Wednesday, July 30, 2014

BEARING AND SHARING THE BURDEN

This Shabbat is Shabbat Chazon, the Shabbat of Vision, so-called because we read in the synagogue on Monday night the horrifying vision of the Book of Lamentations. Sundown Monday is the commencement of the fast day of Tisha B'Av, the Ninth of Av, commemorating the destruction of the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem, and numerous other calamities which have befallen the Jewish people on the same date. Please join us for a brief service, study and discussion on Monday evening at 8:00 pm.

There is a Jewish tradition to have public fast days in times of trouble, such as drought or famine or war. Even if you do not normally fast on this day, please consider doing so in recognition of the ongoing war between Israel and Hamas.

Parashat Devarim - Shabbat Chazon, the Shabbat of Vision
6 Av 5774 / 1-2 August2014
Torah: Deuteronomy 1:1 - 3:22
Haftarah: Isaiah 1:1-27 (Third Haftarah of Admonition)

Dedications and Calendar of Events follow.

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BEARING AND SHARING THE BURDEN
 
"How (eikhah in Hebrew) can I alone bear your vexation and your burden and your strife?" Deuteronomy 1:12
 
Rashi: "Even if I were to say that I will do so in order to receive a reward, I may not do so."
 
Rashi offers the traditional Jewish take on personal responsibility. One is actually forbidden to voluntarily take on a burden that might be greater than one can bear, even (particularly?) if one does so in order to receive a reward from God and/or the community. One may not voluntarily injure oneself (except to save a life); also, too much responsibility assumed by one person can actually do damage to the community.
 
But what happens when one refuses to accept any share of the burden for communal needs? R. Yosef Yozl Horowitz takes Rashi's comment and stands it on its head. He says, "Traditionally, this verse is read to the melody of Lamentations (Megillat Eikhah, from the first word of Lamentations), to teach us that if a person refuses to assume the responsibility for community needs, and thinks that by doing so he makes things easier for himself, he will in the end find out that matters will be worse for him, and he will remain alone and isolated. How (eikhah) does one dwell alone?" (From Itturei Torah) I would add that, as John Donne said: “No man is an island.”
 
We are forbidden to take on so much that we become a burden on the community. On the other hand, we are forbidden to neglect our obligations to the community. These two teachings together offer a great insight, summed up by Rabbi Tarfon: "You are not obligated to finish the task, neither are you free to neglect it." Avot 2:21
 
If we share the burden, it's easier to bear. That's community spirit!
 
Shabbat Shalom! And have a meaningful fast.
 
Rabbi Richard A. Flom - ZSRS '00
Congregation Beth Meier
Studio City, CA
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"For the sake of Zion I will not be silent; for the sake of Jerusalem I will not be still." Isaiah 62:1
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Calendar and Dedications:
 
Candle lighting: 7:36 pm
 
Thursday: Jewish Federation Community Gathering in Support of the People of Israel – Valley Beth Shalom – 7:00 pm (please arrive early for security check)
Friday: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Join us for a joyful service, followed by Oneg Shabbat.
Saturday: Shabbat Morning Service – 10:00 am. Light Kiddush lunch follows.
Monday: Tisha B’Av Service and Study Session – 8:00 pm.
Tuesday: NO Lunch and Learn. We resume Tuesday, 8/12.
Sunday, August 10: Celebration of the Life and Work of Selma Schimmel, z’l, at Sportsmen’s Lodge Hotel – 1:00 pm. Sponsored by Vital Options International. RSVP to: Terry Wilcox: twilcox@vitaloptions.org
 
This d’var torah is offered in memory of Helen Tomsky, who passed away on Tuesday. Funeral will be at Mount Sinai Memorial Park – Simi Valley, on Thursday at 2:00 pm. Shivah details pending. Condolences to Rabbi Mervin Tomsky and family.
 
This d’var torah is offered in memory of my grandmother, Sarah Flom, whose yahrzeit is 10 Av (next Wednesday) and in memory of Lynn’s grandmother, Martha Stern, whose yahrzeit is 12 Av (next Friday). May their memories be blessings.
 
This d'var torah is offered in memory of Israel’s fallen soldiers. May their memory and their sacrifice be a blessing.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for all of the wounded IDF soldiers and all the wounded innocents in the fighting between Israel and Hamas.
 
This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah Mindel bat Toby, Elsbet Brosky, Howard Ehrlich, Dr. Samuel Fersht, Jerry Forman, Pamela Huddleston, Rose Jordan, Annie Rivera, and Helen Schugar.
 
Please let me know if there is anyone you would like to add to the refuah shleimah list or if there is anyone who may be removed from the list.
 
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