Tuesday, August 28, 2018

GAVE TITHES YET?


Parashat Ki Tavo
Elul 21, 5778 / August 31 – September 1, 2018
Torah: Deuteronomy 26:1 - 29:8
Haftarah: Isaiah 60:1-22 (Sixth Haftarah of Consolation)

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GAVE TITHES YET?

"When you have set aside the full tenth part of your crop - in the third year, the year of the tithe - and you have given it to the Levite, the stranger, the orphan and the widow, that they may eat their fill in your settlements, you shall say before the Lord your God: 'I have cleared out the holy portion from the house ...; I have not transgressed Your commandment and I did not forget.'" Deuteronomy 26:12-13

With the destruction of the Temple, the end of the sacrifices, and the Kohanim and Levites therefore no longer entitled to tithes, one might think that the practice of tithing had ended. But this tithe, the one for the poor and propertyless, remains as the obligation of tzedakah. In truth, it has replaced all of the other tithes, so that one is obligated to give every year, not just one year out of seven - and not just from crops, but from earnings.

As the above declaration indicates, the tithe is holy. But note that, unlike virtually any other mitzvah, there is no blessing or statement of intent before performing the act - there is only an affirmation afterward.

One reason for this may be that the tithe has to be separated out first - if I say a blessing and then begin measuring out the tithe, I might be distracted and never fulfill the mitzvah, or I might decide that I can't or won't give the full amount. Then the blessing would have been said in vain, making me a liar.

A second, and perhaps more compelling reason, is that when people are in need, when they are hungry - they shouldn't be made to wait while we tell God that we are going to help them. Actions speak louder than words.

With this year coming to a close, now is the time to dole out the full measure of tzedakah, so that our prayers for a good new year will have merit behind them.

Have a wonderful Shabbat, a meaningful Selichot, and a Happy Labor Day!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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Candle lighting: 7:02 pm

FridayShabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
SaturdayShabbat Morning Service – 9:30 am. Kiddush lunch sponsored by Ann Signett, in celebration of her 90th birthday (!) follows. Selichot Service with Rabbi Jason Van Leeuwen – 9:00 pm.
TuesdayNO Lunch and Learn – Rabbi Flom out of town. Due to Holy Days, we will not resume until October 9 – yikes!

See our website for full High Holy Day schedule, or check your tickets or other correspondence from the synagogue.

Next time you come to TBH/CBM, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Elisheva bat Malkah, Ze’ev ben Adeline, Eilite bat Miriam, Sarah bat Devorah, Susan Arbetman, Ken Bitticks, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Bernard Garvin, Leah Granat, Brandon Joseph, Gabor Klein, Philip Kovac, Tonya Kronzek (Zlata Malkah bat Sarah Emanu), David Marks, Debra Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga), Helen Schugar (Chaya Feiga bat Kreina), Barbara Shear-Hill, Irwin Silon, and Jonathan Woolf.

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