Thursday, December 24, 2020

SAME AS HE EVER WAS

Parashat Vayiggash
Tevet 11, 5781 / December 25-26, 2020 
Torah: Genesis 44:18 - 47:27
Haftarah: Ezekiel 37:15-28

Candle-lighting for Friday: 4:32 PM PST - Sherman Oaks, CA 

This week's Cyber Torah is offered in honor of my wonderful life partner Lynn Kronzek, as we celebrate our 40th Wedding Anniversary (!) on Monday, December 28. Happy Anniversary, my dear!

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SAME AS HE EVER WAS

‘And Joseph said to his brothers, “Please come near to me,” and they came near; and he said, “I am Joseph, your brother, whom you sold into Egypt.”’ Genesis 45:4.

Menachem Mendel, the Kotzker Rebbe, interprets our verse in this way: “I am the same Joseph that I was when you sold me into Egypt. I did not change in this corrupt country, and you do not have to be afraid that you caused me to become corrupted. I am Joseph your brother, the son of Jacob, just as then, when ‘you sold me into Egypt.’”

Joseph appeared to be an Egyptian. He spoke the language. He dressed like Egyptian royalty. He had power equivalent to that of Pharaoh. In order to do his job properly, he had to be more than passingly familiar with and sensitive to Egyptian religion, culture, politics, etc. He was an Egyptian. And yet, in his essence, he was the same Joseph he had always been - the son of Jacob, loyal to the God of Israel.
 
The United States is not Egypt, thank God. But there is no question that America creates danger for Jews in terms of total assimilation and the end of Jewish identity. However, one can be a serious and practicing Jew and still actively take part in the larger secular, non-Jewish culture. But it requires fortitude and an awareness of boundaries, as well as education in Judaism. The Midrash tells us that Joseph thought constantly of his heritage, of his father and of his God. By doing so, Joseph maintained his identity (and his sanity!), despite being a stranger in a strange land.
 
Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom 
TBH/CBM
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person. 
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1 
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