Friday, March 27, 2015

THE REWARDS OF SACRIFICE

27-28 March 2015 / 8 Nisan 5775
Parashat Tzav (Shabbat HaGadol)
Annual: Leviticus 6:1-8:36
Haftarah: Malachi 3:4-24, 23

URGENT TZEDAKAH/CHESED NEED – LOS ANGELES

Chaverim:

A member of our community is in urgent need of a place to live, as soon as possible. She is 70ish, relying on Social Security, looking for a one-bedroom or studio or in-law apartment or caretaker cottage. She would also be interested in shared housing. She has a vehicle and is willing to perform light-duty services in exchange for all or part of rent. 

If you are able to help, please contact me via e-mail at: ravflom@sbcglobal.net ASAP, and I will put her in touch with you. Thanks for your consideration.

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Congregation Beth Meier, check out: www.bethmeier.org

My annual Pesach Resources Guide is available at my blog:


A very enjoyable and useful video tour of the Kasher L’Pesach section of the grocery store conducted by my colleague, Rabbi Gabriel Botnick, can be seen on YouTube at:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sH4T7DoDAs&feature=youtu.be
  
The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5775 can be read and downloaded at the following site: 


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source
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THE REWARDS OF SACRIFICE

"Command Aaron and his sons, saying, 'This is the law of the burnt offering ...'" Leviticus 6:1

The Midrash, Vayikra (Leviticus) Rabbah, quotes Psalms 51:19  - "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise." Either Zabdi ben Levi or Rabbi Yose ben Petros (it's not clear in the text) says that from this verse we learn that if a person does teshuvah (turns himself around through repentance), it is considered as if s/he had gone up to Jerusalem and built the Temple and altar, and there offered all of the sacrifices ordained by the Torah(!)

The Maharal, Rabbi Yehudah Loewe of Prague , adds that every person is like the Temple . If a person is holy, the Temple is holy, and if one sins, s/he pollutes the Temple . Thus, a sinner who repents is considered to have rebuilt the Temple(!)

In Talmud Sanhedrin 99a, Rabbi Abuhu says, "At the place where ba'alei teshuvah (masters of repentance) stand, perfect tzaddikim (righteous persons who have never sinned) cannot stand. For we learn in Isaiah 57:19, 'Peace, peace to the one that is far off, and to the one that is near.'" The Talmud explains that one who was far from God and has returned, takes precedence over one who was always close. Perhaps this verse also teaches that the pursuit of peace itself might serve as a rebuilding of the Temple , and provides for those who seek peace a place closer to God.

From all of these teachings cited above, it should be perfectly obvious that there is great reward in teshuvah, in turning to God and to a life of goodness and holiness. It is not easy - that's why it is compared to the sacrifices! Similarly, the pursuit of peace is often viewed as a sacrifice. It also is not easy. But it is worth the effort! For we learn, “May we be disciples of Aaron the Kohen, loving peace and pursuing peace, loving our fellow creatures and drawing them near to the Torah.”

Shabbat Shalom - a Shabbat of Peace.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier -  Studio City ,  CA
www.bethmeier.org
Visit me on Facebook 

Oseh shalom bimromov, hu ya'aseh shalom aleinu v'al kol ha'olam.  May the One Who brings peace to the celestial heights bring peace to us and to all the world.
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Candle lighting: 6:51 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday:  Religious   School  – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. RS Model Seder – 11:00 am
Tuesday, March 31: NO Lunch and Learn 
Thursday, April 2: Bedikat Chametz (Search for Chametz) – evening.
Friday, April 3: Erev Pesach – Ta’anit Bechorim Torah Study and Siyyum with Rabbi Flom – 8:00 am. Sale/Destruction of Chametz – 12:00 noon. First Seder – light candles, Pesach begins before sundown. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 4: Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. Community Second Seder at CBM – 8:00 pm. RSVP has closed!
Sunday, April 5: Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am.
Tuesday, April 7: NO Lunch and Learn – Resume April 14. 
Friday, April 10: Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 11: Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service with Yizkor – 10:00 am. Pesach ends – 8:00 pm.
Sunday, April 12:  Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Stewart Benkle, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, John Todd Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, and Annie Rivera.

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Wednesday, March 18, 2015

SACRIFICING ONE’S APPETITES

Parashat Vayikra (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh; Shabbat Hachodesh)
1 Nisan 5775 / 20-21 March 2015
Torah: Leviticus 1:1 - 5:26; Numbers 28:9-15; Exodus 12:1-20
Haftarah: Ezekiel 45:16 – 46:18 (Ashkenazim); Ezekiel 45:18 – 46:15 (Sephardim)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Congregation Beth Meier, check out: www.bethmeier.org

My annual Pesach Resources Guide is available at my blog:


A very enjoyable and useful video tour of the Kasher L’Pesach section of the grocery store conducted by my colleague, Rabbi Gabriel Botnick, can be seen on YouTube at:
  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sH4T7DoDAs&feature=youtu.be

The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5775 can be read and downloaded at the following site: 


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source
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SACRIFICING ONE’S APPETITES

"And he shall slaughter it before the Lord; on the north side of the altar ..." Leviticus 1:11

Menachem Nachum of Chernobyl teaches: This verse is a metaphor. What one is really slaughtering is one's yetzer hara - the evil inclination. The word translated here as "side" also means “thigh" - this alludes to lust. "Altar" refers to gluttony, because "a person's table is like an altar" (BT Chagigah 27a). "North" refers to avarice, the desire to accumulate wealth, for we learn "one who desires wealth should turn north" (BT Bava Batra 25b). (Menachem Nachum adds that we often hold most dear those character traits which are the most destructive - they are part and parcel of our very selves, as modern psychiatry would say some 125 years later.) 
                         
We usually understand "sacrifice" as the giving up of something of considerable worth, particularly within the context of ritual worship. The Hebrew word for sacrifice, korban, is from the root word k-r-b, meaning “to come close”. By offering up a valuable item, we show our dedication and our desire to draw near to God. Our tradition, however, teaches that the sacrifices have been replaced by tzedakah and gemilut chasadim - charity and deeds of loving kindness.

Rabbi Elazar said: Doing deeds of charity is greater than all of the sacrificial offerings. BT Sukkah 49b

Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai taught: How does one make atonement in the absence of sacrifice? We have another way of gaining atonement which is equal to it. What is it? Deeds of loving-kindness, as it is written: 'For it is loving-kindness I desire, and not sacrifice.'" Avot D’Rabbi Natan 11a, quoting the prophet Hosea.

Don't be retentive! Slaughter those bad habits and appetites, and replace them with your inner power to do good and improve the world!

Shabbat Shalom! Chodesh Tov!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
www.bethmeier.org
Visit me on Facebook 
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Candle lighting: 6:46 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Rosh Chodesh Women’s Group Shabbat Morning Service– 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. Pesach Workshop - 10:00 am – Our topic: “Exploring the Haggadah”. This is also the DEADLINE to RSVP for Community Second Seder.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon. 
Friday, March 27: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, March 28: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday, March 29: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. RS Model Seder – 11:00 am
Tuesday, March 31: NO Lunch and Learn 
Thursday, April 2: Bedikat Chametz (Search for Chametz) – evening.
Friday, April 3: Erev Pesach – Ta’anit Bechorim Torah Study and Siyyum with Rabbi Flom – 8:00 am. Sale/Destruction of Chametz – 12:00 noon. First Seder – light candles, Pesach begins before sundown. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 4: Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. Community Second Seder at CBM – 8:00 pm. RSVP by March 22!
Sunday, April 5: Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am.
Tuesday, April 7: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon. 
Friday, April 10: Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 11: Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service with Yizkor – 10:00 am. Pesach ends – 8:00 pm.
Sunday, April 12: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of all the women of Congregation Beth Meier who are participating in the Rosh Chodesh Women’s Shabbat Morning Service this Shabbat. Mazal Tov!

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my father-in-law, Abraham Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on 1 Nisan, this Shabbat. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – his memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory Roza Blady, whose yahrzeit fell last Shabbat, and in whose memory the Rosh Chodesh Women’s Service is dedicated. Y’hi zikhrah liv’rakhah – her memory is a blessing.

Mazal tov to Martin and Marilyn Lee on the birth of their granddaughter!

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Stewart Benkle, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, John Todd Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, and Annie Rivera.

My weekly divrei torah are also available through subscription to the Cyber Torah list. No salesman will call!
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Tuesday, March 17, 2015

PESACH RESOURCES 5775

Chaverim nichbadim - Dear friends:

It’s almost time for Pesach! You know, the “Festival of Freedom”, the holiday on which we celebrate our release from slavery to Pharaoh in Egypt by abiding by the very strict dietary and ritual rules created by the Rabbis and Jewish Tradition, including eating the hardtack called matzah for eight days. Freedom, you say? God said, “Send forth My people, so they may serve me.” That’s how it is typically translated. But the Hebrew word for “so they may serve me”, “v’ya’avduni”, might easily be translated as “so they will slave for Me”. The root for “serve”, “avad”, is also the root for “eved” – “slave”. So, how do you manage Pesach in such a way as to avoid complete slavery?

Here are some simple rules:
1. Accept that you are not perfect – and neither is anyone else! You don’t have to do it all!
2. Prepare the house by cleaning and removing the chametz. A short but very useful guide to kashering your kitchen and home and identifying foods that are or are not kosher for Passover can be found at: http://rabbinicalassembly.org/pesach-guide
3. Prepare the food for the Seder.
4. Prepare the food for the remainder of the holiday by shopping for it before Pesach.
5. Prepare yourself and your family spiritually.
6. Prepare yourself and your family intellectually.
7. Do not drive yourself or anyone else crazy – see number rule #1.
8. Remember that Pesach really is about freedom; freedom is fun; have fun! See rule #7.
9. Any questions? Ask a rabbi!






Are you looking for ways to make your seder more meaningful, more accessible, more involving for children, more interesting, shorter, etc.? Then check out these resources on-line:

a. A downloadable, brief and very accessible Haggadah can be found at:

http://jewishboston.com/279-jewishboston-com/blogs/1771-jewishboston-com-s-the-wandering-is-over-haggadah-free-pdf-download   (there's also a free mobile app version from Google, Apple and Amazon)

b. Lots of great seder resources, including song sheets and do-it-yourself haggadot, are available at:

http://www.jewishfreeware.org/downloads/folder.2006-01-07.0640323187/

c. Jewish Freeware has a downloadable haggadah in PDF that allows you to print/copy only the pages you want to use for your seder, found at:

http://jewishfreeware.org/downloads/folder.2006-01-07.0640323187/5770COMPLETEMASTERHaggadahPaginated3-8-10WITHOUT%20SONGS.pdf

d. MyJewishLearning.com is, IMVHO, the best Jewish educational resource on the web, and has material on virtually everything you might ever want to know about Judaism, but don't know how or whom to ask. The homepage is easily navigable. For Pesach, go to this page:

http://www.myjewishlearning.com/holidays/Jewish_Holidays/Passover.shtml

e. The Conservative Yeshiva, in Jerusalem, has a number of text resources for study before the holiday and for discussion at the Seder. See the following:

http://www.conservativeyeshiva.org/wp-content/uploads/Going-from-Observer-to-Participant.pdf

http://www.conservativeyeshiva.org/rich-matzah-poor-matzah

http://www.conservativeyeshiva.org/the-social-side-of-pesach

http://www.conservativeyeshiva.org/passover-cleaning-out-hametz

http://www.conservativeyeshiva.org/who-really-split-the-sea

f. Passover Gateway, a Pesach resource from an Orthodox perspective, also with good general Jewish resources on its main page:

http://www.beingjewish.com/yomtov/passover

g. Passover according to Chabad in a straightforward manner. Follow the links on this page:

http://www.chabad.org/holidays/passover/default_cdo/aid/109747/jewish/Passover.htm

h. Especially good for beginners, National Jewish Outreach Program’s extensive and accessible collection of how-to’s, background materials and videos, from the folks who bring you Shabbat Across America and Jewish Treats webzine (also has Shabbat and other holiday resources):

http://njop.org/resources/holidays/complete-guide-to-holidays/passover/






One of my seminary teachers suggested that, in addition to whichever Haggadah of choice you use for your Seder, you should every year acquire a new Haggadah with commentary and illustrations to help you prepare and make your Seder more enjoyable. Ask your local Jewish bookseller, consult with a rabbi, explore the web – there are beautiful and accessible Haggadot available. Here are some of my favorites:

1. Passover Haggadah – The Feast of Freedom. The Rabbinical Assembly, 1982. Clear spiritual commentary.

2. A Passover Haggadah – Go Forth and Learn. Rabbi David Silver. Jewish Publication Society, 2011. A new classic.

3. The Haggadah Treasury. Rabbi Nosson Scherman. Artscroll, 1978. Midrash and traditional teachings.

4. From Bondage to Freedom – The Passover Haggadah. Rabbi Abraham J. Twerski, M.D. Shaar Press, 1995. Tradition blended with insights relating to addiction and dependency.

5. A Different Night – The Family Participation Haggadah. Noam Zion and David Dishon. Shalom Hartman Institute, 1997. Difficult to use at the seder, but lots of great ideas - especially in the leader's guide.

6. Studies on the Haggadah from the Teachings of Nechama Leibowitz. Urim Publications, 2002. Deep Torah from a great scholar.

7. The Hirsch Haggadah. Samson Raphael Hirsch. Feldheim Publishers, 1993. The 19th century voice of Orthodoxy.

8. A Feast of History. Chaim Raphael. Steimatzky’s, 1972. (Out of print but available used) The lengthy historical essay is interesting and useful.

9. The Origins of the Seder. Baruch Bokser. JTS Press, 2002 (Paperback edition). Not a Haggadah, but for those interested in an academic treatise that opens the eyes to history.

10. Passover – The Family Guide to Spiritual Celebration. Dr. Ron Wolfson. Jewish Lights Publishing, 2010 (2d edition) A straight-forward how-to guide with explanations and insights for the table.
  
Some other important reminders about Pesach and the lead-up to the holy days:

1. All first-borns are obliged to engage in a fast, called Ta’anit B’chorot, from pre-dawn until the seder on the 14th of Nisan, this year on Friday, April 3, in recognition of the 10th plague. To avoid the fast, the custom has become for the firstborn to engage in Torah study and then have a festive "meal" (a siyyum) at the completion of their study. I will be hosting Torah study and siyyum (complete with the last chametz you will eat until the end of Pesach) on Friday, April 3, at 8:00 am at Congregation Beth Meier (CBM). All are welcome, not just first-borns. If you wish to join us, please let me know by e-mail to ravflom@sbcglobal.net by Thursday evening, April 2, so I will have enough coffee and Krispy Kreme donuts. :)

2. CBM is holding a Community Second Seder on Saturday, April 4, beginning at 8:00 pm. Reservations are due no later than 3:00 pm, Wednesday, March 25, by leaving a phone message at the CBM office - (818) 769-0515. We need to order from the caterer no later than March 27. Sorry, late reservations cannot be accommodated.

3. CBM calendar updates/reminders for the next few weeks are available at my blog:

http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/03/upcoming-events-congregation-beth-meier.html

I guess it's time to start thinking about Pesach!

Wishing you a Chag Pesach Sameach, Kasher v’Mashma’uti – A Passover that is Happy, Kosher and Meaningful!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City
CA

http://www.bethmeier.org/
http://rav-rich.blogspot.com
Visit me on Facebook

Thursday, March 12, 2015

UPCOMING EVENTS – CONGREGATION BETH MEIER - UPDATED

UPCOMING EVENTS – CONGREGATION BETH MEIER - UPDATED MARCH 17

Friday, March 20 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday, March 21Rosh Chodesh Women’s Group Shabbat Morning Service– 10:00 am.
Sunday, March 22 - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. Pesach Workshop - 10:00 am – Our topic: “Exploring the Hagaddah”. This is also the DEADLINE to RSVP for Community Second Seder.
Tuesday, March 24 - Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon. 
Friday, March 27 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday, March 28 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am
Sunday, March 29 - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. RS Model Seder – 11:00 am
Tuesday, March 31 - NO Lunch and Learn 
Thursday, April 2 – Bedikat Chametz (Search for Chametz) – evening.
Friday, April 3 – Erev Pesach – Ta’anit Bechorim Torah Study and Siyyum with Rabbi Flom – 8:00 am. Sale/Destruction of Chametz – 12:00 noon. First Seder – light candles, Pesach begins before sundown. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 4 – Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. Community Second Seder at CBM – 8:00 pm. RSVP by March 22!
Sunday, April 5 – Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am.
Friday, April 10 – Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 11 – Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service with Yizkor – 10:00 am. Pesach ends – 8:00 pm.
Sunday, April 12 - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday, April 14 - Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, April 17 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday, April 18 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am
Sunday, April 19 - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday, April 21 - Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, April 24 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Bat Mitzvah of Tovi Snyder – Mazal Tov!
Saturday, April 25 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Bat Mitzvah of Tovi Snyder – Mazal Tov!
Sunday, April 26 - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. Casino Night Fundraiser with Temple B’nai Hayim, Valley Beth Israel and Hugat Haverim – 5:00 pm. Check mail for Flyer!

FOR WHOM DO YOU WORK?

23 Adar 5775 / 13-14 March 2015
Parashat Vayak’hel-Pekudei (Shabbat Parah)
Torah: Exodus 35:1 – 40:38
Maftir: Numbers 19:1-22
Haftarah: Ezekiel 36:16-38

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Congregation Beth Meier, check out our website: http://www.bethmeier.org/

Please feel free to pass this on this to a friend, and please cite the source.
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FOR WHOM DO YOU WORK?

"According to everything that God commanded Moses, so the Children of Israel did all the work." Exodus 39:42

Rabbis Lawrence Kushner and Kerry Olitzky, authors of Sparks Beneath the Surface, offer the following thought: We seldom consider that the term "mitzvot" (commandments) implies the existence of a "mitzaveh" (commander). They then tell this story:

A rabbi met the gatekeeper of a city. He asked, "For whom do you work?" Replied the gatekeeper, "I work for the master of this city. For whom do you work?" Instead of answering directly, the rabbi said, "I wish to hire you to work for me." "And what will be my duties?" asked the gatekeeper. The rabbi replied, "You will ask me every day, 'For whom do you work?'"

I would venture to say that the vast majority of Jews, when asked, "What does the word 'mitzvah' mean?" would answer, "A good deed." In his book Mitzvah Means Commandment (directed towards teenagers, but also very appropriate for adults), my teacher Rabbi Elliot Dorff explains in easy to understand terms how and why Jews observe the mitzvot and derive meaning from them. Ultimately, the question Rabbi Dorff is really answering, the question that each of us must ask of ourselves is, "For whom do you work?"  

Have a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
www.bethmeier.org
Visit me on Facebook 
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Candle lighting: 6:40 pm

Friday: Family Shabbat Evening Service, led by our Religious School students – 7:30 pm Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
SundayReligious School – 9:30 am; Adult Hebrew – 10:00 am. Rosh Chodesh Women’s Group practice session – 11:00 am. Beth Meier’s Third Israel Wine Tasting (and Tapas) – 2:00 pm. Carmit Becker, Israel wine broker, will have wines for tasting and for sale – all Kosher for Passover. $20 in advance/$25 at the door. Contact the office for details.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 Noon.
Friday, 20 March: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, 21 MarchRosh Chodesh Women’s Group Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Led 100% by the women of Congregation Beth Meier! Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday, 22 March: A Passover Workshop. And now, for something completely different, we’ll take a field trip to Cambridge Farms market to see their Pesach products, discuss what manufacturers do to make products kosher for Passover, learn how the market kashers for Pesach, and get in some Passover shopping (while the KLP Coca-Cola is still available!) – 10:00 am at Beth Meier. Deadline to RSVP for Community Second Seder at Congregation Beth Meier.

The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5775 can be read and downloaded at the following site: http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites/default/files/public/jewish-law/holidays/pesah/rabbinical-assembly-pesah-guide-5775_1.pdf

This d’var torah is offered in honor of my mother, Annabelle Flom, who celebrated her birthday yesterday. Yom huledet sameach! Ad me’ah v’esrim!

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Stewart Benkle, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, John Todd Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, and Annie Rivera.

My weekly divrei torah are also available by free subscription to the Cyber Torah list. 
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Friday, March 6, 2015

MAKING ROOM FOR SHABBAT

16 Adar 5775 / 6-7 March 2015
Parashat Ki Tisa
Torah: Exodus 30:11 - 34:35
Haftarah: Ashkenazim - 1 Kings 18:1-39; Sephardim - 1 Kings 18:20-39

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Congregation Beth Meier, check out our website: http://www.bethmeier.org/

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MAKING ROOM FOR SHABBAT

"And the Children of Israel shall keep the Shabbat; to do the Shabbat for all their generations; it is an eternal covenant between Me and the Children of Israel; a sign forever ..." Exodus 31:16-17

This passage should be familiar. We chant it Friday evening during the Shabbat Maariv service, and again Shabbat morning prior to kiddush.

Rebbe S. A. Taub of Modzhitz asks, “Why is Shabbat stated twice?” He suggests that the answer is found in the B. Talmud Shabbat 118b: “If Israel would only keep two consecutive Shabbatot according to their laws, they would be instantly redeemed.” That is an awesome reason to keep Shabbat! But he thinks there is another answer as well.

Kiddush for Shabbat Evening


He says that there are two unique dimensions to Shabbat. One is sitting and doing nothing - resting, refraining from any prohibited activities, and the like. That is “keeping”, or “observing” Shabbat. The second is actually doing something - studying Torah, eating a festive meal, singing z’mirot, and so forth. That is “doing”, or “making” Shabbat. 

Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel

All of this observing and doing, though, has to be done not only in accordance with the positive and negative commandments concerning activity, but also within a specific framework of time. Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, in his book “The Sabbath”, tells us that our daily lives are all about the physical world - “building castles in space”, he calls it. But Shabbat is metaphysical - by refraining from work for twenty-five hours, we are actually building “castles in time”. By observing Shabbat and doing Shabbat, we transcend the physical world, putting us somewhere else on the space-time continuum – or taking us beyond it altogether. The Rabbis say that, by “keeping” and “doing” this particular covenant with God, we get a taste of eternity now. Try it - you’ll like it.

Have a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
www.bethmeier.org
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Candle lighting: 5:35 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. Daylight Savings Time begins tonight (2:00 am Sunday) – turn clocks ahead one hour.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am; Adult Hebrew – 10:00 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 Noon.

Looking Ahead

Sunday, March 15: Beth Meier’s Third Israel Wine Tasting (and Tapas) – 2:00 pm. Carmit Becker, Israel wine broker, will have wines for tasting and for sale – all Kosher for Passover. $20 in advance/$25 at the door. Contact the office for details.

Saturday, March 21: Rosh Chodesh Women’s Group Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. CBM’s Shabbat Morning Service will be conducted in its entirety by the women’s group. All women and girls of CBM are encouraged to participate. Contact Lynn Kronzek at lckronzek@sbcglobal.net for details.

Sunday, March 22: A Passover Workshop. And now, for something completely different, we’ll take a field trip to Cambridge Farms market to see their Pesach products, discuss what manufacturers do to make products kosher for Passover, learn how the market kashers for Pesach, and get in some early Passover shopping (while the KLP Coca-Cola is still available!). Time TBD.

The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5775 can be read and downloaded at the following site: http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/sites/default/files/public/jewish-law/holidays/pesah/rabbinical-assembly-pesah-guide-5775_1.pdf

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