Wednesday, November 23, 2016

THE GIFT OF FULFILLMENT

Parashat Chayei Sarah
25 Cheshvan 5776 / 25-26 November 2016
Torah: Genesis 23:1 – 25:18
Haftarah: 1 Kings 1:1-31

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THE GIFT OF FULFILLMENT

And this was Sarah’s life; the years of the life of Sarah were one hundred years and twenty years and seven years. Sarah died in Kiryat Arba, now Hebron, in the land of Canaan; and Abraham came to mourn Sarah and to weep for her. Genesis 23:1-2

Rashi: “The years of the life of Sarah” tells us that they were all equally good.

Yehudah Aryeh Leib of Ger, aka the Sefas Emes, offers the following comment on Rashi and the verse: There must be differences and changes during the years of a person’s life. There are special times in youth and in old age. But the truly righteous ones find fulfillment (shleimut) in all (or, in each) of their days. Since this is not natural, it must be a gift from God.  And this is the meaning of the verse (24:1) “and the Lord blessed Abraham in every way” – fulfillment that is found in every place and in every time. Thus, Rashi says, “They were all equally good.”

Sarah suffered much travail over the years. Uprooted from her home and moved to a foreign land; years of barrenness; conflict with her maidservant who was also Abraham’s concubine; the near sacrifice of her only son – this must have taken a heavy toll. And yet, the Gerer Rebbe teaches that Rashi was right - that all of her years were equally good.

Thursday is the American holiday of Thanksgiving. What better day for each of us to remember that we can, we must, find fulfillment in what we have, and to be at peace (shleimut comes from the same root as shalom – peace) with what we don’t have. This doesn’t mean we should not strive to improve ourselves, our lives and our society. But it does mean that, as the Sefas Emes says, fulfillment is indeed a gift from God. And for that, we should be thankful.

Happy Thanksgiving! Hodu l'Adonai ki tov; ki l'olam chasdo - Give thanks to the Lord Who is good, Whose lovingkindness is eternal. Psalm 136.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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Thursday – Happy Thanksgiving!
Friday – NO Shabbat Evening Service.
Saturday – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services. 
Sunday - NO Religious School NO Adult Hebrew class. Both resume December 4.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday 12/2 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm
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This d'var torah is offered in honor of our son, Robert Flom, celebrating his birthday on December 1. Yom huledet sameach! Ad meah v’esrim!

This d'var torah is offered in honor of my sister, Lorrie Flom Goodman, celebrating her birthday on November 29. Yom huledet sameach! Ad meah v’esrim!

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, HaRav Yisrael Shimon ben Liebah Breina, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Sarah bat Devorah, Zehavah B’rakhah bat Leah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Myra Goodman, Simon Hartman, Fouad Kay (Yehoshua ben Salima), Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek, Toni Linder, Roy Miller, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Hedy Woolf, and Naomi Zimmermann (Naomi bat Yorma).

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