Friday, July 31, 2015

TO REMEMBER OR OBSERVE?

Parashat Va’etchanan – Shabbat Nachamu
16 Av 5775 / 31 July – 1 August 2015
Torah: Deuteronomy 3:23-7:11
Haftarah: Isaiah 40:1-26

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Don’t forget the important members’ meeting this Sunday, August 2 at 2:00 pm. See my letter for details.

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TO REMEMBER OR OBSERVE?

"Observe the Sabbath day, to keep it holy, as the Lord your God commanded you." Deuteronomy 5:12

Rashi (quoting Mekhilta): At the first (i.e., Exodus 20:8), it says, "remember" (the Sabbath). Both were said in one statement and in one word, and they were heard simultaneously.

According to the Midrash, Moses does not have a faulty memory. Since Moses can not say two words at one time, the Torah uses "remember" in one place, and "observe" in the other. I have been taught that they are actually two separate commandments. One can perform one of these commandments without performing the other.

How is it possible to observe Shabbat without remembering it? Performance of mitzvot requires kavannah, the proper intent. If one carries out all of the rituals of Shabbat, does no work, and so forth, without reflecting on why one does so, without actually intending to do so, one has observed without remembering, and the observance is, in a way, incomplete. How is it possible to remember without observing? One might say to oneself, "It is Shabbat, and I will light the candles." But for some reason or other, one does not perform other Shabbat rituals, or one performs work, and so forth. One has surely remembered, but has not fully observed Shabbat.

I would suggest that remembering is more important than observing. This is because remembering can lead to observing (as it has in my own life), and one may thereby perform both of these commandments. But mechanical observance tends to turn into empty ritual – which is meaningless - and leads to forgetfulness, and thus the non-performance of both commandments. Perhaps in this context, we would do well to refer to the teaching of the Baal Shem Tov - "Memory is the source of redemption; forgetting leads to exile."

Even if you are not yet prepared to fully observe Shabbat, for your own sake, for the sake of your children, for the sake of the Jewish people, remember Shabbat.

Shabbat Shalom.

Rabbi Richard Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: Congregation Beth Meier Members’ Meeting – 2:00 pm. Please make every effort to attend. Refreshments served.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, 7 August: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows
Saturday, 8 August: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday, 9 August: Informational meeting on Israel trip with Rabbi Mark Hyman – 4:00 pm. Please come if you are interested in learning more – no commitment. Itinerary, brochure and other information are at my blog, http://rav-rich.blogspot.com/2015/07/trip-to-israel.html or I can send you a PDF version via e-mail.

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