Thursday, December 29, 2016

NO TIME LIKE THE PRESENT

Parashat Miketz
Torah: Genesis 41:1 – 44:17
Maftir: Numbers 7:48-53
Haftarah: Zechariah 2:14 – 4:7
2 Tevet 5777 / 30-31 December 2016

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NO TIME LIKE THE PRESENT

"Now let Pharaoh seek out a discerning and wise man and set him over the land of Egypt." Gen. 41:33

Rabbi Shalom Schwadron asks this question: Why was a "discerning and wise man" needed to oversee the collection of provisions during the seven years of plenty?

He suggests that gathering and saving food during a time of abundance in preparation for a famine in the future requires true wisdom and understanding, because it is against human nature. He quotes the Talmud (Tamid 32a): "Who is wise? One who has foresight." What is more, Joseph had to convince Pharaoh and the entire Egyptian nation to share in this foresight, which required even further wisdom on his part.

In our own lives, we often look back at missed opportunities. For example, when our children are young, we have many chances for teaching them about our heritage. There are Shabbat and Holy Day observances, religious school education, and what the educators call "teaching moments" which can arise at any time. Once they are gone, they are gone forever. It's true that Shabbat comes every week, and the festivals come annually, but _this_ Shabbat and _this_ religious school class will never come again.

As we and our children grow older, the missed opportunities begin to pile up. Work, school, activities and the like begin to take over, and the religious and spiritual education begins to take a back seat. At some point, we look back and tell ourselves that we know too little and that it is too late to get the education. We begin to wonder why our children know so little, and do not practice the religion of our ancestors.

Of course, it's never too late to learn! Nevertheless, we need to bank learning and practice now, for the famine of opportunity which we know will come. The difference between us and Joseph is that he knew exactly when the famine would begin. We are not that wise. But we are wise enough to know that there is no time like the present to begin to add to our stores of knowledge and observance. In doing so, we avoid spiritual starvation in the lean years to come.

Chag Urim Sameach and Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
Visit me on Facebook
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"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 87b
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Candle lighting: 4:35 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch in honor of our wedding anniversary and the bar mitzvah anniversary of Robert Flom follows services.
Sunday – NO Religious School or Adult Hebrew class – both resume 1/15.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Sunday, 1/8 – Movie, Pizza and Ice Cream Bar Night – 7:00 pm. We’ll be showing “Defiance”, the true story of the Bielski brothers during WW II.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, HaRav Yisrael Shimon ben Liebah Breina, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Sarah bat Devorah, Zehavah B’rakhah bat Leah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Beth Goldstein, Myra Goodman, Simon Hartman, Fouad Kay (Yehoshua ben Salima), Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek, Toni Linder, Roy Miller, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Naomi Zimmermann (Naomi bat Yorma).

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Wednesday, December 21, 2016

PRINCE OR SLAVE?

Parashat Vayeishev
Torah: Genesis 37:1 – 40:23
Haftarah: Amos 2:6 – 3:8
24 Kislev 5777 / 23-24 December 2016


CHAG URIM SAMEACH! HAPPY HANUKKAH!


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PRINCE OR SLAVE?

"And it came to pass after these things that the cupbearer of the king of Egypt and his baker had sinned against their master, the king of Egypt. Pharaoh was angry at his two princes - the prefect of the cupbearers and the prefect of the bakers." Genesis 40:1-2

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch says that the reference to the two courtiers as "princes" is mockery. To those who served beneath them, they were "princes", wielding great power; but to the king, they were nothing more than slaves with fancy titles. He threw them into prison for no apparent reason. The cupbearer and baker failed to understand that, when one's position is dependent solely upon the whim of one's superior, one's position is, at best, precarious.

So it is all too often with people who attain positions of power granted by another. They clothe themselves in self-importance. The opinions of those who work for them are irrelevant. These "princes" believe that direct contact with the king somehow makes them as powerful as the king.

The most desirable community, it seems to me, is one where every member, whether leader or not, fully understands that they are serving a higher purpose; where there is no self-aggrandizement, no delusion of grandeur interfering with their dedication and perseverance. Fortunate is that community whose leaders understand that they are NOT royalty. Equally fortunate are the leaders and workers who serve that community which does not treat them like slaves. (I am thankful to be a member of that kind of community! J) May it be thus for all of us.

Shabbat Shalom! Chag Urim Sameach!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 87b
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Candle lighting: 4:31 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services. First Light of Hanukkah after Shabbat ends – 5:30 pm. Happy Hanukkah!
Sunday – NO Religious School or Adult Hebrew class – both resume 1/15.
Tuesday – NO Lunch and Learn – resume 1/3.
Friday, 12/30 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday, 12/31 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services.
Sunday, 1/1 – Meshuga Nutcracker – AJU – 2:00 pm.
Sunday, 1/8 – Movie and Ice Cream Bar Night – 7:00 pm.

This d'var torah is offered in honor of my wonderful life partner, Lynn Kronzek, on the occasion of our 36th wedding anniversary this coming Wednesday.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my uncle, David Flom, whose yahrzeit was on Wednesday, 21 Kislev. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, HaRav Yisrael Shimon ben Liebah Breina, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Sarah bat Devorah, Zehavah B’rakhah bat Leah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Beth Goldstein, Myra Goodman, Simon Hartman, Fouad Kay (Yehoshua ben Salima), Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek, Toni Linder, Roy Miller, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Naomi Zimmermann (Naomi bat Yorma).

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Thursday, December 15, 2016

HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH?

Parashat Vayishlach
17 Kislev 5777 / 16-17 December 2016
Torah Reading: Genesis 32:4 – 36:43
Haftarah: Obadiah 1:1-21

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HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH?

"Esau said, ‘I have a lot; my brother, let what is yours be yours.’ And Jacob said, ‘… Please take my present that I have brought to you, for God has favored me, and I have everything.’ And he urged him, and he took." Genesis 33:9-11

In his commentary "Kli Yakar", R. Shlomo Ephraim Lunshitz (d. 1619) wonders about this exchange between the brothers. Esau has "a lot" – he is wealthy and powerful. Jacob offers him a gift, saying that he has "everything". Esau accepts, and does not reciprocate. Kli Yakar says that one who says he has "everything" means "what I have is enough for me. I am satisfied with my lot." But one who merely says, "I have a lot" always wants more.

I am certain that virtually everyone reading this e-mail has "a lot". Perhaps we are not wealthy and powerful in the way that Esau was, but we have food, clothing, shelter, modern conveniences, toys of various sorts, etc. How many of us are prepared, like Jacob, to say we have "everything"? Why aren’t we satisfied? Why do we want more? I believe it is because we are unable, or more likely, unwilling, to say, "God has favored me." Without acknowledging that higher source, without opening up our spiritual side to be satisfied with that which God has given us, we will always have "a lot", but never "enough" – let alone “everything”.

Jacob gave a gift to someone who was at least as rich and powerful as he. He had his reasons. For those of us who have “a lot” or “everything”, are we prepared to give some of it up to those who have only a little or perhaps nothing at all - the poor and the hungry and the homeless? When we do, that is even greater testimony that God has favored us.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 87b
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Candle lighting: 4:27 pm

Friday – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services.
Sunday – Dreidels, Donuts and Latkes Hanukkah Celebration – 10:00 am – 1:00 pm. All are welcome – RSVP appreciated – no charge.
Tuesday – Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.
Friday, 12/23 – Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm.
Saturday, 12/24 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services.
Sunday, 12/25 – NO Religious School or Adult Hebrew class – both resume 1/15.
Tuesday, 12/27 – NO Lunch and Learn – resume 1/3.
Sunday, 1/1 – Meshuga Nutcracker – AJU – 2:00 pm.
Sunday, 1/8 – Movie and Ice Cream Bar Night – 7:00 pm

Mazal tov to Fran and Stuart Zimmermann on the birth of their grandson.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, HaRav Yisrael Shimon ben Liebah Breina, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Sarah bat Devorah, Zehavah B’rakhah bat Leah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Myra Goodman, Simon Hartman, Fouad Kay (Yehoshua ben Salima), Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek, Toni Linder, Roy Miller, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Lauren Wheaton (Dafna bat Yorma), and Naomi Zimmermann (Naomi bat Yorma).

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Thursday, December 8, 2016

AWESOME HOLY DREAMS

Parashat Vayetze
10 Kislev 5777 / 9-10 December 2016
Torah Reading: Genesis 28:10 – 32:3
Haftarah: Hosea 12:13 – 14:10

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AWESOME HOLY DREAMS

"And Jacob awoke from his sleep and said, 'Surely the Lord is in this place and I, I did not know.' And he was afraid, and he said, 'How awesome is this place! This is none other than the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven.'" Gen. 28:16-17

Rashi: For had I known, I would not have slept in such a holy place.

Shlomoh of Radomsk: "My I, I did not know." I erased everything that was in me; my self-awareness; ego consciousness; self-intention.

Jacob dreamt of angels going up and down a ladder. He realized that God was beside him, speaking to him, reaffirming the promise made to Abraham and Isaac. Then Jacob awoke. Had Jacob known that the place was holy, he would have slept elsewhere, according to Rashi. But then, perhaps he would not have had the dream. Perhaps God would not have spoken with him, and what would have become of the covenant with Abraham and Isaac? Was it mere ignorance through which Jacob came to sleep in such a holy place? How then did he merit a visitation from God?

Shlomoh of Radomsk, a mid-19th century Polish chasidic rebbe, suggests that it was not ignorance, but rather, intentional and practiced suppression of the ego, through which Jacob merited the dream and the promise. This seems to be the opposite of Rashi. Perhaps not.

By not being self-focused, Jacob became God-focused. Jacob became more attuned to the holiness around him when he stopped thinking of himself as the center of the universe. By living a minimalist physical (outer) life (he was using a rock for a pillow), Jacob maximized his spiritual (inner) life. Read Rashi, then, as, "Had I known (i.e., had I in my egocentric way been looking to know such a place), I would not have been able to sleep in such a holy place."

Holiness and communion with God come not when we look for them as entitlements, but rather, when we recognize the potential for holiness in every place and every person, and empty out our egos in order to become vessels for receiving that holiness.

Have a wonder-filled Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
Visit me on Facebook
Twitter: @DrahcirMolf
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 87b 
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Candle lighting: 4:25 pm

Friday – Early Family Shabbat Evening Service at 6:00 pm, followed by catered Shabbat Dinner at 7:00. Sorry, reservations for the dinner are closed.
Saturday – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services.
Sunday - Religious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday – NO Lunch and Learn this week – resume 12/20.
Friday, 12/16 – Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm.
Saturday, 12/17 – Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows services.
Sunday, 12/18 – Dreidels, Donuts and Latkes Hanukkah Celebration – 10:00 am – 1:00 pm. All are welcome – RSVP appreciated – no charge.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Gail Klar Friedenreich, who passed away on Sunday. Y’hi zikhronah liv’rakhah – May her memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my uncle, Daniel Flom, whose yahrzeit falls on Wednesday, 14 Kislev. Y’hi zikhrono liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, HaRav Yisrael Shimon ben Liebah Breina, Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Sarah bat Devorah, Zehavah B’rakhah bat Leah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Myra Goodman, Simon Hartman, Fouad Kay (Yehoshua ben Salima), Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek, Toni Linder, Roy Miller, Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and Naomi Zimmermann (Naomi bat Yorma).

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