Thursday, March 19, 2026

DRAWING CLOSER - TO GOD, AND TO PEOPLE

Parashat Vayikra
Nisan 3, 5786 / March 20-21, 2026
Torah: Leviticus 1:1 - 5:26
Haftarah: Isaiah 43:21 – 44:23
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DRAWING CLOSER - TO GOD,  AND TO PEOPLE

“When a person from among you should offer (yakriv) an offering (korban) to the Lord ...” Leviticus 1:2

The word “korban” has an interesting etymology. The word is usually translated as “offering” or “sacrifice”. The book of Leviticus uses the word, or some variant of it, numerous times in this and succeeding parshiot, describing in graphic detail the various animal and grain sacrifices. The root of the word, and also of “yakriv”, is k-r-v, which means “to draw near”.

‘Rabbi Elazar said: “Doing deeds of charity is greater than all of the sacrificial offerings (korbanot).” …Our Rabbis taught: “Deeds of lovingkindness (gemilut chasadim) are greater than charity in three ways – charity is with money, for the poor, for the living - but deeds of lovingkindness are with direct personal contact, for rich and poor, for the living and the dead.”’ BT Sukkah 49b

Tzedakah Box


The rabbis wondered why the sacrificial rite should use this particular term. One classic explanation is that the smoke of the sacrifice rose up to God, and drew God near to the person making the offering.  Another explanation is that, by offering something of significant value, the person was bringing him/herself closer to God, a not-so-subtle difference. There were many types of sacrifices: atonement, freewill, thanksgiving, purification, and others. With the Temple destroyed and the sacrifices gone, we might ask how it is possible to draw close to God. And the answer is: through the performance of the mitzvot, the commandments. For Rabbi Elazar, the answer is a specific subset of the mitzvot – charity, aka tzedakah. For the Rabbis, it’s a different subset – gemilut chasadim.

I believe that Rabbi Elazar’s or the Rabbis’ answers are not sufficient as stated. Giving charity, or performing deeds of lovingkindness, do not inevitably make any spiritual connection for us, they don't by themselves substitute for the korbanot, even if fulfilling these commandments make us “feel good”.

Now consider this kavannah, a brief statement of intent, recited before donning tefillin: “For the sake of the unification of the Holy One Blessed is He, and His Presence ... Here I am, intending to fulfill the mitzvah of my Creator ...” The Kabbalists here teach that performing the mitzvah of tefillin brings us closer to God, and God closer to us, IF THAT IS OUR INTENT. I would go a step further. We ought to focus on bringing ourselves closer to God whenever we observe ANY mitzvah, and that includes tzedakah and gemilut chasadim. Maybe especially those, because they are done for the benefit of others, and not for ourselves.

Thus, every mitzvah is a “korban”, an offering that draws us closer to God, if we intend that it be so. There is a world of difference between lighting candles for atmosphere and intending that act to bring on Shabbat and bring us closer to God. And there is a significant difference between acting mindlessly by rote alone and by intending that one truly bring God into one’s life through a mitzvah. Especially when the mitzvah brings us and others together. But that is a sacrifice that should be easy to make.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom DD (HC)
Rabbi Emeritus - Temple B'nai Hayim
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1 
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Thursday, March 12, 2026

SERVICE OF THE HEART

Adar 25, 5786 / March 13-14, 2026
Parashat Vayak’hel/Pekudei - Shabbat HaChodesh
Torah: Exodus 35:1 – 40:38
Maftir (HaChodesh): Exodus 12:1-20
Haftarah (HaChodesh): Ezekiel 45:16 – 46:18

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my father-in-law, Abraham Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on Thursday, Nisan 1/March 19. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – his memory is a blessing.
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On March 16, we'll be at Pesachim 10:6. The text is available on-line at:

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SERVICE OF THE HEART

"Take from among you gifts to the Lord; everyone whose heart so moves him shall bring them ... Every man and woman whose heart moved them to bring anything for the work that the Lord had commanded to be done, through Moses; the Israelites brought free will offerings to the Lord." Exodus 35:5; 35:29

The Ark in the Tabernacle (1984 illustration by Jim Padgett, courtesy of Distant Shores Media/Sweet Publishing)

The free-will gifts mentioned here relate to the construction of the tabernacle and the ritual objects and vestments utilized by the Israelite priests. With no more Temple in Jerusalem, we have found different ways to make holy gifts, in the form of tzedakah (charity) and gemilut chasadim (deeds of lovingkindness). For Purim, we have Mishlo’ach Manot (sending gifts of food) and Matanot L’evyonim (gifts of food or money to the poor). For Pesach we have Ma’ot Chittin (tzedakah specifically so the poor can observe the festival). We also have the commandments to leave the corners of our fields and gleaning of fields, vineyards, and olive groves for the poor. Although these are mitzvot, acts which are commanded, we must admit that we give more and we do more when our hearts are moved to do so.

We have been told by our Rabbis that the Temple was destroyed because of sin'at chinam, senseless hatred, and that we will be redeemed through ahavat chinam, senseless love of our fellow human beings.

Observance of the mitzvot may be seen as a form of worship – just as our prayer services are. Perhaps our path to redemption, for ourselves, for our communities, and for our world, is for our hearts to be constantly moved with love of these mitzvot and of those who benefit from them, so that we continually engage in Avodat HaLev - the service of the heart.

Our society too often appears to be engaged in a struggle between love and hate, between caring for each other and treating people like they were disposable. Yes, Pesach is coming in less than three weeks – but members of our community are in need NOW!

God promises us through Ezekiel (36:26 – the haftarah we read last week for Shabbat Parah), "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit into you; I will remove the heart of stone from your body and give you a heart of flesh."

Don’t wait for God’s heart transplant! Don't wait until your heart moves you! Move your heart! Do it today!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom DD (HC)
Rabbi Emeritus - Temple B'nai Hayim
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1 
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Wednesday, March 11, 2026

PESACH RESOURCES – 5786 (UPATED MARCH 16, 2026)

 PESACH RESOURCES – 5786 (UPATED MARCH 16, 2026) 
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Chaverim yekarim - Dear friends:
 
Well, it’s almost time for Pesach! You know, the “Festival of Freedom”, the holiday on which we celebrate our release from slavery to Pharaoh in Egypt by abiding by the very strict dietary and ritual rules created by the Rabbis and Jewish Tradition, including eating the hardtack called matzah for eight days. Freedom, you say? God said, “Send forth My people, so they may serve me.” That’s how it is typically translated. But the Hebrew word for “so they may serve me”, “v’ya’avduni”, might easily be translated as “so they will slave for Me”. The root for “serve”, “avad”, is also the root for “eved” – “slave”. So, how do you manage Pesach in such a way as to avoid complete slavery?
 
Here are some simple rules:
1. Accept that you are not perfect – and neither is anyone else! You don’t have to do it all! You can’t do it all!
2. Prepare the house by cleaning and removing the chametz. A short but very useful guide to kashering your kitchen and home and identifying foods that are or are not kosher for Passover 5786/2026 can be found at: 
3. Prepare the food for the Seder.
4. Prepare the food for the remainder of the holiday by shopping for it before Pesach.
5. Prepare yourself and your family spiritually.
6. Prepare yourself and your family intellectually.
7. Do not drive yourself or anyone else crazy – see number rule #1.
8. Remember that Pesach really is about freedom; freedom is fun; have fun! See rule #7.
9. Any questions? Ask a rabbi!

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Seder Plate with Orange





Shmurah Matzah


Are you looking for ways to make your Seder more meaningful, more accessible, more involving for children, more interesting, shorter, etc.? Then check out these resources on-line:
 
a. The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5786 can be downloaded at the following site: 


b. Additional Pesach kashrut and other resources from the Rabbinical Assembly may be found at: 


c. Pesach kitchen kashering from a strictly Orthodox perspective can be found at:
 
https://artscroll.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/kosher-kitchen_ch-15.pdf
 
d. MyJewishLearning.com is, IMVHO, the best Jewish educational resource on the web, and has material on virtually everything you might ever want to know about Judaism, but don't know how or whom to ask. The homepage is easily navigable. For Pesach, explore this page, with its 33(!) additional pages of links (!), 10-15 per page, over 350 links in all, to all kinds of information and resources - 
recipes, planning tips, DIY Haggadot, customs of different communities, and just about anything you might want to know about Pesach:


e. Passover according to Chabad in a straightforward manner. Lots of useful material. Follow the various links on this page:

f. Especially good for beginners, National Jewish Outreach Program’s extensive and accessible collection of how-tos, background materials and videos, from the folks who bring you Shabbat Across America (also has Shabbat and other holiday resources):
 
https://njop.org/passover/passover-seder-101-web-series/

g. How about a downloadable Haggadah? Check these out:


PJ Library has lots of accessible educational Jewish books and and other materials for free. This haggadah seems really long, but it's in big print with lots of illustrations.

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It might not be "the best", but this printable PDF covers all the halakhic basics in about 8-10 pages. I would definitely use this for a short but meaningful Seder if pressed for time (school night, hungry little ones, etc,)

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Some of the very nice things about this Chabad Haggadah - it's a printable PDF file; it has lots of explanations of the hows and whys of the seder; and, it has a modern, accessible, non-literal translation. One drawback - it's 114 pages long, including introductory material and appendices. You can print only the pages you want.

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Sefaria is a one-stop source for thousands of Jewish texts and teaching/study materials.

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Barebones, no explanation, but has transliterations for the bulk of the haggadah.

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6. Last, but not least, everyone's favorite:


Yep, that's right, a scanned version of the complete Maxwell House Haggadah. Ah, the memories ...

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NOTE: A Google search for "free downloadable haggadah" or "haggadah online" will lead to some useful and many not-so-useful resources. If you go this route, be sure they are legitimate and not come-ons from Christian missionary groups.
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h. Another very nice on-line resource is excellent, and includes material in Spanish and French (Be sure to follow all the internal links):


Exploring Judaism is a project of Conservative/Masorti Judaism.

i. Courtesy of the Rabbinical Assembly, a useful source sheet with discussion questions that is appropriate for group study or around the seder table can be found here:

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One of my seminary teachers suggested that, in addition to whichever Haggadah of choice you use for your Seder, you should every year acquire a new Haggadah with commentary and illustrations to help you prepare and make your Seder more enjoyable. Ask your local Jewish bookseller, consult with a rabbi, explore the web – there are beautiful and accessible Haggadot available. My Jewish Learning has a nice article about choosing a Haggadah for your seder here:  https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/how-is-this-haggadah-different/ 

Here are some of my favorites for getting ready:

 
1. Passover Haggadah – The Feast of Freedom. The Rabbinical Assembly, 1982. Clear spiritual commentary. 



 
2. A Passover Haggadah – Go Forth and Learn. Rabbi David Silver. Jewish Publication Society, 2011. A new classic.
 
3. The Haggadah Treasury. Rabbi Nosson Scherman. Artscroll, 1978. Midrash and traditional teachings.
 
4. From Bondage to Freedom – The Passover Haggadah. Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, M.D. Shaar Press, 1995. Tradition blended with insights relating to addiction and dependency.
 
5. A Different Night – The Family Participation Haggadah. Noam Zion and David Dishon. Shalom Hartman Institute, 1997. Difficult to use at the seder, but lots of great ideas - especially in the leader's guide.
 
6. Studies on the Haggadah from the Teachings of Nechama Leibowitz. Urim Publications, 2002. Deep Torah from a great scholar.
 
7. The Hirsch Haggadah. Samson Raphael Hirsch. Feldheim Publishers, 1993. The 19th century voice of Orthodoxy.
 
8. A Feast of History. Chaim Raphael. Steimatzky’s, 1972. (Out of print but available used) The lengthy historical essay is interesting and useful.
 
9. The Origins of the Seder. Baruch Bokser. JTS Press, 2002 (Paperback edition). Not a Haggadah, but for those interested in an academic treatise that opens the eyes to history.
 
10. Passover – The Family Guide to Spiritual Celebration. Dr. Ron Wolfson. Jewish Lights Publishing, 2010 (2d edition) A straight-forward how-to guide with explanations and insights for the table.
 
Some other important reminders about Pesach and the lead-up to the holy days:
 
1. All first-borns (except Levi’im and Kohanim) are obliged to engage in a fast, called Ta’anit B’chorot, others say Ta'anit B'chorim
in recognition of the 10th plague, from pre-dawn until the seder on the 14th of Nisan - this year on Wednesday, April 1. To avoid the fast, the custom has become for the firstborn to engage in Torah study and then have a festive "meal" (a siyyum) at the completion of their study. Temple B'nai Hayim and Adat Ari El will hold in-person (Deiber Chapel) and on-line morning minyan, Torah study and siyyum on April 1, at 7:30 am. Zoom details will be in the synagogue e-mail notices.
 
2. Adat Ari El is is holding ain-person Community First Seder this year, Wednesday, April 1, at 6:00 pm. RSVP at:


Temple B'nai Hayim is holding ain-person Community Second Seder this year, Thursday, April 2, at 6:30 pm. This seder will be at Adat Ari El - Russell Hall. RSVP at: https://tinyurl.com/TBHSecondSeder 

For more information on the TBH Community Second Seder, contact the synagogue at (818) 788-4664 or office@bethmeier.org  

For more information on the AAE Community First Seder, contact the synagogue at (818) 766-9426 

3.  DON’T FORGET TO REMOVE AND SELL CHAMETZ!! – AUTHORIZE RABBI VAN LEEUWEN TO SELL ON YOUR BEHALF NO LATER THAN 3:00 pm, March 25, 2026.

A fillable on-line form is available here: https://tinyurl.com/TBHChametzSale  
 
4. Kitniyot (beans, rice, corn) on Pesach? Yes! Read the latest from the Rabbinical Assembly at:
 
http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites/default/files/public/halakhah/teshuvot/2011-2020/Levin-Reisner-Kitniyot.pdf 

I guess it's time to start thinking about Pesach!
 
Wishing you a Chag Pesach Sameach, Kasher U’Mashma’uti – A Passover that is Happy, Kosher and Meaningful!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom, DD (HC)
Rabbi Emeritus, Temple B’nai Hayim
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1

Wednesday, March 4, 2026

SOMETHING OF VALUE

Adar 18, 5786 / March 6-7, 2026
Parashat Ki Tisa (Shabbat Parah)
Torah: Exodus 30:11 - 34:35
Maftir: Numbers 19:1-22
Haftarah: Ezekiel 36:16-38 (Ashkenazim; Sephardim read 36:16-36)
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SOMETHING OF VALUE

“And the people broke off the golden earrings that were in their ears - and brought them to Aaron.” Exodus 32:3

“And the Lord repented of the evil that He had thought to do to His people.” 32:14

Rabbi Eizel of Slonim on verse 3: “Truly this was a great sin committed by Israel in making the golden calf. For all that, we must admit that that generation was better than our own. The members of that generation were willing to cast away their silver and gold in order to make gods for themselves; but today, in our great iniquity, we think it permissible to cast away God solely for wealth and happiness.”


The Adoration of the Golden Calf - Nicolas Poussin, ca. 1633-34

Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk on verse 14: “Why did He forgive the sin of the golden calf even though the people did not repent, while He did not forgive the sin of the spies even though the people did repent? The sin of the calf had at least a spark of holiness, a thirst for the Divine. But the sin of the spies was all about a better material life.”

These are fascinating comments. Our teachers boldly imply that even mistaken worship of false gods is better than denying divinity and holiness altogether. It is not that money and happiness are innately sinful. Certainly not true happiness! Greed and narcissism are the true enemies of the Good Life - i.e., a life of goodness. The evil arises from giving up on any sense of holiness in order to pursue only worldliness.

Shabbat Shalom U’Mevorakh - A Peaceful and Blessed Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard Flom, DD (HC)
Rabbi Emeritus - Temple B'nai Hayim
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent."
BT Yevamot 87b
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DRAWING CLOSER - TO GOD, AND TO PEOPLE

Parashat Vayikra Nisan 3, 5786 / March 20-21, 2026 Torah: Leviticus 1:1 - 5:26 Haftarah: Isaiah 43:21 – 44:23 ------------------------------...