Monday, July 27, 2020

TO REMEMBER OR TO OBSERVE?

Parashat Va’etchanan – Shabbat Nachamu
Av 11, 5780 / July 31 – August 1, 2020
Torah: Deuteronomy 3:23-7:11
Haftarah: Isaiah 40:1-26 (First Haftarah of Comfort)

This Shabbat is known as Shabbat Nachamu, the Shabbat of Comfort, for the words of God and the prophet following Tisha B'Av (9 Av).

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Martha Gottschalk Stern (Lynn's grandmother), whose yahrzeit falls on Sunday, August 2 (12 Av). Y’hi zekherah liv’rakhah – Her memory is a blessing.

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TO REMEMBER OR TO OBSERVE?

"Observe the Sabbath day, to keep it holy, as the Lord your God commanded you." Deuteronomy 5:12

Rashi (quoting the Mekhilta d’Rebbi Yishmael): “At the first (i.e., Exodus 20:8), it says, "remember" (the Sabbath). Both were said in one statement and in one word, and they were heard simultaneously.”

According to the Midrash, Moses does not have a faulty memory. Since Moses cannot say two words at one time, the Torah uses "remember" in one place, and "observe" in the other. I have been taught that they are actually two separate commandments. One can perform one of these commandments without performing the other.

How is it possible to observe Shabbat without remembering it? Performance of mitzvot requires kavannah, the proper intent. If one carries out all of the rituals of Shabbat, does no work, and so forth, without reflecting on why one does so, without actually intending to do so, one has observed without remembering, and the observance is, in a way, incomplete. How is it possible to remember without observing? One might say to oneself, "It is Shabbat, and I will light the candles." But for some reason or other, one does not perform other Shabbat rituals, or one performs work, and so forth. One has surely remembered, but has not fully observed Shabbat.

I would suggest that remembering is more important than observing. This is because remembering can lead to observing (as it has in my own life), and one may thereby perform both of these commandments. But mechanical observance tends to turn into empty ritual – which is meaningless - and leads to forgetfulness, and thus the non-performance of both commandments. Perhaps in this context, we would do well to refer to the teaching of the Baal Shem Tov - "Memory is the source of redemption; forgetting leads to exile."

Even if you are not yet prepared to fully observe Shabbat, for your own sake, for the sake of your children, for the sake of the Jewish people, remember Shabbat.

Shabbat Shalom.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
.הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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