Thursday, December 19, 2019

PRINCE OR SLAVE?


Parashat Vayeishev
Torah: Genesis 37:1 – 40:23
Haftarah: Amos 2:6 – 3:8
Kislev 23, 5780 / December 20-21, 2019

COMING SOON: NEW ADULT EDUCATION PROGRAMS AT TBH/CBM!

Starting January 12, 2020, we'll have two Sunday morning classes:

1. "(Re) Introduction to Judaism", with Rabbi Richard Flom - Sundays at 9:30 am. This is a wonderful opportunity to learn or relearn everything they should have taught you in Hebrew School - and a whole lot more! This is equally useful for people considering conversion to Judaism. Cost: $180 for non-members, complimentary for members of TBH/CBM
2. "History of Israel and the Middle East", with David Silon - Sundays at 11:00 am.

Class schedules, curricula, and reading lists will be available on-line and in snail mail the first week of January.
 
Dedications and calendar follow below. For complete listings, see our web site at:





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PRINCE OR SLAVE?

"And it came to pass after these things that the cupbearer of the king of Egypt and his baker had sinned against their master, the king of Egypt. Pharaoh was angry at his two princes - the prefect of the cupbearers and the prefect of the bakers." Genesis 40:1-2

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch says that the reference to the two courtiers as "princes" is mockery. To those who served beneath them, they were "princes", wielding great power; but to the king, they were nothing more than slaves with fancy titles. He threw them into prison for no apparent reason. The cupbearer and baker failed to understand that, when one's position is dependent solely upon the whim of one's superior, one's position is, at best, precarious.

So it is all too often with people who attain positions of power granted by another. They clothe themselves in self-importance. The opinions of those who work for them are irrelevant. These "princes" believe that direct contact with the king somehow makes them as powerful as the king.

The most desirable community, it seems to me, is one where every member, whether leader or not, fully understands that they are serving a higher purpose; where there is no self-aggrandizement, no delusion of grandeur interfering with their dedication and perseverance. Fortunate is that community whose leaders understand that they are NOT royalty. Equally fortunate are the leaders and workers who serve that community which does not treat them like slaves. I am thankful to be a member of such a community! May it be thus for all of us.

Shabbat Shalom! Chag Urim Sameach!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise?  The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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Candle lighting: 4:30 pm

FridaySimchah Shabbat Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Simchah Shabbat Dinner follows. Dinner is complimentary, and reservations have closed. If you failed to make a reservation, we might still be able to squeeze you in. Thanks to Lynda and Tony Foster and family for sponsoring this dinner in honor of their wedding anniversary.
SaturdayTorah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday:  NO Religious School – resume January 5. Hanukkah begins at 5:31 pm. Get out your hanukkiyah, your oil or candles, your latkes, and your dreidels!
TuesdayLunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Thursday: Community Hanukkah Menorah Lighting and Dinner – 6:30 pm. Cost: $10/adult, $5 under 13, free 5 and under. Reservations by 12/24 are a must! Bring your hanukkiyah and oil or candles! Thanks to Gina and Bernie Seeman for co-sponsoring this dinner in honor of their wedding anniversary.
Friday, December 27: Shabbat Evening Service – 6:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, December 28: NO Torah study/breakfast – resume January 4. Women's Rosh Chodesh Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Tuesday, December 31NO Lunch and Learn – resume January 7.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Mark Brownstein, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Gabor Klein, Elaine Kleiger, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Ina Labowitz, Stuart Lytton, David Marks, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, David Russak, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

PUTTING GOD SECOND

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