Wednesday, August 27, 2014

THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD

Parashat Shoftim
4 Elul 5774 / 29-30 August 2014
Torah: Deuteronomy 16:18 - 21:9
Haftarah: Isaiah 51:12 - 52:12 (Fourth Haftarah of Consolation)
 
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THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD
 
"Thus (the king) will not act haughtily to his fellows or deviate to the right or to the left from the commandment ..." Deuteronomy 17:20
 
In the verses preceding the above, the king is instructed to always have a personally written copy of the Torah at his side and to study it all his life. It is to serve as a constant guide to him, to keep him from straying off the path that is commanded in the opening verses of this parashah ("Justice, justice you shall pursue" - 16:20 - found at the entrance to the US Supreme Court)
 
The past few years have seen an increasing coarseness and shrillness in our “civil” discourse. Whether discussing political or economic issues, matters of war and peace, local or international concerns, we seem to be losing our way in the manner in which we treat each other. “Respect” is merely a word. Those in power, those who seek power, and those who support them, at any level of society, more and more often treat those with whom they disagree as the enemy of all that is right and good. Extreme rhetoric begets extreme positions beget extreme conduct - it’s a dangerous path.
 
It is worth remembering that the Torah has a different approach to how rulers ought to exercise their authority. Staying between the lines of right and left, traveling down the middle of the lane - that is the way to go. What happens when a driver goes too far to the right or to the left? A wreck!
 
The staking out of extreme positions to placate a "base" is the exact opposite of what the Torah instructs. Look at the road - the lanes are wide - the boundary lines at the edges are narrow. This is why Rambam teaches in Hilchot De'ot (Laws of Character Traits) 1:3 - "The two extremes of each trait, which are distant from each other, do not make a proper path. It is improper for a man to follow them or to teach them to himself." This applies not only to our rulers, but to each and every one of us!
 
Extreme moderation - that is the rule of the road.
 
Shabbat Shalom!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom - ZSRS '00
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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