Thursday, January 24, 2019

CLOTHES DON’T MAKE THE PERSON


Parashat Yitro - 20 Sh'vat 5779 / 25-26 January 2019
Torah: Exodus 18:1 - 20:23
Haftarah: Isaiah 6:1 - 7:6; 9:5-6 (Ashkenazim); Isaiah 6:1-13 (Sephardim)

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CLOTHES DON’T MAKE THE PERSON

"And the Lord said to Moses, 'Go to the people and sanctify them today and tomorrow; and they shall wash their clothes.'" Exodus 19:10

The 16th century Rabbi Moshe Alshikh, of Safed, says that the Torah teaches that it is not enough for people to worry only about the externals, such as washing themselves and their clothes, while neglecting themselves internally - they must be  clean and pure in both aspects. He adds, the internal aspect comes first - that is why they were ordered to sanctify themselves, and then to wash their clothes.

When one appears before a king to receive justice and mercy, one scrubs oneself and one's clothing, in order to make a good impression and not offend the king. But when one appears before the King of Kings, to receive the Holy Torah, as the Israelites (and all of us) do in this week's parashah, God wants the heart and soul to be pure before one worries about mere physical cleanliness. It should be so also when we pray and when we study Torah. If you think about it, shouldn't all of our dealings with other human beings as well be carried out in the same way? Every human being is an image of God - so we are always standing before God. If we always strive to act with purity of heart and soul, the externalities will take care of themselves.

Have an awesome Shabbat of standing before God – at Sinai – and everywhere else!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
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CALENDAR

Candle lighting: 4:59 pm

Friday – Early Shabbat Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Shabbat Dinner and Tu BiSh’vat Seder – 7:45 pm. RSVP to synagogue office. No payments at the door!
Saturday – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service - 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Sunday – Religious School – 9:30 am. 
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, February 1  Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, February 2 – Breakfast and Torah study - 8:45 am.  Shabbat Morning Service - 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.
Saturday, February 9 – NO Breakfast and Torah study – Resume February 16. B’nai Mitzvah of Adi and Eitan Buchnik – Mazal tov! Shabbat Morning Service - 9:30 am. Kiddush luncheon follows.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

TBH Religious School and TBH Preschool have open enrollment. Enroll your children now! Contact the TBH office for information.

And be sure to tell your neighbors, friends, and relatives about our warm and welcoming community and our programs!

We are looking for volunteers for services: chant Torah or Haftarah, daven, lead English readings, and have aliyot and other Torah/bimah honors. Training available! Contact Rabbi Flom by e-mail for details and to sign up!

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my aunt, Shirley Schack, whose yahrzeit falls on 25 Sh’vat / January 31. Y’hi zekherah liv’rakhah – Her memory is a blessing.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Liora bat Sarah, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Chanah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Marilyn Lee, Barbara Levy, David Marks, Frank Sorkin, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Bernie Seeman, Irwin Silon, William Sragow, and Jonathan Woolf.

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