Tuesday, June 13, 2023

UNSPOKEN TRUTH

Parashat Sh’lach L’kha
Sivan 28, 5783 / June 16-17, 2023
Torah: Numbers 13:1 – 15:4
Haftarah: Joshua 2:1-24
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This d'var torah is offered for a refuah shleimah for Chanah Bella bat Kreina and Devorah bat Feigel.
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UNSPOKEN TRUTH

"The Lord is slow to anger and abounding in kindness; forgiving iniquity and transgression; yet not remitting all punishment, but visiting the iniquity of fathers upon children, upon the third and fourth generations." Numbers 14:18

"The Lord passed before him and proclaimed: 'The Lord! The Lord, a God who is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in kindness and faithfulness (emet – truth), extending kindness to the thousandth generation, forgiving iniquity, transgression, and sin; yet He does not remit all punishment, but visits the iniquity of parents upon children and children’s children, upon the third and fourth generations.'” Exodus 34:6-7


The Grapes of Canaan (watercolor circa 1896–1902 by James Tissot)

Ramban (Rabbi Moses ben Nachman, aka Nachmanides) teaches, “Here (in our verse) Moses mentioned among the [Divine] attributes ‘slow to anger’ and ‘abounding in kindness’, but he did not mention ‘truth’ (which had been mentioned in Exodus), for according to the attribute of truth they would have been guilty.”

Rabbi Yitzchak in the name of Rabbi Hiyya said, “Why is ‘truth’ missing here? Because they (the spies) themselves caused it to be removed from here, for they were liars, and a person is treated in the same way he behaves.” Zohar Sh’lach L’kha, 161b

When God displayed His glory to Moses, He described his attributes as indicated in the Exodus text. However, when in our parashah Moses asks God to pardon the spies, and the people generally, he reminds God of only some of those attributes, omitting “truth”. Ramban says that Moses did not mention it, because if God applied “truth”, they would be sternly judged. (After all, we sometimes refer to God as dayan emet - The True Judge, or, The Judge of Truth) Perhaps Moses was hoping for less anger and more kindness, ignoring some of the facts – i.e., compassion (which he also did not mention!).

Rabbi Yitzchak implies that Moses omitted “truth” because the spies lied about the Land of Israel . Their very action prevented Moses from arguing for any form of truth as a defense (their fear, their history as slaves, maybe the Canaanites truly were giants, etc.).

Whatever the case, the spies and every other Israelite over the age of 20, except Joshua and Caleb, were punished by not being allowed to enter the land – they died in the desert. It’s not nice to lie. And that’s the truth!

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Richard A. Flom
Rabbi Emeritus, Temple B'nai Hayim
הַלּוֹמֵד מִכָּל אָדָם ?אֵיזֶהוּ חָכָם
Who is wise? The one who learns from every person.
Ben Zoma - Pirkei Avot 4:1
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