Thursday, August 21, 2014

SAY IT ISN’T SO!

27 Av 5774 / 22-23 August 2014
Parashat Re'eh
Torah: Deuteronomy 11:26 - 16:17
Haftarah: Isaiah 54:11 - 55:5 (The Third Sabbath of Consolation)
 
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SAY IT ISN’T SO!
 
"You shall not do so to the Lord your God." Deuteronomy 12:4
 
R. Menachem Mendel of Kotzk: Your worship of God shall not be "so", as a monotonous routine - one simply meant to fulfill your obligation - but for the sake of God and with a feeling of holy reverence.
 
"For you shall surely open your hand to him, and you shall surely lend him enough for his need, that is lacking for him." Deuteronomy 15:8
 
Rashi: You shall surely open even many times. (Citing Sifrei)
 
There is a conflict between two concepts relating to the fulfillment of the mitzvot. The concepts are keva' (regularity) and kavanah (focused intent). One must observe the mitzvot regularly, and become accustomed to them. At the same time, whenever one performs a particular mitzvah, one should do so intensely, focused on the holy significance of the act, and what it accomplishes. That's not easy to do on a regular basis.  That is possibly a reason for reciting a berakhah, a blessing, before performing a mitzvah.
 
But the giving of tzedakah, charity, is somewhat different. Tzedakah surely is a mitzvah. Thus we learn from the Kotzker Rebbe and Rashi that no matter how often we give tzedakah, with keva', it cannot be done in a rote manner; we have to do it with kavanah, with feelings of intensity and holiness.
 
At the same time, unlike virtually any other mitzvah, there is no b'rakhah, no blessing, recited before giving tzedakah. Perhaps the reason for no blessing is to prevent us from feeling too proud of ourselves for having performed the mitzvah. Another reason might be that it objectifies the recipient as a means to performing the mitzvah, and could also embarrass them. Perhaps more important,  the recitation of the b'rakhah delays the performance of the mitzvah, and with charity, time can sometimes mean the difference between life and death.
 
Give tzedakah, often, and know that it is a holy act. But don't think about it for too long.
 
Shabbat Shalom!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom - ZSRS '00
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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