Friday, June 9, 2017

SHARE SOME SPIRIT!

16 Sivan 5777 / 9-10 June 2017
Parashat B’ha’alot’kha
Torah: Numbers 8:1 - 12:16
Haftarah: Zekhariah 2:14 - 4:7

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SHARE SOME SPIRIT!

'And the Lord said to Moses: "Gather to Me seventy men of the elders of Israel, whom you know to be elders of the people, and officers over them; and take them to the tent of meeting, and they will stand there with you. And I will come down and speak with you there, and I will take from the spirit that is upon you and put it upon them; and they shall bear the burden of the people with you, and you shall not bear it alone."' Numbers 11:16-17

At Exodus 18:13-26, Jethro (Moses’ father-in-law) had observed Moses' difficulty in judging the people by himself, and he advised Moses to delegate responsibility among a number of people. Moses did so. It is now a year later, and Moses kvetches to God about the burdens of sole leadership. God tells Moses He will distribute the burden of leadership by giving others the same type of spirit that Moses has. Is Moses dense? Did he forget what Jethro had told him?

No. In the short run, merely telling other people to do some of the work can be effective. But over the long haul, unless they have the same spirit as their leader, they falter. Moses had the spirit, but he could not or would not share it with others. God had to give some of that spirit to others, so they could help Moses bear the burdens of leadership.

There is a lesson here for rabbis, teachers, board members, religious and secular leaders of all types, and parents, too. We sometimes experience the failure or the inability to share our spirit with others. No matter how enthusiastic we might be about something, if we can't get others involved, it can turn into a burden. The difference here is that we can't expect God to do it for us, take some of that spirit and give it to others - we have to do that ourselves. But it's not only the ultimate leaders who have the responsibility of sharing their spirit.

The people to whom that responsibility was given (including Moses), the people suggested by Jethro, never took the opportunity to exercise that responsibility. They did not seize the spirit of the moment.
Leaders need to share their spirit, and subordinates and members of their organizations have the primary responsibility of taking that spirit and distributing it even more. Delegating responsibility isn't enough; it often takes leadership in the form of enthusiastic sharing of spirit that really gets things done. Enthusiasm is infectious. Leaders need to be both inspired and inspiring to get the mission accomplished!

Have a spirited Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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Friday – Family Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30pm. A joyful guitar-accompanied service with Kerry Katz. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
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Friday, June 16 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, June 17 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
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