Thursday, November 7, 2019

WHAT’S IN A NAME?

Cheshvan 11, 5780 /November 8-9, 2019
Parashat Lekh L'kha
Torah: Genesis 12:1 - 17:27
Haftarah: Isaiah 40:27 - 41:16

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WHAT’S IN A NAME?

"When Avram was 99 years old, the Lord (Y-H-W-H) appeared to Avram and said to him, 'I am God Almighty (El Shaddai). Walk before Me and be blameless.'" Genesis 17:1

In "Guide for the Perplexed", Rambam (Maimonides) writes that, contrary to what we might think, God has only one name - the Tetragrammaton which we do not pronounce but read instead as "Adonai" - Lord. Such "names" as Dayan (judge), Shaddai (almighty), Tzaddik (righteous), Chanun (gracious), Rachum (merciful), and Elohim (chief) are descriptive of attributes derived from God's actions, rather than actual names. It is dangerous, Rambam tells us, to think of these as names, for that leads to error. On the other hand, claiming that God has "attributes" may create the belief that there is a plurality within God, or worse, that there is more than one God. God cannot be subdivided in this way, according to Rambam, for God has no limits. Any attempt to describe God must fail because human language, and of course human beings, have limits.

Of course, this discussion does not apply to the names of human beings. Consider Avram, whose name means "exalted father". God tells him, "You shall no longer be called Avram, but your name shall be Avraham, for I make you the father of many nations." (Gen. 17:5) Indeed, in the Torah, names bestowed by God are destiny. But for those of us less fortunate than Avraham (or Sarai, whose name becomes Sarah, or Ya'akov, who becomes Yisrael), we create our destiny through our own actions. How we live determines how we are called, even after we die.

Rabbi Shimon taught: "There are three crowns - the crown of Torah (i.e., being a teacher, though one may be unworthy), the crown of priesthood and the crown of kingship (both of which are hereditary). But the crown of a good name excels them all." Avot 4:17

For good or ill, we make names for ourselves, and it is by those names that we are known.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise?  The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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SaturdayTorah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Junior Congregation – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows. 
Sunday: Religious School – 9:30 am.
Monday: TBH/CBM office closed – Veterans Day.
TuesdayLunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, 11/15SIMCHA Shabbat Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Shabbat Dinner follows. Join us to celebrate November anniversaries, birthdays, and more! The pareve/dairy dinner is complimentary to all, but reservations to the office by 11/13 are a must!
Saturday, 11/16Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am.
Sunday, 11/17: TBH/CBM Sisterhood meeting – 11:00 am. Religious School – 12:00 noon – 2:30 pm. NOTE TIME CHANGE! This is to accommodate the sofer who will be teaching our students and any interested congregants about how scrolls for Torah, tefillin, and mezuzot are made and written.
Friday, 11/22Shabbat ROCKS Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Reb Jason and the Shul of Rock with an electrified and electrifying service. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of the first Jews to die in the Shoah, the victims of Kristallnacht, November 9-10, 1938.

This d'var torah is offered in honor of all who have served in the armed forces of the United States of America. Don’t forget to fly Old Glory on Monday, 11/11.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Gabor Klein, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Ina Labowitz, Stuart Lytton, David Marks, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, David Russak, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

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