Thursday, November 30, 2017

DON’T GIVE UP THE FIGHT!

Parashat Vayishlach
14 Kislev 5778 / 1-2 December 2017
Torah - Genesis 32:4 – 36:43
Haftarah – Ovadiah 1:1-21

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out: www.bnaihayim.com

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DON’T GIVE UP THE FIGHT!

'And (the angel) said, "Your name shall no longer be Jacob, but Israel; for you have striven with God and with humans, and you have prevailed.'" Genesis 32:29

Jewish tradition, going back to the opening chapters of Genesis, holds that names contain the essential being of the person, place or thing named. We Jews have been called the "Children of Israel" or the "People Israel" for longer than we have been called "Jews". The origin of the name is given in our verse. Does "Israel " describe our very essence?

Consider first the struggle with other people. In the course of the Tanakh itself, our people struggled with Canaanites, Egyptians, Philistines, Assyrians, Babylonians, and others. Since then, we have striven with Greeks, Romans, Crusaders, Cossacks, Nazis, Soviets, and many others. We have not always prevailed, in the sense of military victory - quite the contrary - no significant military victories from circa 165 BCE until 1948 CE. Yet, to the extent any people or nations at all exist today using those names, they are quite different from what they were. And what about us? We are still here, so we have prevailed; but we are still "a people apart", still struggling to be "a light unto the nations", still fighting sometimes for the very right to be Jews.

Now consider contention with God. From Abraham until modern times, Jews have wrestled with God. Our people at times have refused to follow God's word, sometimes at a heavy price. More often, our people have listened to God, yet still paid a price. We ask, "God, what do you want from us?" "God, what do these words mean, why do you command us to do such and such?" "God, where were You when the Temple was destroyed, when our people were being slaughtered at Auschwitz, and all the other times?" "Shall not the Judge of the entire world act justly?" Sometimes, there is more than one "right" answer. Sometimes, there is no satisfactory answer. Sometimes, there is no answer, no response at all.

If we surrender to the forces around us, we give up the right to call ourselves Israel. It is not prevailing that matters; it is the very struggle with God and with man that defines the essence of being a Jew. Don't give up the fight!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
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"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candlelighting: 4:25 pm

Friday – A Cappella Shabbat Evening Service at 7:30 pm with Rabbi Flom and Cantor Steve, followed by light fish/dairy Shabbat dinner, sponsored by Price and Bruce Simon.
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Sh’MA Service (Shabbat Morning Adventure Service), with Rabbi Flom and Cantor Steve – 9:30 am. It’s a GAS! (Guitar Accompanied Service), with torah discussion and haftarah in English. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew – 10:00 am. Free CPR Class – 1:00 pm. Pre-registration essential! Call Esther at TBH ASAP!
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, December 8 – Shabbat Evening Service at 7:30 pm, followed by Oneg Shabbat.
Saturday, December 9 – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday, December 10 - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew – 10:00 am. Game Day at TBH (sorry, kids - this is for adults) - 10:00 am - 3:00 pm. Includes delicious lunch. Price: $15 - checks payable to TBH Sisterhood. Questions/RSVP to Gina Seeman - (818) 349-5301. Deadline December 6.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Khorshid Assil, mother of TBH member Debbie Assil. The funeral will take place at Eden Memorial Park11500 Sepulveda Blvd, Mission Hills, CA 91345, today, Thursday, at 3:00 pm. A meal of condolence and minyan following the funeral will take place at 6509 Graves Avenue, Lake Balboa 91406. Shivah arrangements are pending - please look for an email update.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Sandi Kronzek, who passed away far too young last week. Y’hi zikhrah liv’rakhah – May her memory be a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of Stuart Barth, who passed away last week. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my uncle, Daniel Flom, whose yahrzeit falls on Shabbat. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of Price and Bruce Simon, celebrating their first anniversary. Mazal tov!

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Ze’ev ben Adeline, HaRav Chana Rivka bat Doronit, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Eilite bat Miryam, HaRav Tzvi Hersh ben Frimet, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Bernard Garvin, Myra Goodman, Leah Granat, Simon Hartmann, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), Lyndia Lowy (Leah bat Sarah), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Jonathan Woolf, and Meagan Yudell.

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