Wednesday, July 3, 2013

KOSHER WORDS, KOSHER THINGS

28 Tammuz 5773 / 5-6 July 2013
Parashat Mattot - Mase'ei
Torah: Numbers 30:2 - 32:42
Haftarah: Jeremiah 2:4-28; 3:4; 4:1-2
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Kosher Words, Kosher Things
 
"If a man makes a vow to the Lord or takes an oath prohibiting something to himself, he shall not profane his word; all that has come from his mouth he must do."  Numbers 30:3
 
"Any articles that can withstand fire, you shall pass through the fire, and they shall be pure, except that they shall be purified with the water of sprinkling (water imbued with red heifer ashes); and that which cannot withstand fire you shall pass through the water."  Numbers 31:23
 
Vows and oaths have extraordinary power - they can turn ordinary objects into things of holiness or prohibition.  "I hereby vow to donate this silver cup to the synagogue"; "By my oath, I will not eat meat for six months" - these words have transformative effect over mundane things.  This is why Jewish tradition frowns on the recitation of vows and oaths.
 
Changing the (ritual) nature of objects is accomplished either by words, according to the first verse, or by kashering, making them fit to use, as stated in the later verse.  What about the converse?  What happens if you profane your word? 
 
If an object is kosher, and is used only for kosher purposes, it remains kosher.  If it is defiled, it requires an elaborate process of kashering.  Similarly, if you want to retract a vow, the rabbis devised a ritual for doing so.  If you have already violated your word, you must do teshuvah - the steps of repentance.  Just as it is far easier to maintain the kashrut of an object by not defiling it, so is it easier to maintain the purity of our words by fulfilling them. 
 
So perhaps it is not coincidental that the Hebrew word for "things" and the Hebrew word for "words" is the same word - "devarim".  Our words have meaning and power that are tangible.  Be a man or woman of your word.
 
Peace and blessings.  Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom - ZSRS '00Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City , CA
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The Beth Meier office will be closed on Thursday, July 4, in observance of Independence Day. Happy Birthday, USA !
 
I will be conducting my first services as rabbi of Congregation Beth Meier on July 5 & 6.  Shabbat evening service - 8:00 pm; Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am. Please join us!
 
Lunch and Learn
On Tuesdays at noon, I lead a 90 minute discussion on a Jewish topic of interest.  Next meetings are on July 9, July 23 and July 30. Everyone is welcome to participate. Lunch is provided - donation requested.
  
Our readings for the next few sessions are an article by Professor Leon Kass and responses to the article, available at:
  
  
http://mosaicmagazine.com/supplemental/2013/06/loyalty-service-and-the-god-of-israel-a-response-to-leon-r-kass/
  
  
  
  
 
 
Congregation Beth Meier Membership Meeting  
 
Save the date for a Congregational meeting on Sunday, July 28 at 4:00 pm.  This is a great opportunity for CBM congregants to meet me and share and discuss our hopes, dreams and goals for our Beth Meier community.
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