Thursday, December 13, 2018

ONE BUT NOT THE OTHER?


7 Tevet 5779 / 14-15 December 2018
Parashat Vayiggash
Torah: Genesis 44:18 - 47:27
Haftarah: Ezekiel 37:15-28

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ONE BUT NOT THE OTHER?

"And they told him, saying, 'Joseph is yet alive, and he is governor over all the land of Egypt.' And Jacob's heart fainted, for he did not believe them." Genesis 45:26

The Kotzker Rebbe, Menachem Mendel (d. 1859) teaches: When one says a person is "alive", the implication is that he is righteous - for only that path is true living. Thus, Jacob was told that Joseph was both righteous and the ruler of Egypt. To Jacob, those were mutually exclusive.

The Kotzker may have been drawing upon a well-known teaching of the Rabbis: "Even in their lifetime, the wicked are called dead." (Babylonian Talmud Berakhot 18) My question is: why would Jacob think that righteousness and rule over Egypt were contradictory?

In much of his teaching, the Kotzker emphasizes the search for truth, the need for humility, and constant self-examination and self-criticism - all of which he might characterize as righteousness. If indeed Joseph is the ruler of Egypt, with unimaginable power and ostentatious wealth, this could well prevent him from following the paths of righteousness.

An answer, according to Rabbi Chaim Sofer (d. 1886), is found in the next verse: "And they told him all that Joseph had spoken to them". He says that Jacob was revived, and he believed his sons, only after hearing that Joseph had said, "God has made me lord over all Egypt." (Gen. 45:9) Jacob knew that, so long as Joseph recognized that all he had had come from God, he truly could be both powerful and righteous.

May we all have the wisdom and righteousness of Joseph.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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