Thursday, May 29, 2014

MASTERY OF MONEY, MASTERY OF SELF


Parashat Naso
2 Sivan 5774 / 30-31 May 2014
Torah: Numbers 4:21 – 7:89
Haftarah: Judges 13:2-25
 
Shavuot 1
6 Sivan 5774 / 3-4 June 2014
Torah: Exodus 19:1 – 20:23
Maftir: Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah: Ezekiel 1:1-28; 3:12
 
Shavuot 2
7 Sivan 5774 / 4-5 June 2014
Torah: Deuteronomy 15:19 – 16:17
Maftir: Numbers 28:26-31
Haftarah: Habakkuk 3:1 – 19 (Ashkenazim); Habakkuk 2:20 – 3:19 (Sephardim)
Additional Reading: Ruth

Dedications and calendar follow below. See our web site at
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MASTERY OF MONERY, MASTERY OF SELF

"Each person's holy things shall be his; whatever a person gives to the priest, it shall be his." Numbers 5:10

The Talmud (Berakhot 63a), citing this verse, suggests that one who does not donate to the sanctuary ultimately ends up needy, while one who does donate becomes wealthy. There are several ways to look at this. One might read the Talmud literally; it also says that for the one who donates, "much money will be his" (they are talking about more than tax breaks!). Perhaps the Talmud is referring to spiritual need and wealth - the failure to give results in spiritual emptiness, but donating creates spiritual fulfillment. 

Rabbi Y.Y. Tronk of Kutno says that a miser is not the master of his money; only someone who is willing to part with his money is the master of it. Only by giving it away does he show that the money is "his"; i.e., it is under his control. Of course, the ability to give up that which is permitted and desirable demonstrates self-control as well. 

Judaism does not prohibit the accumulation of wealth, nor does it require self-denial. But it does prohibit the complete retention of wealth and it does require self-control. So, all of the viewpoints are correct. When we make donations to our synagogue, we literally make our community wealthier. We also assure that when we require the synagogue to fill our spiritual needs, it will be there for us. Nor can we deny the inner sense of well-being that comes from donating to an institution we believe in, for we are gaining something of value as well. It feels good to know that we are helping to build and maintain something greater than ourselves. Finally, in doing so, we demonstrate that we truly are the masters of our selves. 

When we donate holy things for a holy purpose, we increase our own holiness.

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Shavuot Sameach!
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City
, CA
http://www.bethmeier.org
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still." Isaiah 62:1
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CBM Calendar:
 
Candle lighting: 
Shabbat - 7:39 pm
Tuesday (Shavuot 1) – 7:42 pm
Wednesday (Shavuot 2) – 8:45 pm and yahrzeit candle if needed


Friday: Shabbat evening service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am.  Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday:  Religious School Culmination – 10:00 am. Join us as we celebrate the conclusion of the school year with lots of singing and noshing!
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn. Tikkun Leil Shavuot – An Evening of Study for Shavuot – 9:00 pm – 11:00 pm. Snacks provided – of course!
Wednesday: Shavuot Morning Service – 10:00 am
Thursday: Shavuot Morning Service (Yizkor) – 10:00 am
Friday, June 6: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm
Saturday, June 7: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am

This d’var torah is offered in memory of my father, Martin Flom, whose yahrzeit falls on Thursday, June 5. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – His memory is a blessing.
 
This d’var torah is offered in memory of my grandfather, Jacob Slome, whose yahrzeit falls on Friday, June 6. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – His memory is a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Howard Ehrlich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jayne Kaplan, Frank Marcovitz, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.


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Thursday, May 22, 2014

THE TEST

24 Iyar 5774 / 23-24 May 2014
Parashat Bamidbar
Torah: Numbers 1:1 – 4:20
Haftarah: Hosea 2:1-22

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THE TEST

“The Lord spoke to Moses in the Wilderness of Sinai, in the Tent of Meeting, on the first day of the second month, in the second year after their exodus from the land of Egypt, saying.” Numbers 1:1

This parashah, and the book of the Torah named for it, is called “Numbers” in English. But in Hebrew, it is “Bamidbar”, which means “in the wilderness”. The census taken in this parashah, the numbering, is done in the wilderness. The wilderness is a fearful place, with dangers both physical and spiritual. It is a place to be tested, to stand up and be counted.

The giving of the Torah will be commemorated on the holiday of Shavuot in less than two weeks. In the Midrash, Bamidbar Rabbah, it is taught that the Torah was given in fire, in water and in the desert. In a sense, this wasteland where our ancestors ultimately will spend 40 years, serves as a forge. Just as a sword is hammered and shaped, plunged into fire and water and sand, tested for durability, so were the Israelites.

Often, people having a life cycle event, whether a bar/bat mitzvah, wedding, graduation, or even a divorce or a death, feel they have passed a test. While that may be true, it is not the end, but the beginning. Now it is time to do something positive with the test results, and more especially with the knowledge and experience by which the passing grade was accomplished. It is life itself that is the ultimate test. And the Torah, given to our ancestors and to us, is the study guide.

Good luck on your exams!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
http://www.bethmeier.org
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still."  Isaiah 62:1
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CBM Calendar:

Candle lighting: 7:35 pm

Tonight: Shivah Minyan for Steven Kleiger at Kleiger residence – 7:30 pm
Friday: Shabbat evening service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am.  Kiddush lunch follows. Shivah minyan for Steven Kleiger at Kleiger residence – 8:00 pm.
Sunday: NO Religious School – Memorial Day weekend. Shivah minyan for Selma Schimmel at CBM – 7:30 pm.
Monday: Memorial Day. Shivah minyan for Selma Schimmel at CBM – 7:30 pm.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - Noon.

This d’var torah is offered in honor of Jaclyn Aviva Schwartz and Joseph Adam Yashinsky, who are celebrating their marriage on Sunday. Mazal tov!

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Steven Kleiger, who passed away last Friday. Y'hi zikhro liv'rakhah.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Selma Schimmel, who passed away yesterday. Y'hi zikhrah liv'rakhah.
This d'var torah is offered in memory of all the military personnel who died in service to the United States.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Howard Ehrlich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jayne Kaplan, Frank Marcovitz, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.

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Thursday, May 15, 2014

IN THE PRESENCE OF THE PRESENCE


17 Iyar 5774 / 16-17 May 2014
Parashat B’chukotai
Torah: Leviticus 26:3 – 27:34 (Chazak!)
Haftarah: Jeremiah 16:9 - 17:14 
 
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IN THE PRESENCE OF THE PRESENCE
 
“And I will set My tabernacle amidst you; and My soul shall not abhor you.” Leviticus 26:11
 
The Hebrew word for tabernacle, mishkan, has the same root as the word shekhinah, meaning “Divine Presence” or “Sheltering Presence”. The idea is that the shekhinah dwells in the mishkan. So, where was the shekhinah before the tabernacle was built? And where has it been since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem? For that matter, where has it been during all the travels and travails of the Jewish people?
 
The answer is in the verse itself. Read it as “I will set My Presence amidst you.” Wherever and whenever we are, the Shekhinah, God’s Sheltering Presence, is always in our very midst.
 
In traditional siddurim is the bedtime Sh’ma, and within that set of prayers before sleep, one finds this reference to four named angels and the Shekhinah: “In the name of the Lord, the God of Israel, may Michael (the one like God) be at my right hand; Gabriel (God is my strength) at my left; before me, Uriel (God is my light); behind me, Raphael (God heals); and above my head the Divine Presence of God.” The late Rabbi Shlomo Carlebach set this to music, and it sounds like a sweet lullaby. You can hear it here, performed by Reb Shlomo’s daughter, Nechama Carlebach:  www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0nWR28vNQA (Preview)
Play
(Show link)
B'Shaim Hashem-the Angel song
YisraelbenDavid
Neshama Carlebach
(Show link)
 
Wherever you are, wherever you lay your head, know this - the Shekhinah is with you. Rest easy.
 
Shabbat shalom.
 
This d’var torah is dedicated especially to Steven Kleiger, Marshall Neiman, and Selma Schimmel, to each of whom I sang "The Angel Song" this week as they lay in their hospital beds.
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City
, CA

http://www.bethmeier.org
Visit me on Facebook
 
"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still."  Isaiah 62:1
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Candle lighting: Friday, 7:30 pm
 
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: Religious   School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew class – 10:00 am.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - Noon.
 
This d’var torah is offered in memory of my cousin, Rabbi Chaim Moshe Flom, whose yahrzeit fell this week. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah – May his memory be a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Blimah Reizel bat Rachel (Selma Schimmel), Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Howard Ehrlich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jayne Kaplan, Steven Kleiger, Frank Marcovitz, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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Wednesday, May 7, 2014

YOUR BROTHER’S KEEPER

10 Iyar 5774 / 9-10 May 2014
Parashat Behar
Torah: Leviticus 25:1 – 26:2
Haftarah: Jeremiah 32:6-27

Calendar of Upcoming Events follows. For a full calendar and lots of other information about our community, visit: http://www.bethmeier.org/

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.

I am missing a book! If you borrowed “Seasons of Our Joy” (Arthur Waskow) from me, please let me know. I’d like it back in the next week or so.
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YOUR BROTHER’S KEEPER

"And if your brother becomes poor and his strength fails him, you shall support him, whether he is a stranger or a sojourner, that he may live with you." Leviticus 25:35

The great Kabbalist of Tz'fat, Rabbi Moshe Alshikh, notes that earlier verses were in the second person plural. Here, however, where the Torah refers to help for the poor, it switches to the singular. He says that, when a person needs help, everyone tries to shift responsibility to someone else, claiming that some other person is more closely related or has more means to help, or ... You get the idea.

R. Alshikh says the singular verb teaches that each of us, individually, is responsible for helping the poor. One cannot absolve oneself of this responsibility simply by referring the poor person to someone else.



This Saturday, May 10 is "Stamp Out Hunger" day, an annual program of the National Association of Letter Carriers and the US Postal Service. Beneficiaries of the program are food pantries and shelters throughout the United States, such as SOVA. (For more info, check out: http://www.nalc.org/commun/foodrive/) Don't forget to put out some canned or dried packaged foods (no glass) for by your mailbox your carrier to collect on Saturday. You are your brother's and sister's keeper! If you don't support them, who will?

Shabbat shalom.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City
, CA

http://www.bethmeier.org
Visit me on Facebook

"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still."  Isaiah 62:1
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Candlelighting: Friday, 7:24 pm

Tonight: (Re)Introduction to Judaism class – 7:30 pm – Topic: Shavuot Workshop.
Thursday: Board of Directors’ Meeting – 7:00 pm.
Friday: Family Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: NO Religious School. Happy Mothers' Day!
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn - Noon.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Blimah Reizel bat Ruchel (Selma Schimmel), Eve Beatty, Howard Ehrlich, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Jayne Kaplan, Steven Kleiger, Frank Marcovitz, Barney Meskin, Gail Neiman, Marshall Neiman, and Phil Raider.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.

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