Wednesday, September 17, 2014

YOU’VE GOT A SECRET!

25 Elul 5774 / 20 September 2014
Parashat Nitzavim - Vayelekh
Torah: Deuteronomy 29:9 – 31:30
Haftarah: Isaiah 61:10 - 63:9 (Seventh Haftarah of Consolation)
 
Dedications and calendar follow below. See our web site at www.bethmeier.org for complete listings.
 
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YOU’VE GOT A SECRET!
 
“The secret things belong to the Lord our God; and those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may observe all the words of this Torah.” Deuteronomy 29:28
 
A number of Midrashim say this verse concerns sins committed in private – we cannot hide them - God still knows about them (and so does our conscience!). Some Chasidic teachers say that a person of great modesty and humility is a “tzaddik nistar”, a hidden tzaddik, who conceals his/her righteousness and good deeds from others, by doing them in secret - but God still knows about them. Both of these understandings tie in quite nicely with the traditional theological theme of Yamim Noraim - the Days of Awe that we are about to enter. That is, God takes an accounting of us, toting up the good, the bad and the ugly, and deciding what to do with us in the coming year.
 
The great Chasidic teacher Menachem Mendel of Kotzk takes a slightly different tack, and applies the verse to “cheshbon hanefesh”, the self-examination, literally the accounting of the soul, that tradition teaches we are to do at this time of year. He says that the “tzaddik nistar” is one whose righteousness is hidden from the very self - this is someone who has no idea of their own righteousness.
 
The lesson, as I see it, is that each and every one of us is potentially a tzaddik nistar. The trick is not to think that you really ARE such a tzaddik - there's a certain lack of humility. But, by being totally honest with ourselves in our self-evaluation, we may be able to learn how to continue to behave as well as how not to behave, and we can pass on all of that information to our children, directly and by example. If we do something wrong, we teach our children from our mistakes. And if we do something right, then they see it and we encourage them to follow. In short, don’t be overly hard on yourself - you just might be better than you think you are!
 
SHABBAT SHALOM!
L’SHANAH TOVAH U’METUKAH TIKATEIVU V’TIKHATEIMU!
MAY YOU BE INSCRIBED AND SEALED FOR A GOOD AND SWEET NEW YEAR!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom - ZSRS '00
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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CALENDAR:
 
Candle lighting:
Friday: 6:36 pm
Wednesday, 9/24: 6:29 pm
Thursday, 9/25: 7:23 pm
Friday, 9/26: 6:26 pm
 
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Join us for a joyful service, followed by Oneg Shabbat.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows. Selichot service - (with dinner for a small fee and RSVP!). Dinner at 8:00 pm, Havdalah and Selichot at 9:30 pm.
Sunday: Beth Meier Religious School – 9:30 am.
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn
Wednesday, 9/24: Erev Rosh Hashanah Service – 6:30 pm
Thursday, 9/25: Rosh Hashanah Morning Service – 8:30 am
Friday, 9/26: Rosh Hashanah Morning Service – 8:30 am. NO Shabbat Evening Service
Saturday, 9/27: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am
Sunday, 9/28: Religious School – 9:30 am
 
DON’T FORGET – Our High Holy Day services this year are being held at First Christian Church of North Hollywood, 4390 Colfax Avenue (at the corner of Moorpark Street, catty-corner from Beth Meier). Caution: Parking in the lot may be limited (80 spaces), but street parking is available.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of my grandmother, Cora Slome, whose yahrzeit fall on Tuesday, 28 Elul. Her memory is a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Bonnie Baird, Jeff Bluen, Elsbet Brosky, John Todd Brosky, Howard Ehrlich, Dr. Samuel Fersht, Jerry Forman, Leo Hoenig, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jeannie Kottler, Marilyn Lee, and Annie Rivera.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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