Thursday, April 7, 2016

THOU SHALT NOT EAT UP THY NEIGHBOR

1 Nisan 5776 / 8-9 April 2016
Parashat Tazria (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh - Shabbat Hachodesh)
Torah Reading: Leviticus 12:1 - 13:59
Seventh Aliyah (Shabbat Rosh Chodesh): Numbers 28:9-15
Maftir (Shabbat Hachodesh): Exodus 12:1 - 20
Haftarah (Shabbat Hachodesh): Ezekiel 45:16 - 46:18 (Ashkenazim); 45:18 - 46:15 (Sephardim);

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THOU SHALT NOT EAT UP THY NEIGHBOR

"If a person has in the skin of the body a swelling, a rash, or a bright spot, and it is in the skin of the flesh like the plague of tzara'at, the matter shall be brought to Aaron the priest or to one of his sons the priests." Leviticus 13:2

Throughout this week’s and next week’s portions, the Torah describes "tzara'at", usually mistranslated as "leprosy". It does not appear to be any known physical disease. The Talmud says that "metzora", "leper", is really an acronym for "motzi shem ra" - "one who brings forth a bad name", i.e., a slanderer (slander is "lashon hara" - literally, "an evil tongue"). The Rabbis taught that tzara'at was inflicted by God as punishment for slander, and could not be cured by physicians. 
 

Rabbi Israel Salanter, the founder of the Mussar (Ethics) movement, notes that last week's parashah listed the various animals, fish and birds which are forbidden and those which are permitted to be eaten. He then teaches the following:

"The reason for this juxtaposition (between food and tzara'at) is because people are more concerned about not eating non-kosher food than they are about 'eating up' a person through lashon hara. Thus we learn that 'eating up' a person is no less a sin than eating a worm."

If only it were still true that most Jews cared about kashruth! Even if it were so, Rabbi Salanter is being gentle. If one violates the laws of kashruth, one can atone at a later date, seek and receive God's forgiveness, and observe kashruth again. But if one engages in lashon hara, the Rabbis taught, it is like murder, for which there is no atonement - just like the dead person, the murdered reputation of a slander victim can not be brought back to life. 

Forget about eating worms! We ought not engage in lashon hara anymore than we would cannibalism! What comes out of your mouth can be more deadly than what goes in.

Sh'mor et halashon - Guard your tongue!

Shabbat Shalom. Chodesh Tov.

Rabbi Richard A. Flom 
Congregation Beth Meier - Studio City, CA
Website: http://bethmeier.org/

"From the place where we are absolutely right, flowers will never grow in the spring."
"מן המקום שבו אנו צודקים לא יצמחו לעולם פרחים באביב"
Yehuda Amichai
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Candlelighting: 7:01 pm

Friday: Family Shabbat Evening Service – 7:30 pm. Rabbi Flom will be away. Thanks to Warren and Melinda Traumann for conducting the service. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday: Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am. Rabbi Flom back. Kiddush lunch follows.
SundayReligious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew Class – 10:00 am. Movie Nite! – 7:00 pm – “The Gefilte Fish Chronicles”. Snacks provided. No charge, but donations accepted.
Tuesday: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon
Friday, 15 April: Shabbat Evening Service – 8:00 pm. Oneg Shabbat follows.
Saturday, 16 April: Shabbat morning service – 10:00 am. Kiddush lunch follows.
Sunday, 17 AprilReligious School – 9:30 am. Adult Hebrew Class – 10:00 am. 
Tuesday, 19 April: Lunch and Learn – 12:00 noon

Saturday, April 23: Congregation Beth Meier Community Second Seder – 7:00 pm. Reservations Required! Deadline for reservations: Thursday, April 14.

Next time you come to Beth Meier, please bring some non-perishable canned and packaged foods and personal items (no glass) for SOVA.

This d'var torah is offered in honor of my wonderful wife, Lynn Kronzek, celebrating her birthday on Friday, April 8. Yom huledet sameach, my dear! Ad meah v’esrim!

This d'var torah is offered in honor of my aunt, Helen Schugar, celebrating her 90th birthday on Friday, April 8. Ad meah v’esrim!

This d'var torah is offered in memory of Peter Chernack, who passed away on Sunday. May his memory be a blessing to his wife Rebecca, his daughters Michelle and Daniela, and all his friends and relatives.

This d'var torah is offered in memory of my father-in-law, Abraham Kronzek, whose yahrzeit falls on Shabbat, 1 Nisan. Y’hi zikhro liv’rakhah.

This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Yaakov Rani Ben Margalit, Avi Shmuel Yosef Hakohen ben Bella, Miriam Minya bat Alisa Batya, Sarah bat Devorah, Ken Bitticks, Elsbet Brosky, Jerry Daniels, Maya Fersht (Maya bat Esther), Dr. Samuel Fersht (Shmuel Natan ben Gittel), Leonard Foint (Eliezer Moshe ben Esther), Jerry Forman, Stephanie Kane, Philip Kovac, Suzanne Rosenthal (Sima Devorah bat Chanah), and Deborah Schugar Strauss (Devorah bat Chaya Feiga).

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