Wednesday, March 18, 2015

SACRIFICING ONE’S APPETITES

Parashat Vayikra (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh; Shabbat Hachodesh)
1 Nisan 5775 / 20-21 March 2015
Torah: Leviticus 1:1 - 5:26; Numbers 28:9-15; Exodus 12:1-20
Haftarah: Ezekiel 45:16 – 46:18 (Ashkenazim); Ezekiel 45:18 – 46:15 (Sephardim)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Congregation Beth Meier, check out: www.bethmeier.org

My annual Pesach Resources Guide is available at my blog:


A very enjoyable and useful video tour of the Kasher L’Pesach section of the grocery store conducted by my colleague, Rabbi Gabriel Botnick, can be seen on YouTube at:
  
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6sH4T7DoDAs&feature=youtu.be

The Rabbinical Assembly’s Pesach Guide 5775 can be read and downloaded at the following site: 


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SACRIFICING ONE’S APPETITES

"And he shall slaughter it before the Lord; on the north side of the altar ..." Leviticus 1:11

Menachem Nachum of Chernobyl teaches: This verse is a metaphor. What one is really slaughtering is one's yetzer hara - the evil inclination. The word translated here as "side" also means “thigh" - this alludes to lust. "Altar" refers to gluttony, because "a person's table is like an altar" (BT Chagigah 27a). "North" refers to avarice, the desire to accumulate wealth, for we learn "one who desires wealth should turn north" (BT Bava Batra 25b). (Menachem Nachum adds that we often hold most dear those character traits which are the most destructive - they are part and parcel of our very selves, as modern psychiatry would say some 125 years later.) 
                         
We usually understand "sacrifice" as the giving up of something of considerable worth, particularly within the context of ritual worship. The Hebrew word for sacrifice, korban, is from the root word k-r-b, meaning “to come close”. By offering up a valuable item, we show our dedication and our desire to draw near to God. Our tradition, however, teaches that the sacrifices have been replaced by tzedakah and gemilut chasadim - charity and deeds of loving kindness.

Rabbi Elazar said: Doing deeds of charity is greater than all of the sacrificial offerings. BT Sukkah 49b

Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai taught: How does one make atonement in the absence of sacrifice? We have another way of gaining atonement which is equal to it. What is it? Deeds of loving-kindness, as it is written: 'For it is loving-kindness I desire, and not sacrifice.'" Avot D’Rabbi Natan 11a, quoting the prophet Hosea.

Don't be retentive! Slaughter those bad habits and appetites, and replace them with your inner power to do good and improve the world!

Shabbat Shalom! Chodesh Tov!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
www.bethmeier.org
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Candle lighting: 6:46 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Rosh Chodesh Women’s Group Shabbat Morning Service– 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. Pesach Workshop - 10:00 am – Our topic: “Exploring the Haggadah”. This is also the DEADLINE to RSVP for Community Second Seder.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon. 
Friday, March 27: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, March 28: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday, March 29: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am. RS Model Seder – 11:00 am
Tuesday, March 31: NO Lunch and Learn 
Thursday, April 2: Bedikat Chametz (Search for Chametz) – evening.
Friday, April 3: Erev Pesach – Ta’anit Bechorim Torah Study and Siyyum with Rabbi Flom – 8:00 am. Sale/Destruction of Chametz – 12:00 noon. First Seder – light candles, Pesach begins before sundown. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 4: Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. Community Second Seder at CBM – 8:00 pm. RSVP by March 22!
Sunday, April 5: Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am.
Tuesday, April 7: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon. 
Friday, April 10: Yom Tov Morning Service – 10:00 am. NO evening service.
Saturday, April 11: Shabbat/Yom Tov Morning Service with Yizkor – 10:00 am. Pesach ends – 8:00 pm.
Sunday, April 12: Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew and Leyning Class – 10:00 am.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of all the women of Congregation Beth Meier who are participating in the Rosh Chodesh Women’s Shabbat Morning Service this Shabbat. Mazal Tov!

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my father-in-law, Abraham Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on 1 Nisan, this Shabbat. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – his memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory Roza Blady, whose yahrzeit fell last Shabbat, and in whose memory the Rosh Chodesh Women’s Service is dedicated. Y’hi zikhrah liv’rakhah – her memory is a blessing.

Mazal tov to Martin and Marilyn Lee on the birth of their granddaughter!

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Naomi bat Yorma, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Stewart Benkle, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, John Todd Brosky, Jacob William Cohen, Howard Ehrlich, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Gig Flom (Gittel Tobi bat Blanca), Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, and Annie Rivera.

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