Thursday, June 24, 2021

A MEANINGFUL LIFE, A RIGHTEOUS DEATH

Parashat Balak
Torah: Numbers 22:2 - 25:9
Haftarah: Micah 5:6 - 6:8

Tammuz 16, 5782 / June 25-26, 2021
Candle lighting: 7:50 PM
Fast of Tammuz on Sunday - 4:12 AM - 8:31 PM

This Shabbat will be my last service on the bimah as rabbi and spiritual leader of Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier as I become Rabbi Emeritus. I will continue to send weekly Cyber Torah to everyone on my list - and more subscribers are welcome. Our new/old rabbi, Rabbi Jason Van Leeuwen (Reb Jason), has kindly asked that I continue submitting my Cyber Torah for the synagogue's weekly mailings, as I have for years. However, there will be NO Cyber Torah next week while we take our months-delayed 40th anniversary trip.

For a real treat, send an email to bnaihayim@yahoo.com and ask to be put on the synagogue's Constant Contact email list - you'll receive Reb Jason's weekly d'var torah and a link to my Cyber Torah as well as full details on all our programs and services. 

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AN EASY DEATH, AN EASY LIFE

"Who can count the dust of Jacob, and the number of the fourth part of Israel? Let me die the death of the righteous, and let my last end be like his." Numbers 23:10
 
Try as he might, Bil'am the sorcerer is unable to curse Israel - he is only able to give blessings. One might say the ultimate blessing that he offers is the request that he die the death of a righteous Jew.
 
The Chofetz Chaim makes an interesting observation on Bil'am's statement. He says Bil'am wanted merely to die like the righteous, but not to live like the righteous. Living a committed Jewish life is not easy, he says; there are so many commandments and customs that restrict the believing Jew, 24/7. "This is permitted; that is forbidden." But death for the believing Jew, he teaches, is only a crossing over from temporary life to eternal life. For one who believes in the eternity of the soul and reward and punishment, death is not frightening. Hence, Bil'am wanted to die as a believing Jew. That's no great accomplishment, says the Chofetz Chaim. The real challenge is to live a proper, committed Jewish life.
 
Far too many of us, I'm sorry to say, take the Chofetz Chaim at his word - "shver tzu sein a Yid" - "it's tough to be a Jew". What is left unsaid is that it is also wonderful, if not downright awesome, to be a Jew and live a life of fulfillment! Reflect on the significance of observing any particular mitzvah, and consider that the entire system enables one to constantly join with the Divine. As well, we should recognize that not only are we all in need of self-improvement, but 
that practicing Judaism helps us achieve that goal! Yes, it requires learning and commitment, but that's a small price to pay for a cosmic connection and a life of meaning!
 
Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Temple B'nai Hayim/Congregation Beth Meier
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הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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Kabbalat Shabbat Evening Service with Reb Jason and Rabbi Flom Friday at 6:30 PM via Zoom and Facebook ONLY. NO Shabbat Evening services in the sanctuary until further notice.
 
Shabbat Morning Service with Reb Jason and Rabbi Flom Saturday at 9:30 AM
IN THE SANCTUARY and via Zoom and Facebook. ***See note***

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David Silon’s on-going class on Israel meets Sunday at 11:00 AM. Zoom and Facebook only.
 
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