Tuesday, August 28, 2018

GAVE TITHES YET?


Parashat Ki Tavo
Elul 21, 5778 / August 31 – September 1, 2018
Torah: Deuteronomy 26:1 - 29:8
Haftarah: Isaiah 60:1-22 (Sixth Haftarah of Consolation)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


Rosh Hashanah begins the evening of Sunday, September 9. Please get your membership and ticket orders in to the office ASAP. Also, if you want to remember your friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance, contact the office ASAP.

For the past few years, I have created a Cheshbon Hanefesh Worksheet, to help get us all ready for the spiritual side of the High Holy Days (sorry, no recipes or floral arrangements!). You can pick up a hard copy at TBH/CBM, or download it from my blog at:


Also, some excellent on-line resources are available for your Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur preparations at:


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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GAVE TITHES YET?

"When you have set aside the full tenth part of your crop - in the third year, the year of the tithe - and you have given it to the Levite, the stranger, the orphan and the widow, that they may eat their fill in your settlements, you shall say before the Lord your God: 'I have cleared out the holy portion from the house ...; I have not transgressed Your commandment and I did not forget.'" Deuteronomy 26:12-13

With the destruction of the Temple, the end of the sacrifices, and the Kohanim and Levites therefore no longer entitled to tithes, one might think that the practice of tithing had ended. But this tithe, the one for the poor and propertyless, remains as the obligation of tzedakah. In truth, it has replaced all of the other tithes, so that one is obligated to give every year, not just one year out of seven - and not just from crops, but from earnings.

As the above declaration indicates, the tithe is holy. But note that, unlike virtually any other mitzvah, there is no blessing or statement of intent before performing the act - there is only an affirmation afterward.

One reason for this may be that the tithe has to be separated out first - if I say a blessing and then begin measuring out the tithe, I might be distracted and never fulfill the mitzvah, or I might decide that I can't or won't give the full amount. Then the blessing would have been said in vain, making me a liar.

A second, and perhaps more compelling reason, is that when people are in need, when they are hungry - they shouldn't be made to wait while we tell God that we are going to help them. Actions speak louder than words.

With this year coming to a close, now is the time to dole out the full measure of tzedakah, so that our prayers for a good new year will have merit behind them.

Have a wonderful Shabbat, a meaningful Selichot, and a Happy Labor Day!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:02 pm

FridayShabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
SaturdayShabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch sponsored by Ann Signett, in celebration of her 90th birthday (!) follows. Selichot Service with Rabbi Jason Van Leeuwen – 9:00 pm.
TuesdayNO Lunch and Learn – Rabbi Flom out of town. Due to Holy Days, we will not resume until October 9 – yikes!

See our website for full High Holy Day schedule, or check your tickets or other correspondence from the synagogue.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Barbara Shear-Hill, Irwin Silon, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

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Monday, August 27, 2018

LOST AND FOUND


Elul 14, 5778 /August 24-25, 2018
Parashat Ki Teitzei
Torah: Deuteronomy 21:10 – 25:19
Haftarah: Isaiah 54:1- 55:5 (Double Haftarah – Fifth Shabbat of Consolation, followed by Third Shabbat of Consolation – it’s complicated)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


Rosh Hashanah begins the evening of Sunday, September 9. Please get you membership and ticket orders in to the office ASAP. Also, if you want to remember your friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance, contact the office ASAP.

For the past few years, I have created a Cheshbon Hanefesh Worksheet, to help get us all ready for the spiritual side of the High Holy Days (sorry, no recipes or floral arrangements!). You can pick up a hard copy at TBH/CBM, or download it from my blog at:


Also, some excellent on-line resources are available for your Rosh Hashanah preparations at:


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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LOST AND FOUND

"Do not watch your brother's ox or his sheep go astray and hide yourself from them; you shall surely return them to your brother." Deuteronomy 22:1

Rabbeinu Bachya (Spain, 13th-14th C.) compares this verse with a similar verse at Exodus 23:4: "If you meet your enemy's ox or his ass going astray, you shall surely bring it back to him again.”

What great insight! This mitzvah of returning lost property, like every other, is not properly observed if one does it grudgingly or with bad feelings. And it's not simply about returning lost property - it's about good fellowship. Even more, it's about repentance. For the words "hasheiv t'shivem" - you shall surely return them - come from the same root as "teshuvah" - repentance. In losing one's hatred, one performs teshuvah and finds friendship in the performance of the simple mitzvah of returning lost property. Try it – you have nothing to lose but your animosity!

Have a wonderful Shabbat!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:11 pm

FridayCool Shabbat Evening Service with Steve Pearlman and Rabbi Flom – A Guitar-Accompanied Service – It’s a GAS! – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
SaturdayTorah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: TBH/CBM Membership Open House and Religious School Registration: 11:00 am – 1:00 pm. Come on down with your family and friends who might be interested in joining our growing community. Schmooze with old friends and make new ones! Get the kids signed up for Religious School this year.
TuesdayLunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Janice Ross, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Barbara Shear-Hill, Irwin Silon, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Cyber Torah list management (no salesman will call!):
To subscribe to Cyber Torah, send an e-mail with the subject heading “Subscribe Cyber Torah” to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
Send requests for dedications of Cyber Torah in honor of a simchah, in memory of a loved one or for a refuah shleimah to: ravflom@sbcglobal.net
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Friday, August 17, 2018

CHESHBON HANEFESH WORKSHEET - 5779 EDITION


Cheshbon Hanefesh Worksheet

A Personal Inventory for the High Holy Days – 5779 edition

Traditionally, cheshbon hanefesh, literally an accounting of the soul, is undertaken during the Aseret Yamei Teshuvah – the Ten Days of Repentance from Rosh Hashanah through Yom Kippur. The entire month of Elul is even better, but in truth, any time is a good time.
With openness and honesty, giving the benefit of the doubt to yourself without being extravagant, being self-critical without beating yourself up, evaluate the following on an appropriate scale of your choosing. There is no yardstick. Every person is a work in progress – no exceptions!
Keep notes in a diary and add to them all year. These questions/reflections require much more than a mere score. Please feel free to add any topics you wish to evaluate. Consider both quality and quantity. Don’t forget to answer the most important questions of all: How have I improved since last year? In what areas do I need to improve? What are my goals in those areas? What will I do to reach them? Of course, there is no right answer to any of this ….. is there?

The People in My Life
How are my relationships with parents, children, spouses/life partners, other family, friends, neighbors, strangers, employers, employees, customers, teachers, et al.?
Who did I injure? Who injured me? How? Why? Does blame matter?
What did I do to make amends? Was it enough?
What did/can/will I do to assure it doesn’t happen again?
Did I apologize?
Did I ask for forgiveness? Was I forgiven? How do I feel about that? Was I not forgiven? How do I feel about that?
Did I forgive those who asked for forgiveness? How do I feel about them?
Is our relationship the same – better – worse? Reconciliation?
What did I do to heal the people in my life?
Did I help others reconcile with each other? Am I a rodef shalom?
Are there patterns, habits, addictions in my life I need to change? Are there good patterns and habits in my life that I should utilize even more?
Do I really hear and understand other people – their needs, hopes and dreams? How can/do I encourage them? Do I encourage them?
Do I accept others for who they are, even if they aren’t what I want them to be? Do I have the right to want them to be other than who they are?
Lashon Hara/Rechilut – Slander, gossip, offensive speech
            Did I speak/write it?
            Did I read/listen to it?
            Did I prevent others from spreading it?

God in My Life
Is God in my life?
Do I ever contemplate the Divine?
Do I ever contemplate holiness? Can I be holy? Do I see the holiness in other people?
Do I engage in regular prayer and/or meditation?
            Tefillin
            Daily prayer service/private worship
            Bedtime Sh’ma (teach your children well)
            Blessings for Mitzvot
            Blessings for food/drink
Can I really imitate God?
Did I do teshuvah?
Did I forgive God for what happened to me? Can God cause anything to happen to me?

Jewish Ritual/Jewish Observance
Kashruth
            Biblical
            Halakhic
            Home
            Out
            Vegetarian
   Vegan

How are my Shabbat and Holy Days (general)?
            Know the stories/reasons
  Candles
            Kiddush
            Family Blessings
            Zemirot – table songs
            Guests
            Refraining from Work
            Attending Services
            Torah Study
            Reflection
            Havdalah
            Fulfilling/meaningful/involved/indifferent
How are my holy days? Specific
            Rosh Hashanah
                        Tashlikh
                        Shofar
            Yom Kippur
                        Fasting
                        Contemplation
                        Teshuvah
            Sukkot
                        Built/ate/studied/slept in a Sukkah
                        Ushpizin – honored visitors
Lulav and Etrog
            Shemini Atzeret
            Simchat Torah
            Chanukah
            Tu BiShevat
            Purim
                        Megillah Reading
                        Shlach Manot
                        Tzedakah
            Pesach
                        Bedikat Chametz
                        Seder
                        No chametz during holiday
            Yom Hashoah
            Yom Ha’atzma’ut
            Shavuot
            Tisha B’Av
            Yizkor – Do I remember them?
Mitzvot – Mitzvah means commandment – or is it a good deed?
            Have I taken on more mitzvot?
            Have I improved my observance of mitzvot I was already doing?
            Have I ceased mitzvot I was already doing?
            How?
            Why?
Judaism - Do I preach it, teach it, live it?

Study
Do I engage in regular Torah study?
Do I read Jewish books and/or periodicals?
What do I know about Judaism generally?
            History
            Holy Days
            Texts – Tanakh, Talmud, Midrash, etc.
            Culture
            Zionism
            Personalities
            Beliefs/tenets/philosophy
            Practices
            Halakhah
            Hebrew language
Israel
The State of Israel
The government of the State of Israel
The people of the State of Israel
The People of Israel (am yisrael) - yes, they are two different things
The Land of Israel
Travel – ever; recently; soon
Support (whatever that means, in whichever way one sees fit)
            How? When? Where? Should these matter?
            Israel Bonds
            JNF
            Israeli products
            Rallies
            Letter writing
            AIPAC
            J Street
            Peace Now
            New Israel Fund
            What do I think about the settlements?
            What do I think about the Occupation?
            What do I think about peace with the Palestinians?
            What do I think about the rabbanut?
Criticize (whatever that means, in whichever way one sees fit)
             How? When? Where? Should these matter?
Zionism - political - types
Zionism - religious - types


Tzedakah/Gemilut Chasadim/Volunteerism
Do I view others as B'tzelem Elohim - in the image of God?
"Tzedek, tzedek tirdof" - Justice, justice you shall pursue
Feed the hungry
Clothe the naked
Defend/care for the stranger in our midst
Hear the cries of others
Charitable donations
            How much tzedakah? (according to Torah and halakhah, tithing [10%] expected)
Donations of Time/Volunteer work
            Congregation
            Other organizations
Donations of Self/gemilut chasadim
            Bikur cholim
            Comforting mourners
            Comforting the afflicted
Jewish Community
How active in congregation?
            Affiliates
            Religious school/teaching
How active in other Jewish groups?
Reaching out to other Jews
Captive Jews

My Body, My Self
Exercise
Diet
Self-abuse (drugs, alcohol, tobacco)
Self-control
Care of the body
Care of the soul
Care of the mind
What did I do to heal myself?
Take reasonable advantage of the pleasing things in this world – art, music, good food and drink, travel, etc.

The Physical World Around Me
The environment – b’al tashchit – do not destroy; cleanup; conservation; global warming
Kindness to animals
Stop and smell the roses/meditate on the wonder of Creation?
Tikkun olam?
A Few Final Thoughts for Your Consideration
Do I deserve another year because I have been good?
Do I deserve another year because I will be better? I promise!
Am I prepared to do teshuvahtefillah and tzedakah?

© Rabbi Richard Flom - 2018

Thursday, August 16, 2018

PURSUIT OF JUSTICE


Elul 7, 5778 / August 17-18, 2018
Parashat Shoftim
Torah: Deuteronomy 16:18 - 21:9
Haftarah: Isaiah 51:12 - 52:12 (The Fourth Sabbath of Consolation)

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


Rosh Hashanah begins the evening of Sunday, September 9. Please get you membership and ticket orders in to the office ASAP. Also, if you want to remember your friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance, contact the office ASAP.

Some excellent on-line resources are available for your Rosh Hashanah preparations at:


Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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PURSUIT OF JUSTICE

"Justice, justice you shall pursue, so that you may live and inherit the land the Lord your God gives you." Deuteronomy 16:20

The Hebrew word "tzedek", translated here as "justice", means "righteousness" as well. It is also the root of the word "tzedakah", usually translated as "charity". It seems fitting that a word with multiple meanings should appear in a verse which is subjected to multiple interpretations.

The commentary "Hida" says that if one hurries to give tzedakah it is worth double, as if one gave tzedakah twice (tzedek, tzedek) - if you pursue it, to give it as soon as possible.

On the other hand, Rabbi Ze'ev of Zbarzh says that “yetzer ha’ra” - the Evil Inclination - not only tempts us to sin, it also entices us to be overly scrupulous. Therefore, the Torah teaches that we should pursue tzedek, tzedek by chasing away excessive righteousness, in order that we avoid becoming self-righteous.

How do we reconcile these two teachings? Rabbi Simcha Bunem of Pshischa says, "With justice you shall pursue justice. Even the pursuit of justice must employ only just means, and not falsehood."

There is a sense of balance implied here. We *should* hasten to act justly, but not for our own selfish reasons. And we should *never* give in to demands for a particular form of justice, no matter how much it might be deserved, if the pursuit of that justice is done in an unjust manner, or if it might tend to delay true justice.

Wishing you a wonderful Shabbat of justice and charity!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:19 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Shabbat  Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: TBH/CBM Open House – 11:00 am – 1:00 pm. Come on down with your family and friends who might be interested in joining our growing community. Schmooze with old friends and make new ones! Also, on August 26, when we will also be having Religious School registration.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Looking ahead:
Friday, August 24Cool Shabbat Evening Service with Steve Pearlman and Rabbi Flom – A Guitar-Accompanied Service – It’s a GAS! – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in loving memory of Janis Devorah Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls this Shabbat, Elul 7. Y’hi zikhrah liv’rakhah – May her memory be a blessing.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Janice Ross, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Barbara Shear-Hill, Irwin Silon, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

Cyber Torah list management (no salesman will call!):
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Wednesday, August 8, 2018

SAY IT ISN’T SO!


30 Av 5778 / 10-11 August 2018
Parashat Re'eh (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh Elul)
Torah: Deuteronomy 11:26 - 16:17
Maftir: Numbers 28:9-15
Haftarah: Isaiah 66:1-24

Calendar and dedications follow below. For a full calendar of events and other info about Temple B’nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier, check out:


Rosh Hashanah begins the evening of Sunday, September 9. Please get you membership and ticket orders in to the office ASAP. Also, if you want to remember your friends and loved ones in the Book of Remembrance, contact the office ASAP.

Please feel free to pass this on to a friend, and please cite the source.
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SAY IT ISN’T SO!

"You shall not do so to the Lord your God." Deuteronomy 12:4

R. Menachem Mendel of Kotzk: Your worship of God shall not be "so", as a monotonous routine - one simply meant to fulfill your obligation - but for the sake of God and with a feeling of holy reverence.

"For you shall surely open your hand to (the needy), and you shall surely lend him enough for his need, that is lacking for him." Deuteronomy 15:8

Rashi: You shall surely open even many times. (Citing Sifrei)

There is a conflict between two concepts relating to the fulfillment of the mitzvot. The concepts are keva' (regularity) and kavanah (focused intent). One must observe the mitzvot regularly and become accustomed to them. At the same time, whenever one performs a particular mitzvah, one should do so intensely, focused on the holy significance of the act, and what it accomplishes. That's not easy to do on a regular basis. That is possibly a reason for reciting a b’rakhah, a blessing, before performing a mitzvah.

But the giving of tzedakah, charity, is somewhat different. Tzedakah surely is a mitzvah. It might also be considered a form of worship in the sense of avodah – service to God. Thus, we learn from the Kotzker Rebbe and Rashi that no matter how often we give tzedakah, with keva', it cannot be done in a rote manner; we must do it with kavanah, with feelings of intensity and holiness.

Unlike virtually any other mitzvah, there is no b'rakhah, no blessing, recited before giving tzedakah. Perhaps the reason for no blessing is to prevent us from feeling too proud of ourselves for having performed the mitzvah. Another reason might be that it objectifies the recipient as a means for performing the mitzvah and could also embarrass them. Perhaps more important, the recitation of the b'rakhah delays the performance of the mitzvah, and with charity, time can sometimes mean the difference between life and death.

Give tzedakah, often, and know that it is a holy act. But don't think about it for too long.

Shabbat Shalom! Chodesh Tov!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:27 pm

Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Torah study/breakfast – 8:45 am. Women’s Shabbat/Rosh Chodesh Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday: TBH/CBM Open House – 11:00 am – 1:00 pm. Come on down with your family and friends who might be interested in joining our growing community. Schmooze with old friends and make new ones! Also, on 19 August and 26 August.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon.

Looking ahead:
Friday, 24 August: Cool Shabbat Evening Service with Steve Pearlman and Rabbi Flom – A Guitar-Accompanied Service – It’s a GAS! – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in honor of all the women of our community, those who are conducting parts of our services this week, and those who serve the community in so many other ways. Kol hakavod!

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Annabelle Flom (Channah Bella bat Kreina), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Janice Ross, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Barbara Shear-Hill, Irwin Silon, and Jonathan Woolf.

Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to this list or if there is anyone who may be removed from this list.

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