Thursday, December 15, 2016

HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH?

Parashat Vayishlach
17 Kislev 5777 / 16-17 December 2016
Torah Reading: Genesis 32:4 – 36:43
Haftarah: Obadiah 1:1-21

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HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH?

"Esau said, ‘I have a lot; my brother, let what is yours be yours.’ And Jacob said, ‘… Please take my present that I have brought to you, for God has favored me, and I have everything.’ And he urged him, and he took." Genesis 33:9-11

In his commentary "Kli Yakar", R. Shlomo Ephraim Lunshitz (d. 1619) wonders about this exchange between the brothers. Esau has "a lot" – he is wealthy and powerful. Jacob offers him a gift, saying that he has "everything". Esau accepts, and does not reciprocate. Kli Yakar says that one who says he has "everything" means "what I have is enough for me. I am satisfied with my lot." But one who merely says, "I have a lot" always wants more.

I am certain that virtually everyone reading this e-mail has "a lot". Perhaps we are not wealthy and powerful in the way that Esau was, but we have food, clothing, shelter, modern conveniences, toys of various sorts, etc. How many of us are prepared, like Jacob, to say we have "everything"? Why aren’t we satisfied? Why do we want more? I believe it is because we are unable, or more likely, unwilling, to say, "God has favored me." Without acknowledging that higher source, without opening up our spiritual side to be satisfied with that which God has given us, we will always have "a lot", but never "enough" – let alone “everything”.

Jacob gave a gift to someone who was at least as rich and powerful as he. He had his reasons. For those of us who have “a lot” or “everything”, are we prepared to give some of it up to those who have only a little or perhaps nothing at all - the poor and the hungry and the homeless? When we do, that is even greater testimony that God has favored us.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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