Tuesday, May 29, 2018

BETWEEN THE LINES


Parashat B’ha’alot’kha
19 Sivan 5778 / 1-2 June 2018
Torah: Numbers 8:1 - 12:17
Haftarah: Zechariah 2:14 - 4:7

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BETWEEN THE LINES

“Whenever the ark set out, Moses would say: ‘Rise up, Lord. May Your enemies be scattered, and may those who hate You flee before You.’ And when it rested, he would say: ‘Return, Lord, You who are Israel’s myriads of thousands.’” Numbers 10:35-6

In a Sefer Torah and in the Chumash, these two verses are bracketed by upside down letter nuns. According to the Talmud, they constitute a separate book of the Torah, the purpose of which is to avoid reporting three successive sins by the Israelites.

In the liturgy, however, the two verses are themselves “bookends”. Verse 35 is sung when the Ark is opened in the synagogue at the beginning of the Torah service. The Torah scroll is removed, and it “sets out” around the sanctuary before it is read. At the conclusion of the Torah service, verse 36 is recited as the Ark is opened for the Torah to be put away, to “rest”.

What happens in the synagogue between the recitations of the two verses is a wonderful ritual pageant, carried out for the past two millennia in every synagogue in the world. The congregation rises and sings, the Torah is twice paraded around the sanctuary, the portion and haftarah are read and discussed, anywhere from three to eight people are called for aliyot, prayers for healing, for thanksgiving, for the community and for our country are recited, babies are named, and more.

The Torah service is my favorite part of Shabbat morning. We are re-enacting history, and creating it as well, each time we conduct it. Since the Torah is the history of our people, and we read that history every week, one might say that all of our history occurs between these two verses. We publicize and renew our understanding of the Torah even as we stand at Mount Sinai. Most significantly, to my mind, we are making a statement about our commitment to Jewish heritage and Jewish continuity.

We Jews are a nation that learns the lessons of history more than any other. We re-enact it, we live it, and we make it. Go to your synagogue this Shabbat morning, and be a part of history.

Shabbat shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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“From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring.”
מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב
Yehuda Amichai
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Candle lighting: 7:42 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Breakfast/Torah Study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Marshall Neiman, whose yahrzeit falls this Shabbat, 19 Sivan. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – his memory is a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andreola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Jonathan Woolf.

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Wednesday, May 23, 2018

REPENTANCE FROM WITHIN


Parashat Naso
12 Sivan 5778 / 25-26 May 2018
Torah: Numbers 4:21 - 7:89
Haftarah: Judges 13:2-25

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REPENTANCE FROM WITHIN

"The Lord spoke to Moses, saying, 'Speak to the Children of Israel: A man or woman who commits any of man's sins, to commit sacrilege against the Lord, and that person becomes guilty - they shall confess their sin that they committed - he shall make restitution for his guilt plus an additional one-fifth, and give it to the one to whom he has wronged.'" Numbers 5:5-7

In his Mishneh Torah, Rambam (Maimonides) says that the commandment to confess is the foundation of teshuvah, repentance. For sins against God, we confess to God. For sins against our fellows, we confess to them and to God - for sins against others are also sins against God.

Why confession? Shouldn't restitution, especially with an additional amount, be sufficient? If the guilty party has made the victim whole, what is the point of confession? Compare this with the American legal system. Every day, hundreds of lawsuits are settled with the payment of money (not called "damages"), but with no admission of wrongdoing. We accept this as a way to end litigation, but we know intuitively that it is not the solution to the problem. It seems like the guilty party is buying a license - perhaps to sin yet again.

Why confession? In part, one must convince both man and God that one will not commit the sin again. But many of us can be convincing actors. We might even convince ourselves. An answer may be found in the Hebrew grammar for the word "confess" which appears in verse 7. The word is hitvadu, a reflexive form of the verb. The point is to cause introspection, to find the true source of the wrongdoing, to avoid the blame game. Someone who has confessed, both outwardly and inwardly, who has thoroughly examined the self, is much less likely to commit another offense. Some things money can't buy! True repentance comes from within.

Shabbat shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai
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Candle lighting: 7:36 pm

Friday: Shabbat Rocks! Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. A Rock ‘n Roll Service led by Reb Jason and the Band. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Breakfast/Torah Study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Monday: Memorial Day. Before you fire up the grill, raise the flag, and remember US service personnel who gave their lives, so you would be free to have that BBQ.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my uncle, Hans Schack, whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of all those who died in service to their country.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andreola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Jonathan Woolf.

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Thursday, May 17, 2018

THE MOSAIC


Parashat Bamidbar
5 Sivan 5778 / 18-19 May 2018
Torah: Numbers 1:1 – 4:20
Haftarah: Hosea 2:1-22
Shavuot 1
6 Sivan 5778 / 19-20 May 2018
Torah: Exodus 19:1 – 20:22; Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah: Ezekiel 1:1-28; 3:12
Shavuot 2
7 Sivan 5778 / 20-21 May 2018
Book of Ruth
Torah: Deuteronomy 15:19 – 16:17; Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah: Habakkuk 3:1-19

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THE MOSAIC

“Every man with his own standard, with ensigns according to their fathers’ houses, so shall the Children of Israel pitch the camp; at a distance from the tent of meeting shall they encamp.” Numbers 2:2

One should not for a moment believe that this verse is a license for each of us to go our individual ways. We are indeed to maintain our individual identities, but only within the context of the larger community.

The commentary Bet Aharon (Rabbi Aaron of Karlin, 1736-1792, disciple of Rabbi Dov Ber of Mezeritch) makes this point in an interesting way. “Every Jew must know and think that he is unique in the world, and there has never been another person exactly like him. If there had been someone just like him, there would have been no need for him. In truth, every person is someone new in the world, who needs to improve his character and his Torah for the sake of his soul, until the entire world has been repaired through the effort of the Jewish people.”

Let me expand upon Bet Aharon. In my view, this applies to every member of the human race. We live in a broken world - each of us can make a unique contribution toward improving it through our moral and ethical development and then by putting our learned principles into action.

It’s a pretty tall order. Look at it this way. Each of us is a "work-in-progress", an accumulation of mosaic tiles (nature, nurture, experience, education, relationships, etc.) that needs to be assembled into a complete, functional, and autonomous moral being; each of us is then a tile in a much vaster communal/societal mosaic for which we have individual and joint responsibility to assemble. When we put together the pieces of our own lives and our own souls, and place the tiles of our individual selves into the mosaic of the community, we are contributing to the improvement of the world as well.

It all starts with you.
Have a wonderful Shabbat! Chag Shavuot Sameach! See you at Mount Sinai!
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai
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Candle lighting:
Friday 7:32 pm
Saturday: After dusk from a transferred flame
Sunday: After dusk from a transferred flame
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Breakfast/Torah Study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows. Tikkun Leil Shavuot - an evening of Torah study for Shavuot - 9:00 pm, with Rabbi Flom, Reb Jason, and some nice refreshments.
Sunday: Shavuot Morning Service - 9:30 am
Monday: Shavuot Morning Service, with Yizkor - 9:30 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my beloved father, Martin Flom, whose yahrzeit falls on Monday. Y’hi izkhro liv’rakhah - his memory is a blessing.
This d'var torah is offered in memory of my beloved  grandfather, Jacob Slome, whose yahrzeit falls on Tuesday. Y’hi izkhro liv’rakhah - his memory is a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andreola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), and Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina).

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Thursday, May 10, 2018

YOUR BROTHER’S KEEPER

27 Iyar 5778 / 11-12 May 2018
Parashat Behar-Bechukotai
Torah: Leviticus 25:1 - 27:34
Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:19 - 17:14
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YOUR BROTHER’S KEEPER
"And if your brother becomes poor and his strength fails him, you shall support him, whether he is a stranger or a sojourner, that he may live with you." Leviticus 25:35
The great Kabbalist of Tz'fat, Rabbi Moshe Alshikh, notes that earlier verses were in the second person plural. That is, the Torah has set up a social regime to be followed by the community as a whole. In our verse here, however, the Torah switches to the singular. He says that, when a person needs help, everyone tries to shift responsibility to someone else, claiming that some other person is more closely related or has more means to help, or ... You get the idea.
R. Alshikh says the singular verb teaches that each of us, individually, is responsible for helping the poor. One cannot absolve oneself of this responsibility simply by referring the poor person to someone else.
This Saturday, May 12 is "Stamp Out Hunger" day, an annual program of the National Association of Letter Carriers and the US Postal Service. See their website, http://www.stampouthungerfooddrive.us/ for more information. Beneficiaries of the program are food pantries and shelters throughout the United States, such as SOVA. Don't forget to put out some canned or dried packaged foods (no glass) by your mailbox for your carrier to collect on Saturday. You are your brother's and sister's keeper! If you don't support them, who will?
Shabbat shalom.
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai
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Candle lighting: 7:26 pm
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. It’s a GAS - Guitar Accompanied Service, conducted by Steve Pearlman. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: NO Breakfast/Torah Study this Shabbat – Rabbi Flom still out of town, as is Cantor Reb Jason. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am, conducted by Steve Pearlman et al. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday: Happy Mother’s Day!
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn – Rabbi Flom out of town.
Friday, May 18: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, May 19: Breakfast/Torah Study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows. Tikkun Leil Shavuot - an evening of Torah study for Shavuot - 9:00 pm, with Rabbi Flom, Reb Jason, and some nice refreshments.
Sunday, May 20: Shavuot Morning Service - 9:30 am
Monday, May 21: Shavuot Morning Service, with Yizkor - 9:30 am.
Tuesday, May 22: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andriola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), and Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina).
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.
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