Thursday, October 25, 2018

COMMANDED BY EXAMPLES


18 Cheshvan 5779/26-27 October 2018
Parashat Vayera
Torah Reading: Genesis 18:1 - 22:24
Haftarah: 2 Kings 4:1-37 (Ashkenazim); 2 Kings 4:1-23 (Sephardim)

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COMMANDED BY EXAMPLES

"And the Lord appeared to (Abraham), by the terebinths (trees that yield a type of turpentine) of Mamre, as he sat in the tent entrance in the heat of the day. As he lifted up his eyes, he beheld three men standing before him; and when he saw them, he ran to meet them from the tent entrance and bowed to the ground." Genesis 18:1-2

Our Rabbis taught that, in this passage and those that follow, we learn several important mitzvot. First, we learn that just as God and His messengers visited the sick, we should visit the sick (Abraham had just been circumcised).  Second, we learn that just as Abraham greeted the men and offered his hospitality, we should offer hospitality to travelers. Third, we learn that just as Abraham ran to perform that mitzvah, we should run to perform a mitzvah.

Bikkur cholim, visiting the sick, is of the utmost importance. In doing so, in a very real way we bring God's Presence to the sick. We lift their spirits and comfort them, and in doing so, we come to understand their suffering. In telling the sick that we offer prayers for their recovery, they come to know that not only is God aware of their suffering, but that we are aware and care as well.

Hakhnassat orchim, hospitality, is equally important. Offering meals and lodging to travelers, especially strangers, shows the seriousness with which we take the commandment to love the stranger. Even the most luxurious hotels and restaurants maintain some estrangement, but the gracious giving of one's own simple food and shelter is like a warm embrace.

Ratz l'mitzvah kalla k'vachamurah, running to perform even a minor commandment, let alone a major one, shows our eagerness to serve both God and our fellow human beings. The Rabbis taught further that by running to the men, Abraham demonstrated that the mitzvah of hospitality is greater even than greeting the Divine Presence.

What is notable is that there is no commanding language here, no "Thou shalt". The Rabbis derived these mitzvot solely from the actions of God and Abraham. If we can learn these commandments from their actions, think of what our children can learn from our actions. If we visit the sick, feed the hungry, shelter the homeless, and clothe the naked, our children will do so too, and the world can only be a better place for it. Actions truly speak louder, and command better, than words.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
"שתיקה כהודאה דמיא"
Silence in the face of wrongdoing is consent.”
BT Yevamot 88a
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