eternal Lamp”, I have to wonder if that is sufficient glory for Israel. Note that Rashi, citing other verses in the Torah, explains that the Ner Tamid in our verse did not burn continuously; rather, it was lit “regularly”, on a schedule. It did not burn 24/7.  

That being the case, I would suggest that every one of us can establish our own Ner Tamid. You can turn your very own home into a sanctuary by kindling Shabbat and Yom Tov candles on a regular basis. Get a new kind of light in your home - do it for the glory of Israel, and for sanctifying your own life.

Be Happy – It’s Adar! Shabbat Shalom!

HaRav HaGaon HaTzaddik Abba Reuven Ben Menachem Mendel Flom, Sh’lita
Der Heileger Rebbe of Sherman Oaks, Emeritus
Rosh Yeshivah – Chelm
Slivovitz Taste Tester
משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה!
From the beginning of Adar, we increase joy.
BT Ta’anit 29a
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Tuesday, February 13, 2024

THE WORLD YOU SAVE MAY BE YOUR OWN

Parashat T’rumah 
1 Adar 8, 5784 / February 16-17,2024
Torah: Exodus 25:1 – 27:19
Haftarah: 1 Kings 5:26 - 6:13
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This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all who have been wounded in the terrorist attacks and in fighting against the terrorists, as well as innocent non-combatants caught in the crossfire.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of all the victims of Hamas, Islamic Jihad, and Hezbollah. Y’hi zikhronam liv’rakhah – May their memories be a blessing. And may the memory of Hamas, Islamic Jihad, and Hezbollah and all their supporters be forever erased.
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Lunch and Learn meets Mondays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. On Monday, February 19, we'll be at BT Shabbat 138b, page 201 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 –  "... אמר רב עתידה תורה שתשתכח"  - "Rab said: 'There will a time in the future when the Torah will be forgotten....'”
 
Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630   
 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria:
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Check out our wonderful community, and get lots of info about our various programs and becoming a Member at: https://bnaihayim.org/ 
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Rabbi Van Leeuwen has a blog which you should read at: 
https://rebjasonblog.wordpress.com/blog/ 
 
Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com 
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!משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה - With the beginning of Adar, we increase joy! (BT Ta'anit 29a) 

HERE'S A LITTLE PURIM TORAH CONTEST 

As this is a Jewish Leap Year, it raises a question, and the person who gives me whatever I believe to be the best answer will be awarded one slightly used bottle of slivovitz (the decision of the judge and the amount of slivovitz he drinks from the bottle are in his sole discretion and are final): Since we are instructed by our rabbis to be joyful in Adar, and Adar is twice as long this year, does that mean that we have twice as much joy this year than in non-leap years, or, does it mean that on any given day in the months of Adar, we are only half as joyful as we would have been in a non-leap year because our joy must be spread over twice as many days? There is no right or wrong answer! Be (very) creative with proof texts!

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THE WORLD YOU SAVE MAY BE YOUR OWN
 
“Speak to the Children of Israel, that they bring Me an offering; from every person whose heart so moves him you shall take My offering.” Exodus 25:2


The Tabernacle in the Wilderness (illustration from the 1890 Holman Bible)

The word “v’yik’khu”, usually translated here as “that they bring”, literally means “that they take”. The idea is that the Israelites willingly take from among their possessions and donate for the building of the tabernacle. Some commentators understand the verse to mean that leaders of the people are to “take” up a collection. However, the Hasidic master Menachem Mendel of Kotzk has a different “take” on the matter (pardon the pun).

He teaches that “v’yik’khu” also means to trade or engage in business. Simply because one has a setback in business, he doesn't stop trading, for then his business will collapse completely. The Kotzker says that the same is true for the Torah and the mitzvot. If one does not succeed once or twice, he must nevertheless continue to work at self-improvement, and not give up.

This all seems straightforward enough. But then he says, “If the Torah is not learned and the mitzvot not performed, the world simply cannot exist.” This is an astonishing statement! The world needs Jews who actually practice Judaism! Even if one disagrees with him about the state of the world (I happen to agree with him wholeheartedly), one cannot dispute the state of the Jewish people, which needs Jews who practice Judaism! If all we have is an identity fostered by lox and bagels (foodaism), or observance limited to a once a year visit to the synagogue (nostalgic tourist Judaism), or if we treat Judaism as being primarily for children (juvenilism), we simply will not exist as a people. If our children see that Torah and mitzvot mean little to us, they will wonder why Judaism should mean anything at all to them. But if we live Jewish lives, then the Jewish people will survive and thrive.

“Take” the time to offer your heart and your mind and your limbs for learning and for doing Jewish. It might just save the world.
 
Be Happy – It’s Adar! Shabbat Shalom!

Grand Rabbi Abba Reuven ben Menachem Mendel Flom, Sh’lita
Der Heiliger Sherman Oaks Rebbe - Emeritus
Av Beis Din - Chelm
!משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה
Mishenichnas Adar, Marbin B’simcha - From the beginning of Adar, we increase joy!
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Sunday, February 4, 2024

YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT NECESSARILY YOUR OWN!

1 Adar 1, 5784 / February 9-10, 2024
Parashat Mishpatim (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh)
Torah: Exodus 21:1 - 24:18
Maftir: Numbers 28:9-15
Haftarah (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh): Isaiah 66:1-24
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This d'var torah is offered in memory of my mother, Annabelle Flom, on the occasion of shloshim since her passing. Y’hi zekherah liv’rakhah – Her memory is a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered in honor of the women of Temple B’nai Hayim on the observance of Shabbat Rosh Chodesh 1 Adar.

(This Shabbat morning, 2/10, Lynn and I are sponsoring a kiddush lunch in memory of my mother and in honor of the women of Temple B'nai Hayim. All are welcome to join us. If you intend to come to services in person and stay for lunch, please let us know by Thursday, 2/8, by email - ravflom@sbcglobal.net - or call the TBH office at (818) 788-4664, so we can be sure to have enough food and drink.)
 
This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all who have been wounded in the terrorist attacks and in fighting against the terrorists, as well as innocent non-combatants caught in the crossfire.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of all the victims of Hamas, Islamic Jihad, and Hezbollah. Y’hi zikhronam liv’rakhah – May their memories be a blessing. And may the memory of Hamas, Islamic Jihad, and Hezbollah and all their supporters be forever erased.
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Lunch and Learn meets Mondays at 12:30 PM on Zoom and Facebook Live. On Monday, February 12, we'll be at BT Shabbat 129b, page 199 of Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) Volume 1 –  "... אמר רב נחמן אמר רבה בר אבהו אמר רב"  - "Rav Nachman said in the name of Rabbah bar Abuhu in the name of Rav ....”
 
Ein Ya'akov (Glick edition) is available for on-line reading or as a downloadable PDF at:
https://hebrewbooks.org/9630   
 
A pointed Hebrew text version with different pagination is available at Sefaria:
https://www.sefaria.org/Ein_Yaakov?tab=contents  
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Rabbi Van Leeuwen has a blog which you should read at: 
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Dr. Steve Pearlman writes up the "Midrashim of the Week", which you should read at: 
https://midrashsrp.wordpress.com 
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!משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה - With the beginning of Adar, we increase joy! (BT Ta'anit 29a) 
 
This Friday and Shabbat are Rosh Chodesh Adar 1.  
SO HERE'S A LITTLE CONTEST 

As this is a Jewish Leap Year, it raises a question, and the person who gives me whatever I believe to be the best answer will be awarded one slightly used bottle of slivovitz (the decision of the judge and the amount of slivovitz he drinks from the bottle are in his sole discretion and are final): Since we are instructed by our rabbis to be joyful in Adar, and Adar is twice as long this year, does that mean that we have twice as much joy this year than in non-leap years, or, does it mean that on any given day in the months of Adar, we are only half as joyful as we would have been in a non-leap year because our joy must be spread over twice as many days? There is no right or wrong answer! Be creative with proof texts!

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YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOT NECESSARILY YOUR OWN!
 
“You shall not oppress a stranger (ger, which can also mean a foreigner or a convert), for you know the heart of a stranger, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.” Exodus 23:9 (See also a similar statement at Exodus 22:20)



 
The Alter of Slabodka (Rabbi Nosson Tzvi Finkel, founder of the Slabodka Yeshiva, b. Lithuania 1849 – d. Jerusalem1927 - his yahrzeit is this week, Shevat 29/February 8) teaches the following:
 
"Please do not explain this according to the simple meaning, that we are not permitted to oppress a stranger because we, too, had been strangers and had been oppressed, and thus know the taste of oppression. Rather, the reason is that a person is required to feel and participate in the joy and distress of his fellow, as if these had affected him personally. (my emphasis) "You shall love your neighbor as yourself" (Leviticus 19:18) - exactly as yourself. A person's relationship to others is not complete unless he feels their joys and sorrows with them, without any differentiation." (from Itturei Torah)
 
It seems like nothing is ever simple with rabbis! For the Alter of Slabodka, merely not oppressing the Other is not enough! Yes, we Jews know oppression - but we need to have the greatest empathy for the Other, for the oppressed, in their joy, in their sorrow, and, I would suggest, in their day to day lives. This, he believes, is the only way to have a completely loving relationship with another. 
 
This is a tough, some might say impossible order to follow. But consider how this deep, deep sharing/experiencing of emotions with the Other will create within us and within them the Truth - that they are indeed "exactly as yourself". 
 
Shabbat Shalom! Chodesh Adar Sameach!
 
Richard A. Flom, Rabbi Emeritus
Temple B'nai Hayim
Sherman Oaks, CA
!משנכנס אדר, מרבין בשמחה
With the beginning of Adar, we increase joy! (BT Ta'anit 29a)
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