Wednesday, December 11, 2013

SHVER TZU SEIN A YID?

11 Tevet 5774 / 13-14 December 2013
Parashat Vayechi (Chazak!)
Torah: Genesis 47:28 - 50:26
Haftarah: 1 Kings 2:1-12


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Shver tzu sein a Yid?

"And Jacob called to his sons, and said, 'Gather yourselves together, and I will tell you what will happen to you at the end of days.'" Gen. 49:1

Rashi: "He desired to reveal the end of Israel's exile, but the Shekhinah (the Divine Presence) withdrew from him, and he began to say other words."

The Sefas Emes, Yehudah Aryeh Leib, asks why the reckoning of the end of the exile was suddenly withheld from Jacob. He answers that the exile was to serve to cleanse Israel of their sins, and if they knew the time of the end, they would feel no unhappiness from the exile. This, he says, is because any unhappiness that has a known end is not serious.

Putting aside the notion that human suffering is a form of punishment or atonement, the Sefas Emes seems to be saying that if we know that our condition, whether physical, emotional, spiritual, economic, etc., is going to improve on or before some certain date, then we suffer less. Perhaps we don't suffer at all; we simply endure until that time. It's not that we know that our suffering will end, but that we might fix a date that bothers the Sefas Emes.

Consider a painful physical condition that can be cured by surgery. If we know that the surgery will occur on a certain date, we more easily bear the pain, because we know that the pain will have a finite duration. A condition that can not be cured, however, we deal with in one of several ways. We give up all hope and die, or we suffer with resentment against the real or imagined source of the suffering, or we adjust our attitudes and move on with improving our lives as best we can.

Now consider children studying for their b'nai mitzvah. They often regard the preparations as a form of punishment, to be endured until the happy day when they will not have to go to Religious School or Shabbat services anymore. They even get a reward - gifts, a party, and so forth. If neither you nor your children have ever felt this way, then you have a unique family. If we regard being Jews and learning how to live meaningful Jewish lives as burdensome, if we have the attitude of "shver tzu sein a Yid" (it's hard to be a Jew), then it's no wonder that our children feel the same way.

The analogy fails, of course, because being a Jew and living Jewishly is not a burden, unless we make it so. It is, instead, a privilege and a joy to be a Jew, and in our society, it is actually quite easy to be a Jew. We are free to worship as Jews, kosher food is readily available, we can usually arrange our schedules to observe Shabbat and Yom Tov, etc. Our Torah and other holy texts give us a path to "the good life", which is to say, a life of goodness. Jewish observance brings us deeper into our partnership with God in the enterprise of "tikkun olam" (improving the world), grounding us in the ethical traditions of our people and one of the oldest civilizations on earth. We have rituals that are full of light and song and wisdom, if we open our eyes and ears and minds.

I believe, to put it bluntly, that the Shekhinah withdrew from Jacob because he brought his children to Egypt and stayed after the famine was over. He took them into exile. We suffer from no famine. There is no excuse for sentencing our children to exile from their heritage.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard Flom - ZSRS '00
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still." Isaiah 62:1
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Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – noon. Beth Meier Trip to Israel – preliminary meeting with Israel Tour Connection – 7:00 pm. All welcome – no obligation.
Wednesday: (Re)Introduction to Judaism class – 7:30 pm.

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