Wednesday, May 23, 2018

REPENTANCE FROM WITHIN


Parashat Naso
12 Sivan 5778 / 25-26 May 2018
Torah: Numbers 4:21 - 7:89
Haftarah: Judges 13:2-25

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REPENTANCE FROM WITHIN

"The Lord spoke to Moses, saying, 'Speak to the Children of Israel: A man or woman who commits any of man's sins, to commit sacrilege against the Lord, and that person becomes guilty - they shall confess their sin that they committed - he shall make restitution for his guilt plus an additional one-fifth, and give it to the one to whom he has wronged.'" Numbers 5:5-7

In his Mishneh Torah, Rambam (Maimonides) says that the commandment to confess is the foundation of teshuvah, repentance. For sins against God, we confess to God. For sins against our fellows, we confess to them and to God - for sins against others are also sins against God.

Why confession? Shouldn't restitution, especially with an additional amount, be sufficient? If the guilty party has made the victim whole, what is the point of confession? Compare this with the American legal system. Every day, hundreds of lawsuits are settled with the payment of money (not called "damages"), but with no admission of wrongdoing. We accept this as a way to end litigation, but we know intuitively that it is not the solution to the problem. It seems like the guilty party is buying a license - perhaps to sin yet again.

Why confession? In part, one must convince both man and God that one will not commit the sin again. But many of us can be convincing actors. We might even convince ourselves. An answer may be found in the Hebrew grammar for the word "confess" which appears in verse 7. The word is hitvadu, a reflexive form of the verb. The point is to cause introspection, to find the true source of the wrongdoing, to avoid the blame game. Someone who has confessed, both outwardly and inwardly, who has thoroughly examined the self, is much less likely to commit another offense. Some things money can't buy! True repentance comes from within.

Shabbat shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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Candle lighting: 7:36 pm

Friday: Shabbat Rocks! Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. A Rock ‘n Roll Service led by Reb Jason and the Band. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Breakfast/Torah Study – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Monday: Memorial Day. Before you fire up the grill, raise the flag, and remember US service personnel who gave their lives, so you would be free to have that BBQ.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my uncle, Hans Schack, whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of all those who died in service to their country.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Hiroe Andreola, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Jonathan Woolf.

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