Thursday, October 26, 2017

MUTUAL BENEFIT

Parashat Lekh L'kha
8 Cheshvan 5778 / 27-28 October 2017
Torah Reading - Genesis 12:1 - 17:27
Haftarah - Isaiah 40:27 - 41:16

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MUTUAL BENEFIT

"Then the Lord said to Abram, 'Get yourself from your land, from your community, and from your father's house, to the land that I will show you.' .... So Abram went as the Lord had told him..."  Genesis 12:1, 4

Rashi:  "Go for yourself" - for your own benefit and your own good.

According to Rashi, God was convincing Abram to go to Canaan because of the benefit he would receive - to become a great nation and to be blessed (v. 2). But the S'fat Emet, Yehudah Aryeh Leib of Ger, disagrees. He says that this was the first of ten tests of Abram (later Abraham). It wouldn't be much of a test if he received a benefit for listening to God. Rather, Abram went solely because he was commanded to, without thinking of the benefit. Thus, the act of going to Canaan was not contaminated by selfish motives.

Very few of us are as pure of heart as the Abram conceived by the S'fat Emet. Everyone wants to know "what's in it for me?" If I am to spend time and/or money, what is the payoff? This cost-benefit analysis is cynical, to say the least. But it need not be so.

Feeding the hungry and clothing the naked are not simply for the benefit of the recipients; we make our world a better place for ourselves and for our children when we reduce suffering and strife, even though tzedakah has a cost. The same is true for cleaning up the environment, regardless of the "price". Similarly, doing work for the synagogue community benefits everyone, including the one who does the work.

The answer, then, is that doing what God asks of us is always beneficial to us, even when it might seem to be the opposite. The benefits of carrying out God's word can be physically and spiritually uplifting, for ourselves, for those around us, even the whole world – that’s what tikkun olam is all about. Carry out God's word, and join the mutual benefit society.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
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"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Ze’ev ben Adeline, HaRav Chana Rivka bat Doronit, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Eilite bat Miryam, HaRav Tzvi Hersh ben Frimet, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Stuart Barth, Ken Bitticks, Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Bernard Garvin, Myra Goodman, Leah Granat, Simon Hartmann, Brandon Joseph, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), Lyndia Lowy (Leah bat Sarah), Stuart Lytton, David Marks, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernard Seeman, and Meagan Yudell.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

CALENDAR
Candle lighting: 5:46 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm (Oneg Shabbat follows).
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. Sign up the kids and bring ‘em on down! Would you like to learn to read Hebrew, or how to lead davening, or to chant Torah or Haftarah? Join Adult Hebrew with Lynda Foster at 9:30 am and Barry Glass at 10:00 am! TBH/CBM Sisterhood Meeting – 11:00 am. RSVP to Gina Seeman.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, November 3 – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, November 4 – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday, November 5 – Farewell Get-together at Congregation Beth Meier – 2:00 – 5:00 pm. We’ll share memories, look at pictures, take pictures, and bid fond farewell to that sweet little domed building. All are invited! No charge, but RSVP essential to Elaine at office@bethmeier.org or (818) 769-0515.
Friday, November 17 – Shabbat Evening Service at 6:30 pm, followed by Annual Turkey Dinner at 7:15 pm. RSVP deadline November 10 – Adults $25, Children 5-12 $10, under 5 no charge.

TBH Religious School and TBH Pre-school have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Contact Rabbi Flom or Susan Burke by e-mail for details and to sign up!

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