Thursday, May 7, 2020

SPEAKING AND SAYING

Parashat Emor
Iyar 15, 5780 / May 8-9, 2020
Torah: Leviticus 21:1 - 24:23
Haftarah: Ezekiel 44:15-31

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This d'var torah is offered in memory of Steven Kleiger z”l, whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday, 16 Iyar. His memory is a blessing.

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SPEAKING AND SAYING

And the Lord said to Moses, "Speak to the priests the sons of Aaron, and say to them, 'None may be defiled for the dead among his people.'" Leviticus 21:1

Rashi, quoting B. Talmud Yevamot 114a: "Speak" and "say" - to admonish the big ones regarding the little ones.

Porachat Altah Nitzah: This is to warn leaders (literally, "those standing at the head of the people") to make themselves small, so that they do not step on the heads of this holy people, that they not be prideful and lord it over the people. (Quoted in IttureiTorah)

Our commentators see in the linguistic redundancy a hint at something more. Rebbe Elimelekh of Lizhensk is even more forceful. He suggests that the more powerful and influential one is, the more scrupulous one needs to be about even the least significant obligation or character fault. (Quoted in Itturei Torah)

More and more frequently, it seems, we hear political leaders, captains of industry and other powerful figures in our society tell us we must "tighten our belts" even as they make excuses for their excesses (that necessitated the belt tightening!) and justify them as entitlements that come with their positions. Even worse, they all too frequently demand sacrifices of others while carving out exemptions from those sacrifices for themselves and their friends.

Lord Acton wrote: "Historic responsibility has to make up for the want of legal responsibility. Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely." He might have been referring to this week's parashah - the unbridled exercise of power causes one to be defiled, one whose sacrifices (and good works) are thereby unacceptable to God, one whose soul can be irreparably damaged.

We need leaders - but we need leaders who know and respect their limits. How much more so as we in the United States go deeper into this year’s political season, and with the cloud of a pandemic hanging over our heads. Authority without responsibility is a license to do unmitigated damage. When will we ever "get it"?

Speak to our leaders, and say to them.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai
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