Monday, July 20, 2020

BEARING AND SHARING THE BURDEN

Parashat Devarim
Torah: Deuteronomy 1:1 – 3:22
Haftarah: Isaiah 1:1-27 (Shabbat Chazon – Shabbat of Vision)
4 Av, 5780 / July 24, 2020
Tisha B’Av reading: Megillat Eichah – The Book of Lamentations

This Shabbat is Shabbat Chazon, the Shabbat of Vision, so-called because we read on Shabbat morning the rebuking vision of Isaiah, leading into the observance of Tisha B’Av on Wednesday night and Thursday, July 29-30, and the reading of the horrifying vision of the Book of Lamentations (Megillat Eichah). Tisha B'Av, the Ninth of Av, commemorates the destruction of the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem, and numerous other calamities which have befallen the Jewish people on the same date. Please join us on line via Zoom or Facebook Live for a community program of service, reading of Lamentations, study and discussion on Wednesday, July 29, at 8:00 pm. Links and study offerings will be posted later this week. Have a meaningful fast.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Sarah Labovitz Flom (my grandmother) and Martha Gottschalk Stern (Lynn's grandmother), whose yahrzeits fall Friday, July 31 (10 Av), and Sunday, August 2 (12 Av), respectively. Both were US immigrants and asylum seekers, escaping anti-semitic persecution from Romania (1902) and from Nazi Germany (1937 via France 1934).

Candle lighting: 7:41 pm
Tisha B’Av begins Wednesday, July 29, at 7:55 pm.

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BEARING AND SHARING THE BURDEN

"How (eikhah in Hebrew) can I alone bear your vexation and your burden and your strife?" Deuteronomy 1:12

Rashi: "Even if I were to say that I will do so in order to receive a reward, I may not do so."

Rashi offers the traditional Jewish take on the limits of personal responsibility. One is actually forbidden to voluntarily take on a burden that might be greater than one can bear, even (especially?) if one does so in order to receive a reward from God and/or the community. One may not voluntarily injure oneself (except to save a life); also, too much responsibility assumed by one person can actually do damage to the community.

But what happens when one refuses to accept any share of the burden for communal needs? R. Yosef Yozl Horowitz takes Rashi's comment and stands it on its head. He says, "Traditionally, this verse is read to the melody of Lamentations (Megillat Eikhah, from the first word of Lamentations), to teach us that if a person refuses to assume the responsibility for community needs, and thinks that by doing so he makes things easier for himself, he will in the end find out that matters will be worse for him, and he will remain alone and isolated. How (eikhah) does one dwell alone?" (From Itturei Torah)  As John Donne said: “No man is an island entire of itself.”

We are forbidden to take on so much responsibility that we become a burden on the community. On the other hand, we are forbidden to neglect our obligations to the community. These two teachings together offer a great insight, summed up by Rabbi Tarfon: "You are not obligated to finish the task, neither are you free to neglect it." Avot 2:21 If we share the burden, it's easier to bear. That's community spirit!

Shabbat Shalom! And have a meaningful fast.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
.הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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