Thursday, October 26, 2017

MUTUAL BENEFIT

Parashat Lekh L'kha
8 Cheshvan 5778 / 27-28 October 2017
Torah Reading - Genesis 12:1 - 17:27
Haftarah - Isaiah 40:27 - 41:16

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MUTUAL BENEFIT

"Then the Lord said to Abram, 'Get yourself from your land, from your community, and from your father's house, to the land that I will show you.' .... So Abram went as the Lord had told him..."  Genesis 12:1, 4

Rashi:  "Go for yourself" - for your own benefit and your own good.

According to Rashi, God was convincing Abram to go to Canaan because of the benefit he would receive - to become a great nation and to be blessed (v. 2). But the S'fat Emet, Yehudah Aryeh Leib of Ger, disagrees. He says that this was the first of ten tests of Abram (later Abraham). It wouldn't be much of a test if he received a benefit for listening to God. Rather, Abram went solely because he was commanded to, without thinking of the benefit. Thus, the act of going to Canaan was not contaminated by selfish motives.

Very few of us are as pure of heart as the Abram conceived by the S'fat Emet. Everyone wants to know "what's in it for me?" If I am to spend time and/or money, what is the payoff? This cost-benefit analysis is cynical, to say the least. But it need not be so.

Feeding the hungry and clothing the naked are not simply for the benefit of the recipients; we make our world a better place for ourselves and for our children when we reduce suffering and strife, even though tzedakah has a cost. The same is true for cleaning up the environment, regardless of the "price". Similarly, doing work for the synagogue community benefits everyone, including the one who does the work.

The answer, then, is that doing what God asks of us is always beneficial to us, even when it might seem to be the opposite. The benefits of carrying out God's word can be physically and spiritually uplifting, for ourselves, for those around us, even the whole world – that’s what tikkun olam is all about. Carry out God's word, and join the mutual benefit society.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Ze’ev ben Adeline, HaRav Chana Rivka bat Doronit, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Eilite bat Miryam, HaRav Tzvi Hersh ben Frimet, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Stuart Barth, Ken Bitticks, Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Bernard Garvin, Myra Goodman, Leah Granat, Simon Hartmann, Brandon Joseph, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), Lyndia Lowy (Leah bat Sarah), Stuart Lytton, David Marks, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernard Seeman, and Meagan Yudell.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

CALENDAR
Candle lighting: 5:46 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm (Oneg Shabbat follows).
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. Sign up the kids and bring ‘em on down! Would you like to learn to read Hebrew, or how to lead davening, or to chant Torah or Haftarah? Join Adult Hebrew with Lynda Foster at 9:30 am and Barry Glass at 10:00 am! TBH/CBM Sisterhood Meeting – 11:00 am. RSVP to Gina Seeman.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, November 3 – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, November 4 – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday, November 5 – Farewell Get-together at Congregation Beth Meier – 2:00 – 5:00 pm. We’ll share memories, look at pictures, take pictures, and bid fond farewell to that sweet little domed building. All are invited! No charge, but RSVP essential to Elaine at office@bethmeier.org or (818) 769-0515.
Friday, November 17 – Shabbat Evening Service at 6:30 pm, followed by Annual Turkey Dinner at 7:15 pm. RSVP deadline November 10 – Adults $25, Children 5-12 $10, under 5 no charge.

TBH Religious School and TBH Pre-school have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Contact Rabbi Flom or Susan Burke by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call!
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Wednesday, October 18, 2017

REBIRTH OF MAN – AND GOD

Parashat Noach
1 Cheshvan 5778 / 20-21 October 2017
Torah Reading: Genesis 6:9 - 11:32
Haftarah: Isaiah 66:1-24 (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh)

Dedications and Calendar of Events are below.

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REBIRTH OF MAN – AND GOD

"And God remembered Noah and all the beasts and all the cattle that were with him in the ark, and God caused a wind to blow across the earth, and the waters subsided." Genesis 8:1

In "The Five Books of Miriam", author Ellen Frankel suggests that the affair of the Flood is reminiscent of a birth. The waters are amniotic fluid. The ark is an embryo, and contained within that embryo are the seeds of all life. The embryo floats, without direction, in the water. The child is born, and needs to be raised. The child needs food and instruction. These, Noah and his family receive. They learn agriculture, and they are given rules to live by. These are the Seven Noahide Laws, which prohibit, among other things, murder, idolatry, animal cruelty and sexual misconduct, and which require the establishment of courts of justice.

Thus, the human race is reborn, with knowledge and guidelines which Adam and Eve did not have. I would suggest that God is “reborn” as well. After the disobedience of the first humans, God simply drives them away. In the face of the "corruption of the world", a world inhabited by lawless people, God destroys nearly everyone. But God "reinvents" God’s Self. God remembers - God remembers that God too must have rules, and so God makes a covenant with Noah not to destroy the world again. God finally "gets it" - God understands that those created (merely) in the image of God, the human race, cannot survive without God's guidance.

It's a symbiotic relationship, if you will. God needs us to perfect the world, and we need God to tell us how to do it. Put God's words into action - you might even be reborn.

Have a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Eilite bat Miryam, HaRav Tzvi Hersh ben Frimet, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Stuart Barth, Ken Bitticks, Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Bernard Garvin, Myra Goodman, Leah Granat, Simon Hartmann, Brandon Joseph, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), Lyndia Lowy (Leah bat Sarah), Stuart Lytton, David Marks, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernard Seeman, and Meagan Yudell.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

CALENDAR
Candle lighting: 5:54 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm (Oneg Shabbat follows).
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Rosh Chodesh Women’s Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows. Attention all TBH/CBM women of all ages! Contact Carol Herskowitz or Lynn Kronzek to sign up for a part – many still available.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. Sign up the kids and bring ‘em on down! Would you like to learn to read Hebrew, or how to lead davening, or to chant Torah or Haftarah? Join Adult Hebrew with Lynda Foster at 9:30 am and Barry Glass at 10:00 am! Volunteers needed! To take down the sukkah – not the frame, just the skach. Sunday at 9:30 am.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, October 27 – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, October 28 – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.

TBH Religious School and TBH Pre-school have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Contact Rabbi Flom or Susan Burke by e-mail for details and to sign up!

My weekly divrei torah are available through free subscription to the Cyber Torah e-mail list. No salesman will call!
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To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail from the receiving address to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net with the heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah”.
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Wednesday, October 11, 2017

THE KISS

22 Tishrei 5778 / 12 October 2017
Shemini Atzeret (The Eighth Day of Assembly)
Torah: Deuteronomy 14:22 - 16:17; Numbers 29:35 - 30:1
Haftarah: 1 Kings 8:54-66

23 Tishrei 5778 / 13 October 2017
Simchat Torah (Joy of the Torah)
Torah: Deuteronomy 33:1 - 34:12 (V’zot Hab’rakhah); Genesis 1:1 - 2:3 (Bereishit); Numbers 29:35 - 30:1
Haftarah: Joshua 1:1-18

24 Tishrei 5778 / 14 October 2017
Parashat Bereishit
Torah: Genesis 1:1 – 6:8
Haftarah: Ashkenazim - Isaiah 42:5 – 43:10; Sephardim – Isaiah 42:5-21

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Eilite bat Miryam, HaRav Tzvi Hersh ben Frimet, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Stuart Barth, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky (Serach bat Miriam), Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Bernard Gavin, Myra Goodman, Leah Granat, Simon Hartman, Brandon Joseph, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), Lyndia Lowy (Leah bat Sarah), Stuart Lytton, David Marks, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernard Seeman, and Meagan Yudell.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

CALENDAR
Candle lighting:
Wednesday - 6:05 pm (and yahrzeit candle if appropriate)
Thursday - 7:00 pm
Friday - 6:03 pm

Thursday – Shemini Atzeret Morning Service (including Yizkor) 9:30 am (light kiddush only – no lunch). Simchat Torah Celebration – 6:30 pm.  Friday – Simchat Torah Morning Service – 9:30 am (light kiddush only – no lunch).  Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm (Oneg Shabbat follows).
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. Sign up the kids and bring ‘em on down! Would you like to learn to read Hebrew, or how to lead davening, or to chant Torah or Haftarah? Join Adult Hebrew with Lynda Foster at 9:30 am and Barry Glass at 10:00 am!
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, October 20Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm (Oneg Shabbat follows).
Saturday, October 21Women’s Shabbat Rosh Chodesh Morning Service – 9:30 am. Attention all TBH/CBM women of all ages! Contact Carol Herskowitz or Lynn Kronzek to sign up for a part – many still available. Kiddush luncheon follows.

TBH Religious School and TBH Pre-school have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Contact Rabbi Flom or Susan Burke by e-mail for details and to sign up!

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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THE KISS

"So Moses the servant of God died there, in the land of Moab, by the mouth of the Lord. He buried him in the valley, in the land of Moab, near Beth-Peor; and no one knows his burial place to this very day." Deuteronomy 34:5-6

This parashah has one of the most touching scenes in the Torah. Moses has spent the entire book of Deuteronomy (I call it "The Long Goodbye") recounting his life and times, as the leader of the Israelites and as the intercessor between them and God. Moses' relationships with the people and with God were fiery. He shepherded the Israelites, protected them from God's wrath, and castigated them.

In their conversations with each other, Moses and God seemed in a strange way like an old married couple - reminding each other of the old days, both good and bad; blaming each other for the faults of the Israelites, like parents arguing over children; seeking deeper understanding of each other; and finally, saying goodbye in a tender way. The Babylonian Talmud says that when Moses died, God took his soul by kissing him.

Today, many of us, whether Jewish or not, say we are seeking spirituality - we may want religious services to be spiritually uplifting, or we may want to feel closer to God in some way. But virtually all of us want it on our terms. It reminds me of my second year in rabbinical school, when there was an early attempt to develop a spirituality program for the students. We used to joke that the program required that "you will be spiritual every Thursday at 10".

What we need to acknowledge is that spiritual life can be like a lovers' relationship - it has its ups and downs, passion, loneliness, anger, intimacy, forgiveness. Why should our relationship with God be easier than our relationships with people? Like any other relationship, it takes a commitment of time, learning and emotion to develop a spiritual life. The payoff is that we know that at the end of our days, we will be able to look back at a life fulfilled; ending in a warm embrace from those we love.

Chag Shemini Atzeret V’Simchat Torah Sameach V'Shabbat Shalom!
These are the seasons of our joy!

Shabbat Shalom! 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 87b
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Tuesday, October 3, 2017

TAKE A WALK IN GOD’S SHOES

15-17 Tishrei 5778 / 5-7 October 2017

Sukkot Days 1 and 2
Torah: Leviticus 22:26-23:44
Maftir: Numbers 29:12-16
Day 1 Haftarah: Zachariah 14:1-21
Day 2 Haftarah: Kings I 8:2-21

Shabbat Chol Hamoed
Torah: Exodus 33:12 - 34:26
Maftir: Numbers 29:17-22
Haftarah: Ezekiel 38:18 - 39:16
Additional reading: Ecclesiastes

TBH Religious School and TBH Pre-school have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are always looking for bimah volunteers for the Shabbatot and Holy Days: chant Torah and Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, and, have aliyot and other honors. Please contact Rabbi Flom or Susan Burke if you are interested. Training available!

Dedications and calendar follow below.

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TAKE A WALK IN GOD’S SHOES

'And now, if I have indeed found favor in Your eyes, make Your ways known to me ...' Exodus 33:13

'The Lord passed before (Moses) and proclaimed: "The Lord, the Lord, God, Compassionate and Gracious, Slow to Anger, and Abundant in Kindness and in Truth; Preserving Mercy for Thousands of Generations; Forgiving Iniquity, Willful Sin, and Error; and Cleansing ..."' Exodus 34:6-7

In response to Moses' request, God shows God's glory, and describes Godself. These are regarded by Jewish tradition as the Thirteen Attributes of God. The verses are also recited as a prayer on Yom Kippur and other fast days, when we ask God for mercy. But is it only a prayer?

The early rabbinic text, Sifre, says of the commandment "to walk in all His ways" - (Deuteronomy 11:22) - "Just as God is compassionate and gracious, you too must be compassionate and gracious."

This is far more than a prayer that God taught to Moses to be recited at times of crisis. It is a guide to right conduct.

We have just completed the introspective period of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. We are now served up this reminder of what it is that we promised God and ourselves only a few days ago - to be better people this year - compassionate, gracious, slow to anger, etc.

Perhaps we can't walk in God's ways all of the time. But every journey begins with a single step. Time to lace up those walking shoes!

Chag Sukkot Sameach V'shabbat Shalom! Mo'adim L'simcha - Chagim Uz'manim L'sasson!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 87b
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Candle lighting:
Wednesday: 6:14 pm
Thursday: 7:09 pm
Friday: 6:12 pm

Thursday: Sukkot Morning Service – 9:30 am – Light Kiddush in the Sukkah
Friday: Sukkot Morning Service – 9:30 am – Light Kiddush in the Sukkah.
Friday evening: Sukkot Dinner – Pizza and Pasta in the Hut! – 6:30 pm RSVP essential! Call TBH office for reservations – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:45 pm.
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Chol HaMoed Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows in the Sukkah. 
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. Sign up the kids and bring ‘em on down!
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – noon
Thursday, 12 October: Shemini Atzeret Morning Service, including Yizkor – 9:30 am. Simchat Torah Celebration – 6:30 pm – Dance with the Torah! Fun for the Whole Family! - light snacks and drinks served.
Friday, 13 October: Simchat Torah Morning Service – 9:30 am. Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm
Saturday, 14 October - Breakfast and Torah study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Ann Signett’s daughter, Judith Decker, who passed away on Saturday night. HaMakom yenachem Otam … May the One in Every Place grant comfort to Ann and her family.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Eilite bat Miryam, HaRav Tzvi Hersh ben Frimet, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Stuart Barth, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky (Serach bat Miriam), Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Bernard Gavin, Myra Goodman, Simon Hartman, Brandon Joseph, Daisy Kay,  Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), Lyndia Lowy (Leah bat Sarah), Stuart Lytton, David Marks, David Pearlman, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Jonathan Woolf, Alexis Woolfson, Simon Woolfson, and Meagan Yudell.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

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PUTTING GOD SECOND

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