Thursday, March 27, 2014

HOLD THAT THOUGHT - REALLY!

27 Adar II 5774 / 28-29 March 2014
Parashat Tazria (Shabbat Hachodesh)
Torah: Leviticus 12:1-13:59
Maftir (Hachodesh): Exodus 12:1-20
Haftarah (HaChodesh): Ezekiel 45:16-46:18
 
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HOLD THAT THOUGHT - REALLY!

‘And the person with tzara’at, in whom there is affliction, his clothes shall be torn, his hair shall go uncut, and he shall cover over his lips; and “Contaminated!  Contaminated!” he will call out. All the days the affliction is in him, he will be contaminated, he is contaminated; he will dwell in isolation, his dwelling will be outside the camp.’ Leviticus 13:45-46

The term tzara’at is often mistranslated as “leprosy”, but it is obvious from a close reading of the text that this is no typical physical disease. The person with tzara’at is called a “metzora”, and the Rabbis taught that this is a contraction for “motzi shem ra” - one who brings forth a bad name, i.e., a slanderer or gossip. Slander itself is referred to as “lashon hara” - evil language.

In Jewish tradition, this is a spiritual disease, one that each and every one of us contracts from time to time - some seem to have a chronic condition! It is a highly contagious disease that is difficult to stop from spreading. The story is told of a man who repented of lashon hara. He asked a rabbi how to atone. The rabbi said, “Cut open a feather pillow, and empty it out into the wind. Then go and collect all of the feathers.”

The Torah’s “cure” is to require one to separate oneself from the community for a time, cover up the lips, and cry out “Contaminated!” Rabbi Israel Salanter says that the metzora is told, “If you are so good at finding fault in others, separate from the community, live in isolation and search out your own faults!”

How can we cry out when our lips are sealed? We must cry within. Consider the meditation, following the Amidah, which begins: “My God, guard my tongue from evil and my lips from speaking guile.” 

This is a form of self-inoculation. If we isolate ourselves from slander and gossip by covering our ears, if we cover our mouths before we speak, if we examine ourselves before criticizing others, and if we cry out from the heart, then we can eliminate the contagion of lashon hara. Don't speak your mind - hold that thought!

Shabbat shalom v'lashon tovah - a Shabbat of peace and good language.
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City
, CA

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