Wednesday, April 22, 2020

TAKE A SECOND LOOK

Parashat Tazria-Metzora
Iyar 1, 5780 / April 24-25, 2020
Torah: Leviticus 12:1 – 15:33
Maftir (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh): Numbers 28:9-15
Haftarah: Isaiah 66:1-24 (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh)

Candle lighting: 7:13 pm

Kabbalat Shabbat Service this Friday evening at 6:30 pm PDT on Zoom (Meeting Number 418 318 664) or at https://www.facebook.com/BnaiHayim/ 

Downloadable and printable Siddur for Kabbalat Shabbat, Shabbat Ma'ariv, Shabbat Morning, and more, available at: 
http://www.rabbinicalassembly.org/form-download-e-siddur-0 


Hallel and Torah Reading for this Shabbat can be viewed and heard, or downloaded, and sung along with at: 
https://zoom.us/rec/play/u5ErdbipqDs3TtaQtQSDBaMqW9W9Jv6sgHQeqKUOyx7hBXIDOlClNedGa-TXROC-LDtnBX9YpokP_MJs?startTime=1587678894000&_x_zm_rtaid=GklF76A4TJ-b60XzgVUWPA.1587686436108.37cc8e084ef0b20577a7b46f2948f4cd&_x_zm_rhtaid=655 

Haftarah for this Shabbat, chanted by Susan Burke, can be viewed and heard, or downloaded, at: https://zoom.us/rec/play/vsV-Irih-j03HdPA5gSDA_R9W425KvqshCger_QOmUfmBXQBMVrzYeYQZbQnX1bqhuZtBOGIy7C4rGko?startTime=1587676839000&_x_zm_rtaid=GklF76A4TJ-b60XzgVUWPA.1587686436108.37cc8e084ef0b20577a7b46f2948f4cd&_x_zm_rhtaid=655 

This week's Torah Sparks from the Conservative Yeshiva in Jerusalem is available here: https://uscj.org/blog/parshat-tazria-metzora5780

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TAKE A SECOND LOOK

If ever there were appropriate Torah verses ...

“And the person with tzara’at, in whom there is affliction, his clothes shall be torn, his hair shall go uncut, and he shall cover over his lips; and ‘Contaminated! Contaminated!’ he will call out. All the days the affliction is in him, he will be contaminated, he is contaminated; he will dwell in isolation, his dwelling will be outside the camp.” Leviticus 13:45-46

We are all at risk for contracting the affliction; we are all at risk for spreading the affliction. Regard yourself and everyone else as contaminated. Stay home; stay safe; be well.

Actually, COVID-19 is not what I want to discuss. We have another issue in the way we treat each other, and that is making surface judgments about those we don’t know.

“And the priest will look on the nega (plague) in the skin of the flesh, and if the nega has turned white and the appearance of the nega is deeper than the skin of his flesh, it is a nega of tzara'at (usually translated as "leprosy"); and the priest will look on him, and pronounce him impure." Leviticus 13:3

Rabbi Y. Y. Tronk of Kutno (1820-1893, author of Yeshu'ot Malko ) teaches: This is a hint that when one looks at a person, one should not see only the bad points - where he has been afflicted - but should look on him as a whole, including the good points. This is why it first says, "the priest will look on the nega", and afterward it says, "The priest will look on him" - as a whole human being. (Quoted in Itturei Torah)

Just as beauty may be only skin deep, so might ugliness such as that of tzara'at be only at the surface. Who knows what wonders lie within? We don't judge a book by its cover – we look inside - why do less for a human being? Perhaps this is why Pirkei Avot says, "When judging any person, give the benefit of the doubt" (1:6) and "Do not judge your fellow until you arrive to his situation" (2:5).

Look twice before judging others.

Shabbat Shalom! Chodesh Iyar Tov!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
"Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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This d’var torah is offered in honor of the women of Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, who by all rights, would have been conducting services, chanting Torah and haftarah, and giving the drashah this Shabbat in our sanctuary. We are not permitted to meet there, but we honor them nevertheless. Thank you all for your service and dedication.

This d’var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Avram Yisrael ben Channah, Elisheva bat Malkah, Chanah bat Minnie Leah, Leah bat Sarah Imanu, Sheyna D’verah bat Hodel, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Stana Cooper, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kronzek, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Imanu), Barbara Levy, Gail Neiman, Sandra Raab, Josef Sands, Shirley Sands, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), and William Sragow.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

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